I wasn't as did say anything but would I have been if...

[MascaraOHara]

I told the woman who let her 2 small-ish (but old enough to be told) hildren to stop staring at me whilst I was naked in a communal shower at the gym?

I didn't cover myself up as didn't think about it at the time but I did feel like perhaps I should have afterwards and felt a bit guilty.

I heard one of them say "mummy there is someone in the shower" and then they both came abck for a curious look.. now if it were me and dd I would have called her back and said to dd something like "please don't stare, concentrate on what you're doing" instead ofleaving her there to have a good old stare at naked woman..

They were there for a fair while.

Would I have been unreasonable to call out to the mother that I was naked and perhaps she might want to stop her children staring at me?

What is the etiquette with stare-y children and nakedness in these situations?

Bloody hell fire you lot, here, take this stick with 6 inch nails in...Mascara - just bend over, there's a love....

To answer your question - I think if the mother had thought it a problem, she would have called the kids over. I'm guessing she would expect to find nekked people in that environment, so I think you can assume from the fact that she didn't call them, that she didn't have a problem. So I don't think you should have said anything for her benefit. If you were uncomfortable with 2 pairs of little eyes on your fanjo, then you would have been within your rights to ask them to sod off.

Now. Continue with the beating.

mp - I guess you've never used the communal showers at CenterParcs then?

I wouldn't be able to see the sign because I would have left my glasses in the locker.

MIXED showers are different

lol!

it doesn't actually tell you to leave your glasses on so you can read the sign telling you to leave your clothes on

Actually I would be rather rivetted by a Brazilian. I have clearly led a rather sheltered life wrt to naked women, I fear.

Then don't look!

I don't think their mama would have cared to be honest - as has been pointed out, nudity in the showers fairly commonplace. BUT I would deffo have told the kids to stop gawking, or I'd have made a face at them or something, or said loudly 'right you've seen me in all my glory now go and stare at your mum'. But then I never restrain myself if other people's kids are pissing me off as I have no reserves of tolerance left from dealing with my own little darlings...

Theres - being naked and being naked .
Some people only go there to flaunt their bits and pieces, Im sure.

at Hecate.

i take him to a private pool for children's swimming lessons, so no, i don't think it is unreasonable for me to expect an adult to be a bit more conservative.

lol, are adults more conservative in private pools?

OH NO!!! What happens in the centre Parc showers, I'm going!!!! PMSL (obviously not in a shower)

yes, but mom, you said you do not let your dh see you naked, I find that odd

nobody is being flamed from what I can see

You were in the shower, of course you were naked. I don't think it needed to be pointed out to the mother.

I do think children shouldn't stare at people though, naked or not. Looking and seeing is one thing, staring is rude.

oh yes - MASSIVE ORGIES in the showers are Centerparcs

Hmmmm. Obviously at home I wouldn't wear a swimming costume to shower, and am fine with my kids seeing me naked. That's not a problem.
But if using a communal shower I will keep my cozzie on to be discrete.
I will sunbathe topless if in europe, so it must be a fanjo thing.
Then maybe if i'd gone to effort of a brazilian I be more comfortable with people looking at it.

Not sure if any of this helps, i'm just thinking through how i feel about it.
Did you just start this thread so you can tell us you have a brazilian? If it didn't bother you then, no you were right not to say anything. If it did bother you, then don't be naked.

My dd once said to a lady in the shower at our gym
" your tummy doesn't wobble like my mums@

RESCUE RESCUE

are there people being flamed?

I can barely keep up with this but I'm crying with laughter thank you so much

TiggerTots - the showers at CP are along the wall as you go into the pool, so no privacy and mixed use, so I would advise you to keep your cozzie on - unless you are an exhibitionist

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!! I hope my orgy etiquette is better than my spelling!! LOL

I have a bald fanjo and dd once decided to share this fact with her friend at a sleepover. I heard her friend say back to dd

"my mummy's front bottom is like a bear!"

"wobble my hige tits and flabby arse then they get so scared they stop looking"

'I am going in the shower now, I will be naked. Thought I'd let you know'

onepieceoflollipop's raincoat

priceless not sure why this has all tickled me so much but it has

Noooooooooooooooooo!!!!

LOL No wonder DH was so excited about going!!!

I will be wearing polo necked knickers and a jumper in that case

Is this going in MN Classics?