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Would you consider dirty dancing with someone while drunk cheating?

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YappyQueen · 02/07/2024 21:23

Hey I know I posted another thread about cheating but this is what sparked the question. I was out at the weekend with a group of friends. There was two girls who have known each other a good while and I’m friends with both. The night was a good night and most were a bit tipsy drunk. These two girls were drunk. Both have male partners, one is married the other in a long term relationship, both have kids. Like I said they were both pretty drunk when they suddenly started really dancing dirty like they were together or something. They were dancing so close like no space whatsoever between them, rubbing themselves up against one another, grinding and doing those sl*t drops etc. basically flirty dancing. Kissing was involved but on the cheeks. I know some people and even girls do this on nights out, each to their own I guess. What really sparked the question is one of the girls boyfriend had a pissed look on his face. Think face like thunder but didn’t say anything. This happened towards the end of the night and there was loads of hugging involved. was this cheating or was this guy just a bit jealous or prudish?

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Mrsttcno1 · 02/07/2024 21:24

Dancing like that with one of your female best friends isn’t cheating no! If it was with a random man then yeah it’s crossing a line but with a best friend, no

Applepencilplant · 02/07/2024 21:25

I'd get a good book to read or buy a paper. Seriously.
Mumsnet is desperate now.

mycatsanutter · 02/07/2024 21:26

That's not cheating in my book

DracoDormiensNumquamTittilandum · 02/07/2024 21:27

No it's not cheating. I'd be pissed off and embarrassed if my partner did that in front of me though.

OriginalUsername2 · 02/07/2024 21:27

I’ve seen this happen on a night out. The woman thought the man would like it. He didn’t. Some would, but you’d usually have talked about that being a sexy thing to do beforehand.

YappyQueen · 02/07/2024 21:34

I didn’t really see anything wrong with a bit of dirty dancing but the way they were dancing it was like they were f**king on the dance floor

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maw1681 · 02/07/2024 21:35

No it's not cheating but I could understand why their DP would be annoyed- doesn't matter if they're just friends I wouldn't like my DH dancing with anyone like that. It's a bit immature imo

YappyQueen · 02/07/2024 21:38

My friend also messaged me to say that her other friend (the one who’s boyfriend was pissed) hasn’t talked to her since that night

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motherofkevinnotperry · 02/07/2024 21:40

Nope not cheating

YappyQueen · 02/07/2024 21:41

Maybe my friend’s boyfriend is just the jealous type. He gives me that vibe tbf

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AllCatsAreAutistic · 02/07/2024 21:52

It's not cheating, just a bit naff.

Lovemusic82 · 02/07/2024 21:53

They were just shit faced 😬 not cheating.

notatinydancer · 02/07/2024 21:58

Not cheating but cringey 😬 no wonder her boyfriend looked annoyed.

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