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WIBU to tell dog owner in park they should have better recall?

56 replies

Melawati · 02/07/2024 08:35

Every morning I walk with my autistic teenage DD to the station, she gets on the train to school in one direction and I get on the train to work the opposite way.
Last bit of the walk cuts through a park, not really fully in it, past the car park, tennis courts and couple of gates out on to the very busy road.
This morning, we were just at the edge of the car park when a medium sized dog came racing over to us, jumped up at DD, jumped up at me, licked my hand. We had to stop walking, or could have kicked it, as it was bouncing round our legs.
Looked around and two people holding leads are chatting over by the tennis courts, so I called out ‘hey, you need to call this dog’. The owner did but dog did not respond, after a few tries they walked over but the dog was not having any of it still bouncing about/jumping up. Dog owner says ‘oh it’s a game now’. I said ‘you really need to have better recall’, and then again in a bit sharper/louder tone. I was getting a bit annoyed tbh as wanted to get to the station not at the last minute so DD could get on her train calmly.
Dog owner walked a bit to the side eventually and dog followed so we could walk on.
DD said I was being embarrassing but I feel it’s not unreasonable to expect a dog in a busy city park to have good recall and for people to keep more of an eye on an off lead dog near a busy road & car park.

OP posts:
Opinionwontchangeluv · 05/07/2024 18:05

WiddlinDiddlin · 05/07/2024 17:14

No recall, dog out of control in a public place and if you felt there was reasonable chance of you being injured, then the dog was dangerously out of control in a public place.

If someones dog does not have a good recall then the dog needs to be on a suitable lead for the location, and the owner needs to train a good recall. Training a recall does NOT involve the dog being off lead and bouncing on people, at any point! (The owner should use a long line, clipped to a securely fitted harness, so they can stop the dog at any point and go and fetch them before they can approach strangers).

People like you should get fined for wasting police time. Dangerously out of control the dog wasn't what Terrible advice.

jbm16 · 05/07/2024 18:24

Misthios · 02/07/2024 09:32

What I mean is that I wouldn’t have stopped walking. If that meant the dog got inadvertently kicked, too bad.

What a lovely person! not the dogs fault!

parkrun500club · 05/07/2024 18:28

CelesteCunningham · 02/07/2024 08:42

Dog owners like this are the reason I have two DC who hate dogs.

Yes apparently anyone who doesn't like out of control dogs bothering them need help for their anxiety and phobia.

If I let my toddler roll around the floor and then run up to a stranger and lick them, I'd be rightly judged as an awful parent. But for some reason it's cute if dogs do it.

It is not. Train your dogs, and keep them away from other people until you know they like dogs.

muddymuckymoody · 06/07/2024 12:52

YANBU I have two children with additional needs who are scared of dogs and I’ve lost count of the amount of “dog people” who don’t control their dogs and see it as an opportunity to show how their precious pooch can cure my kids of their fear - because their dog is friendly 🙄

WoolySnail · 09/07/2024 16:23

greenpolarbear · 05/07/2024 17:33

You can tell them all you like, it won't make a difference.

As a teenager we had a dog that just didn't listen. He liked to copy what other people were doing, so if someone was running through the park he'd start running with them and they'd get mad about it. If they'd stop he'd stop straight away, but usually they just kept running and yelling.

They'd have a go at us, just nodded and smiled at them and paid no attention.

It was a pomeranian, wasn't doing anyone any harm. If you run through a dog park not expecting dogs, it's your own fault.

Edited

It wasn't a dog park.

parkrun500club · 10/07/2024 10:30

There are very few dog parks in the UK - in my view we need a lot more of them.

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