To not understand why she messages me?

[millennialboss]

I’m in a group teams chat at work where it’s general work chat but then sometimes a team meal will be decided on.

She will then message me privately to say, there’s a meal on the 10th. She knows I’m in the group??

I’d understand if it was a couple of days after and I’d not acknowledged it but she will literally tell me within minutes of it being posted.

Same!

She’s checking to see if you’re going, she’s being friendly.

Such wit 😂😂

Have you ever actually replied to her and said you’re in the group chat?

Sounds like she thinks of you as a potential friend?

Seriously!!! Come on!!!

Don’t get what the problem is…just tell her you’ve seen the message as you’re in the group chat! If she still does it just say- like I said last time- I’m in the group chat so saw the message..no need to remind me!

Nope it did not fail at all, it landed beautifully 😂 it was hilarious 🤣 very witty.
Guess it depends on your soh, 🤔

Maybe she just likes you?

Feels insecure?

Wants to be sure you're going before she commits?

It’s possible she wants to pal up with you …because she needs a friend.
Or maybe she’s just being friendly.

Just reply ‘yeah just saw it in the chat’.

Is this really annoying you that much????

She’s trying to forge a connection with you.

Maybe she feels more confident if you attend the meal maybe you don’t comment on the thread so she’s just making sure you are included.

I agree with this and think she wants to be your friend.

I laughed.

Why don’t you just say “Yes, I know - I’m in the group so I see all the messages 🙂” or something?

So did I!

Is she messaging you on the same platform as the group messages?

Are you renowned for missing messages?

Do you work PT? (And she maybe thinks you may not see certain messages?)

Thim he l pal

I thought this.
(Sorry about previous train!)

Have you not said ‘I know, just see in chat’ ?

Is she not just trying to be friendly like "ooh meal in the 10th" so you can have a separate chat either in a "are you going/let's go for drinks first/looking forward to it" way or in a "hope we don't go to x place/I hope Sleazy Tony doesn't go/I wonder if the boss will buy drinks" gossipy way?

Does she want to know if you are going to it?

No it didn't. I thought it was hilarious. 😅😆😂

I guess she’s just making sure that everyone gets the message or is it only you out of the group she does it to?