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Neighbour trimmed the tree that hangs over in to her garden......but

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Blushingm · 23/06/2024 16:05

She chucked all the bits she trimmed over in to my garden

Is this normal?

I don't mind her trimming it - trees grow - but I'm pissed off that she threw it all over in to my garden

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Roadaheadclear · 23/06/2024 17:06

SerendipityJane · 23/06/2024 17:04

Isn't it illegal to open someone elses post ?

😂

Roadaheadclear · 23/06/2024 17:07

Gillypie23 · 23/06/2024 17:06

Maybe you should keep your tree trimmed back from her garden.

It’s a tree, not her bush 😂

SerendipityJane · 23/06/2024 17:08

It's really annoying that posters keep repeating the same wrong information, when the rules have been clarified earlier in the thread.

You must be new here. The really key thing is HAS THE OP CANCELLED THE CHEQUE YET ?!

SmudgeButt · 23/06/2024 17:10

I must be the only person with reasonable neighbours. They have love big shrubs on their side of the fence that they prune regularly. And every time they ring our bell and ask if we want them to come and tidy everything up that's fallen on our side. Personally I'm just happy that they let me know stuff may have dropped on to some of our plants. Our garden is a mess compared to theirs but I'd get cranky if they dropped stuff on one of my rose bushes.

Obviously not the same situation as the OP.

dunkdemunder · 23/06/2024 17:11

YouveGotAFastCar · 23/06/2024 16:07

Legally that’s what she has to do. She can clip your tree where it overhangs her land, but she has to return the clippings to you.

No. She has to offer them to the owner. The owner can decline.

Blushingm · 23/06/2024 17:12

beckybarefoot · 23/06/2024 16:58

@Blushingm if you kept your tree tidy then the neighbour would have no need to return the cuttings... anything that overhangs the fence or whatever divides your boundries is classed an encrouching on their property.

i would do exactly the same

I think it is tidy - she obviously disagrees

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ThatsAFineLookingHighHorse · 23/06/2024 17:13

I think the law should be amended to say that clippings should be put in the tree owner's bin, not take up room in the poor neighbour's bin.

beckybarefoot · 23/06/2024 17:13

the next thread to appear will be.... my neighbour cut the overhanging branches of a tree.. and they disposed of the cuttings... is this theft!!

the mind boggles... the OP is simply pissed cos they have to clean up the mess! but if the tree has been kept tidy in the first place non of this would have happened

DaughterNo2 · 23/06/2024 17:13

HateMyNewJobSoMuch · 23/06/2024 16:17

Argh!

YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO CHUCK TREE BRANCHES INTO YOUR NEIGHBOUR’S GARDEN WITHOUT THEIR PRIOR CONSENT

**

Deary me. If it’s their tree, yes you can

User20056 · 23/06/2024 17:14

nightmareXmas · 23/06/2024 17:05

It's really annoying that posters keep repeating the same wrong information, when the rules have been clarified earlier in the thread.

More generally, I don't understand why people get upset if a tree or shrub crosses a boundary. As long as it isn't blocking light, what harm does it do? My neighbour's trees and shrubs all encroach into my garden, and one has produced a smaller tree on my side. We can no longer see the boundary fence! As far as I'm concerned I have a lovely natural boundary that cost me nothing! One of the trees needed a trim (for its own good) recently and I asked the neighbour's permission before trimming it. I knew I was entitled to do it, but it does no harm to be polite. I didn't offer the cuttings back as my gardener was taking the waste away, and they didn't ask for them. Sometimes it's about common sense and not following the letter of the law.

Me neither, I don't understand it. Mature plants are a massive plus.

Some people don't want nature coming onto their garden I guess 🙊

dunkdemunder · 23/06/2024 17:15

DinnaeFashYersel · 23/06/2024 16:27

She is legally allowed to trim anything overhanging her garden but must return all cuttings to you.

But it would have been polite for her to let you know rather than just chucking it over.

Edited

Gah. So many people getting this wrong. She must offer the cuttings to the OP but the OP can decline.

Then the neighbour is responsible for discarding them

Blushingm · 23/06/2024 17:15

beckybarefoot · 23/06/2024 17:13

the next thread to appear will be.... my neighbour cut the overhanging branches of a tree.. and they disposed of the cuttings... is this theft!!

the mind boggles... the OP is simply pissed cos they have to clean up the mess! but if the tree has been kept tidy in the first place non of this would have happened

I liked it as it was. It's a nice tree - I think it looks weird now. The way the sun goes it does shade her garden

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Funkyfizz · 23/06/2024 17:16

It doesn't matter if it's legal or not and there's no need for 50 people to keep saying the same bloody thing. If it's your tree that's hanging over your neighbours garden the least you can do is get rid of the trimmings.

User20056 · 23/06/2024 17:16

beckybarefoot · 23/06/2024 17:13

the next thread to appear will be.... my neighbour cut the overhanging branches of a tree.. and they disposed of the cuttings... is this theft!!

the mind boggles... the OP is simply pissed cos they have to clean up the mess! but if the tree has been kept tidy in the first place non of this would have happened

Give me strength.

Who would not be pissed if some entitled arse dumped a load of spiky branches into your boundary without asking you to take it? She didn't even ask op if she'd but the tree?!

Blushingm · 23/06/2024 17:16

@DaughterNo2 - according to this thread you're wrong

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LionBarPlease · 23/06/2024 17:16

TarantinoIsAMisogynist · 23/06/2024 16:42

Nope, I just value good relationships with my neighbours. If my plants are growing over their garden, I apologise and sort it out. They do the same in return.

These are the people who take parcels in for me, who keep an eye on my house when I'm away, who have a spare key for emergencies - of course I want to be friendly and keep them onside!

(Also, my neighbour wouldn't ever do this. We are friendly with them, and we communicate about stuff in both directions, so this kind of petty passive-aggressive behaviour doesn't ever happen.)

Edited

I have the same relationship with my neighbours too, but this is quite a passive aggressive (maybe just aggressive) move from the neighbour. I think the most I’d do is say ‘no need to give me the clippings back in future. As you know we trim professionally whenever we have council approval’ and see how that goes. I suspect they’ll continue though as it’s not really a good start from their perspective.

beckybarefoot · 23/06/2024 17:17

@User20056 lol... its the OP's rubbish. the OP should deal with it

AddictedToBooks · 23/06/2024 17:18

I've had neighbours that used to do this when we used to have a tree in the back garden and it felt so passive aggressive (especially as they used to literally lob them over my fence and mess my garden up and we'd offered to go round and cut the tree regularly and they refused).
Now that same house has a tree that's very scruffy and overgrown and growing into our front garden - not doing anything about it right now as there are birds nesting in it (it's a 10ft magnolia) but we'll ensure we ask first before we cut our side and we're just going to dispose of the cuttings in our own bin.
Just seems a bit arsey to throw it back over.

PixieLaLar · 23/06/2024 17:18

I think it depends on whether they already have a garden waste bin? If not then I can understand their logic of why should they have to pay/dispose of garden waste that isn’t even there’s…if they already have a bin then it seems petty and a bit odd.

User20056 · 23/06/2024 17:18

beckybarefoot · 23/06/2024 17:17

@User20056 lol... its the OP's rubbish. the OP should deal with it

They neighbour is a prick, she never spoke to op. If she did, it would be a completely different scenario. You don't take it upon yourself to do this, however.

SerendipityJane · 23/06/2024 17:19

It doesn't matter if it's legal or not

An interesting point of view. I'll remember that next time I smack someone in the face.

GuinnessBird · 23/06/2024 17:20

I'd throw them back over the fence. She cut them, she can dispose of them.

Funkyfizz · 23/06/2024 17:20

SerendipityJane · 23/06/2024 17:19

It doesn't matter if it's legal or not

An interesting point of view. I'll remember that next time I smack someone in the face.

Don't be so silly. The neighbour didn't dash the spikey branches at the OPs head.

beckybarefoot · 23/06/2024 17:21

@User20056 i get the impression from the OP's post and comments that a conversation about said tree was never going to happen, mybe the neighbour has mentioned on several occasions that the tree is taking away light, creating shade, or is downrigh ugly.

everyone getting their knickers in a twist over something which is generally what you are supposed to do.. its hilarious

taxguru · 23/06/2024 17:22

User20056 · 23/06/2024 17:16

Give me strength.

Who would not be pissed if some entitled arse dumped a load of spiky branches into your boundary without asking you to take it? She didn't even ask op if she'd but the tree?!

No worse than having to put up with trees/hedges encroaching on your property from lazy neighbours who can't be arsed to keep them trimmed on on their own land!