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Neighbour trimmed the tree that hangs over in to her garden......but

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Blushingm · 23/06/2024 16:05

She chucked all the bits she trimmed over in to my garden

Is this normal?

I don't mind her trimming it - trees grow - but I'm pissed off that she threw it all over in to my garden

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fieldsofbutterflies · 23/06/2024 16:33

BucketBouquet · 23/06/2024 16:30

It’s not only normal, it’s a legal requirement.

No, it's a legal requirement to offer them back to the owner.

You're not allowed to just chuck them back over the fence.

Lavenderflower · 23/06/2024 16:33

I think you are both in the wrong here.

loudbatperson · 23/06/2024 16:33

YouveGotAFastCar · 23/06/2024 16:07

Legally that’s what she has to do. She can clip your tree where it overhangs her land, but she has to return the clippings to you.

No that's incorrect.

They have to offer the clippings back, however the tree owner is under no obligation to accept them, and if the owner refuses them then the one who trimmed the tree is responsible for disposal.

theowlwhisperer · 23/06/2024 16:33

Durdledore · 23/06/2024 16:12

I agree - you should have done the neighbourly thing and cut it back yourself.

WHERE did you see the tree needed to be trimmed?

Yes trees grow, she might not like it but it didn't mean anything needed to be done to start with.

fieldsofbutterflies · 23/06/2024 16:34

BubziOwl · 23/06/2024 16:32

This thread is a good example of how very confidently wrong people are happy to be

It's quite scary really!

HateMyNewJobSoMuch · 23/06/2024 16:34

Please!

Neighbour trimmed the tree that hangs over in to her garden......but
ACynicalDad · 23/06/2024 16:37

There is enough misunderstanding on the thread that suggests she may be sightly out on the exact wording of the law, I wouldn't worry about it. Maybe next time you see her apologise that you hadn't cut it back and say that if she ever needs to do that again, you don't need to return them, just offer them, and in future, you'd be happy if she disposed of them.

BreakfastOfWaffles · 23/06/2024 16:37

With our neighbours, we have an unwritten agreement that we each trim our big trees and bushes ourselves, including going round to their side, trimming the overhang and taking clippings away. Anything I trim in between, I dispose of myself. But that's only pretty small stuff. If the neighbours didn't come and trim big stuff on our side that might not work so well!

LionBarPlease · 23/06/2024 16:39

TarantinoIsAMisogynist · 23/06/2024 16:14

It's allowed, and it means she is pissed off that you didn't trim it first. For the sake of good neighbourly relations I'd apologise and trim it myself in future.

Aside from it not actually being allowed, you’d have to be a special kind of doormat to apologise to them.

Durdledore · 23/06/2024 16:40

theowlwhisperer · 23/06/2024 16:33

WHERE did you see the tree needed to be trimmed?

Yes trees grow, she might not like it but it didn't mean anything needed to be done to start with.

It’s in the thread title - it hangs over into her garden. I imagined that it overhung in a way that was obstructive, hence the OP’s neighbour needing to deal with it.

TulipCat · 23/06/2024 16:41

Personally, I think the "letter of the law" is stupid in this case, because pretty much no tree owner wants to take responsibility for their overhang next door, so nobody is going to accept the "offer". They would all rather not deal with it, which I think is wrong. I'd be chucking back too.

TarantinoIsAMisogynist · 23/06/2024 16:42

LionBarPlease · 23/06/2024 16:39

Aside from it not actually being allowed, you’d have to be a special kind of doormat to apologise to them.

Nope, I just value good relationships with my neighbours. If my plants are growing over their garden, I apologise and sort it out. They do the same in return.

These are the people who take parcels in for me, who keep an eye on my house when I'm away, who have a spare key for emergencies - of course I want to be friendly and keep them onside!

(Also, my neighbour wouldn't ever do this. We are friendly with them, and we communicate about stuff in both directions, so this kind of petty passive-aggressive behaviour doesn't ever happen.)

GideonSmideon · 23/06/2024 16:43

TulipCat · 23/06/2024 16:41

Personally, I think the "letter of the law" is stupid in this case, because pretty much no tree owner wants to take responsibility for their overhang next door, so nobody is going to accept the "offer". They would all rather not deal with it, which I think is wrong. I'd be chucking back too.

I would, if they asked. I'd then have massive green wood bonfire when they had their windows open and washing out.

If they want them removed they should dispose of them too.

LittleRedHen77 · 23/06/2024 16:44

If she's otherwise a decent neighbour I'd just assume she thinks she believes she's doing what she is supposed to in throwing them back over. Several people on here believe this to be true so maybe she just believes the same.

Zone2NorthLondon · 23/06/2024 16:44

PowerTulle · 23/06/2024 16:11

She’s just doing the right thing legally.

No

NoSquirrels · 23/06/2024 16:44

Go round, knock on the door.

Hello neighbour, see you’ve trimmed the branches on your side. I just wanted to come and say you don’t need to give me back the trimmings, I don’t want them. Are you planning a tip run to get rid of any garden waste?

She’ll say No, it’s your tree so you need to get rid.

You say, actually it’s fly tipping just to chuck them back in my garden - I really am happy for you to trim but you need to dispose of the clippings. I don’t want them. So can I pop them in your green bin or where do you want them putting?

taxguru · 23/06/2024 16:46

OP, you should have trimmed it yourself and disposed of the cuttings. It's your tree after all.

The neighbour probably either has no green bin to dispose of them or their green bin is already full. Unfortunately, with councils charging for green waste disposal these days, such neighbour disputes are going to increase.

beckybarefoot · 23/06/2024 16:47

Blushingm · 23/06/2024 16:05

She chucked all the bits she trimmed over in to my garden

Is this normal?

I don't mind her trimming it - trees grow - but I'm pissed off that she threw it all over in to my garden

the law states she can cut any over hanging branches... she also has to return said branches to the owner... YOU.

she absolutely did the right thing

LookItsMeAgain · 23/06/2024 16:47

YouveGotAFastCar · 23/06/2024 16:07

Legally that’s what she has to do. She can clip your tree where it overhangs her land, but she has to return the clippings to you.

WRONG.

Legally she has to offer them back to you. You can then accept them back and put them in your compost heap or in your garden waste bin or if you have one a chipper for mulch. You are also quite allowed to say "Thanks but no thanks" and then SHE has to deal with the garden waste.

She doesn't have any right to simply chuck them over your fence. By doing that she could be seen as fly-tipping.

beckybarefoot · 23/06/2024 16:48

NoSquirrels · 23/06/2024 16:44

Go round, knock on the door.

Hello neighbour, see you’ve trimmed the branches on your side. I just wanted to come and say you don’t need to give me back the trimmings, I don’t want them. Are you planning a tip run to get rid of any garden waste?

She’ll say No, it’s your tree so you need to get rid.

You say, actually it’s fly tipping just to chuck them back in my garden - I really am happy for you to trim but you need to dispose of the clippings. I don’t want them. So can I pop them in your green bin or where do you want them putting?

do not whatever you do listen to this advise... its not fly tipping... its the correct way to do things... its the OP's tree its growing in the OP's garden and therefore the neighbour although well within their rights to cut the overhang, it is also the legal thing to do to put the cuttings back with the rightful owner.

Ifoundyourglasses · 23/06/2024 16:49

You lot are so arsey. Sometimes people get ill for a bit or trees/shrubs grow fast. Heaven forbid you sodding knock on your neighbours door about it first or put a note through. Does nobody talk anymore or you all just passive aggressive arses.

Our neighbour did this when DH was having chemo for cancer. It was a beautiful little tree and they hacked most of it down. If they’d just knocked we would have sorted it. Some of you sound so full of hate on here.

ZombieFoof · 23/06/2024 16:50

I'm a bit baffled by all the comments suggesting that OP is a terrible human being for not trimming "her tree". It's on the boundary so how is she supposed to reach the bit that grows over their side?

We have a scrappy half dead apple tree, choked by ivy, that sits just inside our neighbours boundary but still manages to produce and drop apples into our beck, which we have to clear out otherwise they block the calvert where it goes back underground. There is no way on earth that the neighbours can physically trim our side. The end.

MichaelFabricantsSyrup · 23/06/2024 16:50

beckybarefoot · 23/06/2024 16:48

do not whatever you do listen to this advise... its not fly tipping... its the correct way to do things... its the OP's tree its growing in the OP's garden and therefore the neighbour although well within their rights to cut the overhang, it is also the legal thing to do to put the cuttings back with the rightful owner.

NO IT’S NOT!!

she can offer the cuttings but the owner does not have to accept them. You are incorrect.

malachitegreen · 23/06/2024 16:50

Blushingm · 23/06/2024 16:05

She chucked all the bits she trimmed over in to my garden

Is this normal?

I don't mind her trimming it - trees grow - but I'm pissed off that she threw it all over in to my garden

It is a legal requirement that she do that

Ifoundyourglasses · 23/06/2024 16:51

No wonder disputes happen. Just knock on your neighbours door - the ones being so arsey about it.