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To keep DD home from school?

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BurtTheDurt · 23/06/2024 10:04

I’ve posted before regarding the death of DDs headmaster and the many remembrance / memorial events her school has had.

Anyway, there is to be a dedication of a block at the school to him (it’s a renaming of an old block), and it’s to be a half-day event with the school taking an early lunch at 11.30 ready for the unveiling and speeches from 12.30 until 3pm. The event takes place outside on what is supposed to be the hottest day of the year. There will be no shade and the kids are to wear full uniform, no hats and no bottles of water visible. DD will be very near the front as her surname is at the start of the alphabet.

I don’t want her to go and have to sit in the heat in a shirt, blazer and trousers for hours without being able to drink anything. She sometimes suffers from nosebleeds when it’s hot and has really bad hayfever at the moment.

Shall I just keep her at home that day?

OP posts:
BurtTheDurt · 25/06/2024 21:42

AppleKatie · 25/06/2024 20:17

You’ve done the right thing OP. Sometimes institutions make bad decisions. I’m certain most of her teachers would have done the same as you if they thought they could get away with it!

Thank you

OP posts:
T1Dmama · 03/07/2024 17:30

BurtTheDurt · 25/06/2024 18:01

You couldn’t have been more wrong.

The event was earlier this afternoon. I kept DD off today. At about 2.30pm she had a sneaky FaceTime call from a friend who was in the office after feeling incredibly faint during the ceremony, she showed DD there were at least another 7 or 8 children also there, all sipping water using cold packs. I’m glad I trusted my instincts and kept her off especially as she had a nosebleed very early this morning anyway.

I’m so glad you kept her home.
Bloody ridiculous of the school.

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