DP has really got to me
We usually only see each other every fortnight for 3 nights due to distance/work/kids etc.
Next month we will only have 2 nights/2 days together over one weekend and I will not see him after that for 1 month due to a week long event he is attending on the week he should have been seeing me later in the month.
He told me that on this particular 2 night 2 day weekend that we have together that he wanted to arrange to complete a challenge event in my area on one of the days which will take up a good chunk of the day and for me to go and stand and watch him.
I said I wasn’t happy with this as it was only 2 days that we had to spend together in a whole month and he wanted to spend one of those days running through a bloody obstacle course! He said I was being unreasonable and pathetic as it was something that was “important to him” yet this is the first I’ve heard of it and surely spending the time doing something together should be more important when the time we have together is already very limited.
He doesn't see where I’m coming from and it feels like everything else is always more of a priority to him at the moment than spending quality time together.
AIBU?