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To not understand the fuss over Taylor Swift.

294 replies

Partyinthedark · 08/06/2024 00:02

Now. I don’t dislike or have any hate for the woman at all. She is very pretty, talented and it sounds like she is a good person. Not my taste in music, but some of her songs sound good.

but omg. People seem to be bloody obsessed with the lady. £300 a ticket to the Edinburgh show. People queuing from 5am to get near the front.

as a guide leader in 2010 or thereabouts I remember some 12 year old girls declaring their love for her. But it seems like lots of adults seem to love her too!

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SummaLuvin · 08/06/2024 08:26

TheaBrandt · 08/06/2024 08:23

Shake it off is definitely her most shit song. Sadly I am obsessed with her music - but far from young!

as another huge fan I think A Perfectly Good Heart has a strong case for her worst song! How she put that on the album leaving off I'd Lie is something I will never understand.

PinkiOcelot · 08/06/2024 08:27

butterflywingss · 08/06/2024 01:09

Something a fan would say but you're choice buddy.. Taylor doesn't even know you exist 🥴

Just like God doesn’t know you exist, because he certainly doesn’t 😂

butterflywingss · 08/06/2024 08:28

Toooldforthis36 · 08/06/2024 07:57

@butterflywingss offending so many people here by insisting a story you buy into is real. Maybe for you, that certainly doesn’t make it real for everyone, and it certainly doesn’t make it fact.
It’s the very worst of the “my truth” BS

PS Taylor swift songs I find a bit meh - don’t see the attraction but hope anyone going has fun and feels it’s worth the cash!

I am offending people ??? I think it's the other way around. If MY beliefs are offending anyone then that's definitely an issue with them. I am allowed to make a point just as others are, just because you chose to have a different perspective doesn't make it right to throw attacks on me or God when it wasn't even a direct attack on anyone. Truthfully I didn't say anything bad, and anyone can choose to look past. The main point I was trying to make was that it feels so wrong to spend a ridiculous amount on a celebrity when there is so much chaos around us, & that's MY opinion. However, I do agree Taylor is meh and there is absolutely nothing special about her, again MY opinion.

butterflywingss · 08/06/2024 08:28

Ciderlout · 08/06/2024 08:21

As real as the fairy’s in my garden… 🪴

That's nice ☺️

PinkiOcelot · 08/06/2024 08:29

I don’t understand the fuss about Wimbledon, football, golf, snooker etc, but plenty of people do. Each to their own.

TheaBrandt · 08/06/2024 08:30

Do you give all your money to charity and not spend any of it on things you enjoy? Because that’s essentially your argument.

Ciderlout · 08/06/2024 08:31

butterflywingss · 08/06/2024 08:28

That's nice ☺️

Thank you 🤩

Oooooooodieeeee · 08/06/2024 08:31

LostTheMarble · 08/06/2024 08:24

You don’t think she’s talented? Or you’re confusing yourself with ‘I don’t like her music/brand so will say she has little talent’?

Im not a fan of Beyoncé, I think a lot of her songs are actually quite bland. But she is a humongous talent. Powerful voice, incredible performance stamina, stage presence - she is the very definition of X Factor. I don’t buy her music, I’d not want to see her in concert, but I absolutely get why others do.

I just don’t think her songs are great. They a quite benign. She is talented at creating good pop songs, but not to the level of people getting quite so OTT. But I don’t think anyone is worth such vast amounts of money and adoration to be honest. It’s odd what we value as a society.

OhMyReallyYouAbsoluteMoose · 08/06/2024 08:31

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butterflywingss · 08/06/2024 08:33

PinkiOcelot · 08/06/2024 08:27

Just like God doesn’t know you exist, because he certainly doesn’t 😂

Beg to differ, sincerely from billions of people in the world. I always find it interesting that the same people who are sooooo offended and triggered by the word God, are probably the same people when something unbearable happens in their life, turn and ask God if he's real and to help. No hate I swear just love always.

FiveTreeHill · 08/06/2024 08:34

I don't really like Taylor Swifts music but I do get why she's successful.

She writes relatable songs, fairly bland but great to sing a long too
She markets herself as a good person, nothing controversial. Cares about women's rights but never says anything too much
She allows her fans a good insight into her personality and private life, making them feel like her friends
There has been massive hype around her doing this once in a lifetime tour
Again massive sm hype in other countries about going to her tour
She's very pretty
She has absolutely fantastic marketing

It's not difficult to understand. And if people are going to get excited about a popstar it might as well be her

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 08/06/2024 08:35

Oddly shake it off reminds me of 3 of my Danish now long grown Girl Guides. It came on the radio as I was driving somewhere and when it got to the rap bit they all rapped along in the most perfect English. I'd never heard them utter a U English before that so it was a very pleasant shock!

IfYoureHappyAndYouKnowItHaveAGin · 08/06/2024 08:36

I've paid hundreds of pounds to go and see people perform, it's an experience you never forget so well worth a few hundred quid for memories that last a lifetime imo.

TS music isn't really my thing, but there's no denying she's a PR genius, and millions love her.

You don't have to get the fuss, the people who are fussing are having a great time.

MaryBeardsShoes · 08/06/2024 08:37

Can we please have a Taylor Swift bashing forum?

butterflywingss · 08/06/2024 08:38

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Of course it's on a celebrity. You can have a good time without continuously filling a celebrity's pocket. However, as I mentioned in a previous post, it is 100% your choice, I am not telling anyone how they should spend it. I am simply making a point that it just feels wrong. As a society, how much do we help others compared to making the rich richer ? It's a hard pill to swallow and I understand why anyone would feel defensive over it.

LostTheMarble · 08/06/2024 08:38

Oooooooodieeeee · 08/06/2024 08:31

I just don’t think her songs are great. They a quite benign. She is talented at creating good pop songs, but not to the level of people getting quite so OTT. But I don’t think anyone is worth such vast amounts of money and adoration to be honest. It’s odd what we value as a society.

It again depends on what you see as ‘benign’. She was under a lot of record company control until very recently, so ‘pop princess’ songs are a lot of what you’d hear put out. Her Reputation album though, it’s a masterpiece. It’s very easy to hear what’s put out on the radio and think she bland, when her real work comes out in albums.

Gondoliere · 08/06/2024 08:39

I would not give her a penny. (She does need it I know) Is she preachy? because she actually is polluting like hell with her private jet trips.

DanceToTheMusicInMyHead · 08/06/2024 08:39

I am weirdly fascinated by the hype around TS. It's not my music, and I totally get that different people like different things, spend loads of money on different passions, and have done so for years for Beatles, Take That, Madonna etc. With Taylor it seems somehow extra , and I'm interested in it as what it shows as a cultural phenomenon - globalisation, hype and promotion through social media etc. The economic effect her tour has to the extent that global leaders invite her play in their country to help their economy. Cities like Liverpool transforming themselves to Taylor town to maximise the economic effect. The power and influence this gives her. Fascinating to watch, and interesting to question how it happened. And good on her! Nice to see the phenomen playing out for a lovely woman.

dudsville · 08/06/2024 08:40

How can anyone not understand that other people are interested in other things?

Toooldforthis36 · 08/06/2024 08:42

@butterflywingss your belief is your opinion. It’s not fact.

insisting that your opinion is fact yet someone else’s opinion is not - yes that’s offensive, arrogant and intolerant.

Believe it, enjoy it. Don’t expect others to buy into it.

OhMyReallyYouAbsoluteMoose · 08/06/2024 08:43

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Acrossthemountains · 08/06/2024 08:43

butterflywingss · 08/06/2024 01:20

Of course God knows I exist and you exist and everyone on this earth. He put us here and he loves you and me and everyone ❤️. You may not seek her approval, but sure does feel wrong to splash a month's wage on a celebrity. I was simply making a point before you got triggered, that there are far more important causes in the world currently that deserve a month's wage other than Taylor swift who is sitting in her $million mansion not thinking about you. You got to agree a little with me on that at least ?

£300 isn't a typical months wage in the UK.

God doesn't exist.

Taylor swift makes a point of paying people who work for her a decent wage and giving them employment benefits. She gave bonuses totalling £55million on top of salaries. She gave her truck drivers £100k bonuses when they'd normally receive about £5k from other artists. Goodness me, what a bitch.

https://news.sky.com/story/taylor-swift-gives-out-eras-tour-bonuses-totalling-55m-for-performers-and-crew-12932247

If people are dying and suffering, take it up with your god.

Taylor Swift 'gives out Eras tour bonuses totalling $55m' for performers and crew

After beginning her world-famous Eras tour in March, Taylor Swift is due to bring the US leg to a close with six dates in Los Angeles starting on Thursday. Reports in the US suggest she has thanked all of those working on the tour so far.

https://news.sky.com/story/taylor-swift-gives-out-eras-tour-bonuses-totalling-55m-for-performers-and-crew-12932247

Mokp · 08/06/2024 08:47

People who copy celebrities need to get a life. Be unique

ZiriForGood · 08/06/2024 08:49

butterflywingss · 08/06/2024 08:38

Of course it's on a celebrity. You can have a good time without continuously filling a celebrity's pocket. However, as I mentioned in a previous post, it is 100% your choice, I am not telling anyone how they should spend it. I am simply making a point that it just feels wrong. As a society, how much do we help others compared to making the rich richer ? It's a hard pill to swallow and I understand why anyone would feel defensive over it.

Making rich richer - afaik she doesn't come from big old money, so this is a case of working hard, being lucky and becoming rich, like JKR.

And big part of her charm is that she kind of helps her audience, giving them sharing and community. The fact that she and her fans manage to create a community vibe even in huge concerts is one of her biggest talents.

butterflywingss · 08/06/2024 08:50

Toooldforthis36 · 08/06/2024 08:42

@butterflywingss your belief is your opinion. It’s not fact.

insisting that your opinion is fact yet someone else’s opinion is not - yes that’s offensive, arrogant and intolerant.

Believe it, enjoy it. Don’t expect others to buy into it.

Again the point you're missing out on. I didn't come here saying , you have to believe in God or came with the intention of trying to shove it down anyone's throat. However, I am 100% in my right to also defend my beliefs even if it's not a fact to you. It doesn't't give anyone a right to offend me either just because you chose to live your life differently. Again, I didn't say anything bad but it seems God triggers some people but it doesn't mean you should attack me either because I believe in God 😕

Anyway, the topic is around fuss being made about Taylor swift, and my views are that she is not worth the hype and she/ many celebrities do not deserve people's hard worked money, especially with so many chaos RIGHT now as we speak. That's MY opinion. If it's different for others then that's fine.