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to suggest that every single parent with a child at private school apply for a state school place asap?

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sarjd · 05/06/2024 15:12

let's see how that works.

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Aladdinzane · 05/06/2024 23:30

@Silverstarfish1 Strawman with your "therefore bad" I never implied or said this.

The evidence shows that virtually ALL private school students come from households that are in the top income decile and for most of those outside of it household wealth/grandparental help is the factor that influences their attendance, so yes almost all children at private schools come from rich backgrounds. I never said this was bad.

The people who have stretched to make private school for their kids will in the vast majority still pay for school. If they can't flex 58 quid a week from their budget then I'm sorry but they made bad financial decisions in sending their kid there. Its a shame, and the children may be negatively effected, but we shouldn't make policy based on the fact that a tiny minority of children may be negatively effected.

Oh and this is a total appeal to emotion too, it's "won't someone please think of the children" whilst trying to argue for a privilege that actually benefits children who are the most privileged in society further.

Why did you try to misrepresent my points? Is it because you can't actually debate them?

YourPinkDog · 05/06/2024 23:30

IAmNotASheep · 05/06/2024 23:22

That’s interesting another thread supporting the tax policy put it at £350 extra a month
x 2 kids = £700
x 3 kids = £1050

So an extra £81 a week. Which means you are paying annual school fees of £21,060.
The average is £18,000 a year. So the average extra vat is an extra £69 a week.

https://whichschooladvisor.com/uk/school-news/rising-cost-of-uk-private-school-fees-families-paying-average-ps18000-a-year

Rising Cost of UK Private School Fees: Families Paying Average £18,000 a Year

Fees at UK independent day and boarding schools are up by an average 8% in 2023-24, with the average termly fee for private day schools now £6,000.

https://whichschooladvisor.com/uk/school-news/rising-cost-of-uk-private-school-fees-families-paying-average-ps18000-a-year

IAmNotASheep · 05/06/2024 23:31

YourPinkDog · 05/06/2024 23:23

@IAmNotASheep so you can not afford an extra £58 a week?

I’m doing maths here and pointing out figures from another thread ( stated by a tax supporter) I am not talking about what I can afford. My kids are all in their 20s. So irrelevant

Unless of course if they decide to tax Universities as well. They are considered by the Government as private

YourPinkDog · 05/06/2024 23:32

You know as well as I do there are no plans to tax university fees. That is scaremongering by private school parents and supporters.

Drfosters · 05/06/2024 23:35

YourPinkDog · 05/06/2024 23:32

You know as well as I do there are no plans to tax university fees. That is scaremongering by private school parents and supporters.

But it begs the question ‘why not’? No one needs to go to university. It surely is a Luxury good?

IAmNotASheep · 05/06/2024 23:35

YourPinkDog · 05/06/2024 23:30

So an extra £81 a week. Which means you are paying annual school fees of £21,060.
The average is £18,000 a year. So the average extra vat is an extra £69 a week.

https://whichschooladvisor.com/uk/school-news/rising-cost-of-uk-private-school-fees-families-paying-average-ps18000-a-year

( Our school fees were above average when the kids were there. So this figure doesn’t reflect our school anyway )

But the figures came from another thread. By a supporter of the tax.

Aladdinzane · 05/06/2024 23:36

It was me that came up with the figure of 58 pounds, I calculated that using the IFS study's figure for the average private school fee for 2022-23.

Again though, if a family paying 18k a year for a student to go to school can't find the 69 pounds a week extra to fund this, then they have made poor financial decisions and totally overstretched.

YourPinkDog · 05/06/2024 23:37

@Drfosters it is whataboutery. You are trying to deflect.

If private school parents can not be bothered to make the sacrifices to pay an average extra £69 a week, or do an additional job or take in a lodger, that is their choice.

LuluBlakey1 · 05/06/2024 23:37

Can you clarify the phrase 'every single parent' please?

a) Every parent?
b) Every parent raising a child alone?

Treelichen · 05/06/2024 23:38

Eh?

YourPinkDog · 05/06/2024 23:39

@IAmNotASheep if your school fees were much above average, then you must be a pretty wealthy family already. Eton boarding school is nearly £50,000 a year for example. So an extra £192 per week.

Willyoujustbequiet · 05/06/2024 23:41

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 05/06/2024 15:35

No she’s not, she said every single parent. She’s just being an arse.
Anyone who can no longer afford the fees and needs a place in a state school is completely reasonable to apply for one. Anyone applying for a place their child doesn’t need because they are aggrieved about the removal of a tax break would be a twat.

This

They won't because the majority can afford the VAT increase. The OP seems bitter but them's the breaks really.

Redlarge · 05/06/2024 23:41

YourPinkDog · 05/06/2024 23:39

@IAmNotASheep if your school fees were much above average, then you must be a pretty wealthy family already. Eton boarding school is nearly £50,000 a year for example. So an extra £192 per week.

Can you get a cleaning job for a few hours a week to make up the difference?

IAmNotASheep · 05/06/2024 23:43

Redlarge · 05/06/2024 23:41

Can you get a cleaning job for a few hours a week to make up the difference?

My kids aren’t at school anymore.
Read the thread.

IAmNotASheep · 05/06/2024 23:44

YourPinkDog · 05/06/2024 23:39

@IAmNotASheep if your school fees were much above average, then you must be a pretty wealthy family already. Eton boarding school is nearly £50,000 a year for example. So an extra £192 per week.

Not sure what your point is

Redlarge · 05/06/2024 23:44

IAmNotASheep · 05/06/2024 23:04

Nevertheless this appalling attitude stinks when you consider this is actually children we are talking about.
Or are they to blame for everyone’s problems aswell.

The only thing that is appalling about this 'attitude' or the more correct description of 'opinion' appears to be that it doesn't agree with yours. 🤔

TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 05/06/2024 23:46

Surely most private schools can absorb the vat rise through efficiency savings. These threads never go after that. It's always bashing starmer for having the gall to propose a bold policy (which Sunak claimed last night are what is needed to fix the national crisis we are all in).

Drfosters · 05/06/2024 23:46

YourPinkDog · 05/06/2024 23:37

@Drfosters it is whataboutery. You are trying to deflect.

If private school parents can not be bothered to make the sacrifices to pay an average extra £69 a week, or do an additional job or take in a lodger, that is their choice.

ok fair enough but then by your own argument, if someone has 3, 4 or 5 children and is struggling to pay for them, why don’t they take in additional job or take in a lodger, that is their choice. No one should rely on the state for anything until those things have been done.

but with regards to whataboutary-it was a genuine question. So many people are referring to private education as a luxury. But university is a luxury as well. You don’t have to go, it is by definition elitist as you need to achieve certain grades to get there, your career prospects and earning potential are higher (allegedly!) for going. It fits the exact same criteria as private schools does in my mind.

GivePeaceAChance · 05/06/2024 23:47

Redlarge · 05/06/2024 23:44

The only thing that is appalling about this 'attitude' or the more correct description of 'opinion' appears to be that it doesn't agree with yours. 🤔

and again ignoring the impact on the kids.

Pure Envy

GivePeaceAChance · 05/06/2024 23:52

Hopehelps · 05/06/2024 21:37

Can I point out a couple of things?
There is not VAT tax on education in this country. Young people who go to state schools will not find a VAT tax added to higher education. The reason being is unlike other things people choose to spend their money on Education is seen as a ‘social good.’ Something that unlike buying a posh car, an expensive holiday or a larger house adds and benefits society.
To that previous poster who think that money will be found by those with kids in private schools - I wouldn’t be so sure.
Yes, you are right private fees do go up year on year. Many private schools have incredibly generous pension schemes for their teachers that the school opts into.
But with a 20% Vat increase and then on average a 5% yearly increase that is nearly 30% in a year. This is unprecedented and unlike any of the slow trajectory hikes that private school parents cope with.
I worry for that for those kids without an EHCP who have SEN and whose parents may have sent them to private school as a way of coping - they and their schools will be at risk. As I understand it those kids with an EHCP will be exempt from the VAT but they are a small minority (only 4.3%) of the nearly 1.5 million kids with SEN some of whom will be in private schools. Their VAT exemption will not protect those small and specialist schools from closing.

Yep. 👏
Lets think of all the kids for once.
Not just our own.

WindsurfingDreams · 05/06/2024 23:54

GivePeaceAChance · 05/06/2024 23:47

and again ignoring the impact on the kids.

Pure Envy

I really dont think it's envy. After all people have been told time and again now that private school parents can barely rub two pennies together.

My children go to private school and I wholeheartedly agree with @GOTBrienne

It's really embarrassing seeing the obsession some private school parents (or Tory bots) have over this at a time when many children are going hungry, can't get dental treatment, can't get a doctor's appointment. And that's before we think about things like the environment, which is the major issue affecting the next generation anyway. Far bigger than whether their school has a nice swimming pool. Rishi was clear he won't pay more than vague lip service to climate change while continuing to ensure his cronies make vast profits from fossil fuels. This feels a far bigger issue than whether a few overstreched parents have to cut down on their ski holidays

YourPinkDog · 05/06/2024 23:54

@Drfosters lots of parents already do overtime or an extra job. Lodgers are rarer for poorer families as they usually do not have the space.
In reality schools will absorb some of the increased cost, so parents will be paying less than the average £69 a week.

I am actually pretty disgusted with the way some private school parents are behaving. They are acting as if an average of £69 a week (for most will be less as schools will absorb some cost), is like the downfall of Rome. I have lost count of the number of threads on MN about this, and have read so much scaremongering.
I was not interested in this policy, but after seeing the reaction of some parents I will be extremely disgusted if it does not happen.

And this post tales the biscuit with OP suggesting clogging up state school applications as a protest. Disgustingly selfish behaviour. If you are moving your child to the state sector apply. But to apply when you have no intention of taking up a school place is terrible behaviour.

Bigcoatlady · 05/06/2024 23:55

Just cos I've seen it mentioned on this thread and not corrected anywhere, apologies for derail. You absolutely can claim child benefit for 3rd and subsequent children. The two child limit applies to child tax credit and universal credit only.

I hope that helps anyone who needs to put in a CB claim for their third kid to cover the rise in VAT on their indy school place.

WindsurfingDreams · 05/06/2024 23:57

GivePeaceAChance · 05/06/2024 23:52

Yep. 👏
Lets think of all the kids for once.
Not just our own.

The reason all the kids with SEN were fucked over was because of Tory austerity slashing local authority and school budgets in the first place

And there are plenty of children with SEN who don't even have a decent bed to sleep in or a decent roof over their heads. Who rely on food bank parcels for the next meal. I know because the charity I volunteer for is trying to support them

noblegiraffe · 05/06/2024 23:59

Anyone voting Tory for the sake of kids with SEN needs their head examining.

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