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Do you still use cash?

283 replies

BitchesBeSniffin · 03/06/2024 20:34

Just had a discussion with my DH about this and am wondering which of us is in the minority in the world of Mumsnet.

YABU: I still use cash and make sure I always have some on me

YANBU: I barely ever / never use cash

OP posts:
brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 04/06/2024 16:36

Rarely use cash, only under duress and I’m annoyed when I have to. We used to have debit cards which authorised offline making them more robust, but then everyone expects an instant notification now so they need to authorise online instead - which means they’re more susceptible to outages. Bring back offline debit !

DoraSpenlow · 04/06/2024 16:46

Use both but always have cash on me.

My riding instructor, the local chippy and my window cleaner only take cash.

Was at the seaside the weekend, a mum had settled herself and her four children on the land train but when they came round for payment their card reader had just been dropped so they were only taking cash. The mum had no cash so she had to get four excited kids off the train. It wasn't pretty.

A few weeks ago we went to pay for our food in a restaurant just as they had a power cut. We had cash so we were able to pay but it was pandemonium with hardly anyone having cash. I think we can rely too much on cards always working.

Mairzydotes · 04/06/2024 17:07

Himitsu · 03/06/2024 20:40

What are the odds of that happening though? That has never happened to me before ever.

I worked in retail a few years ago and we would have issues with the cards most weeks. It was usually just temporary, and often only lasted a few minutes.

kalokagathos · 04/06/2024 17:08

Stopped about 10 years ago or so

Gopy · 04/06/2024 17:09

I pretty much never use cash, last time I withdrew anything was probably at least over a year ago.

OneTC · 04/06/2024 17:10

I use cards for 99.99% but always keep a few quid in coins for chocolate or drinks from small shops

NewName24 · 04/06/2024 20:37

Even schools now have PTA bank accounts for those small payments.

I was at a school fete recently.
The Year 6s man the stalls. The whole school turn up with bags of cash to spend on said stalls. They raise a lot of money that way. Overwhelmingly, those KS1 and KS2 pupils will not have cards. Even if they did, there wouldn't be enough card readers for all the stalls. Even if there were, I'm fairly certain it would cost more than they gain for 50p transactions.
Plus, of course, it is a great place for the children to begin to work out the 'value' (to them) of the coins they have.

bakewellbride · 04/06/2024 20:38

Yes as I go to toddler groups with dd. No £2 cash to go in the cup, no entry!

Jc2001 · 04/06/2024 21:30

Himitsu · 03/06/2024 20:38

No and it really pisses me off when a place asks for cash because wtf carries cash these days??

If they insist on cash they lose the sale with me.

Everything goes on the credit card.

RosesAndHellebores · 04/06/2024 21:40

@Himitsu I do!

S0livagant · 04/06/2024 21:42

I don't always take my phone and cards with me because my pockets aren't big enough. Often I might just have my front door key and some notes.

Alicewinn · 04/06/2024 21:46

Had to get cash to pay the builder - felt so weird

NattyTurtle · 04/06/2024 22:08

BotterMon · 04/06/2024 15:40

Just by asking. So if buying something I always ask how much for cash whatever if may be (obviously not in supermarkets or chain stores) but you'd be surprised how much discount you can get by doing this.

I very much doubt that would work here, businesses would rather not take cash.

Xyz1234567 · 04/06/2024 22:10

I have a £1 trolley coin. That's it.

YourPinkDog · 04/06/2024 22:42

Jc2001 · 04/06/2024 21:30

If they insist on cash they lose the sale with me.

Everything goes on the credit card.

Edited

The best family run restaurants here tend to be cash only. The chains love cards though.

Magpie50 · 04/06/2024 22:48

I like to keep some cash for emergencies. So I have twenty quid in my dog walking bag, work bag and purse (you never know when you might see an ice cream van!)😀
Also have a few hundred cash at home for emergencies as some tradesmen still prefer cash.

Handy to have as well, only a few weeks ago contactless payments weren't working in several shops in my town.

DreamTheMoors · 04/06/2024 22:53

I’m in California.
Went to a new shop for a haircut the other day.
The day before my appointment, I got a text reminder saying, “We don’t take debit or credit cards. No Apple Pay.”
What business in the 21st century only accepts cash?
I took cash, but I had to make a stop at the bank first.
I was forced to, wasn’t I.

brunettemic · 04/06/2024 22:57

FlippetyFlop77 · 03/06/2024 20:42

Extremely high. There have been loads of tech glitches recently with banks and supermarkets. It's been all over the media. Always a good idea to have a bit of cash to hand imo

What are the odds of it being an actual emergency though? If I was in a supermarket and there’s a tech glitch it’s not emergency, I just can’t buy what I’ve gone in for.

brunettemic · 04/06/2024 22:59

The only thing I use cash for is when DS gets his hair cut. I’m Apple Pay all the way.

S0livagant · 04/06/2024 23:05

brunettemic · 04/06/2024 22:57

What are the odds of it being an actual emergency though? If I was in a supermarket and there’s a tech glitch it’s not emergency, I just can’t buy what I’ve gone in for.

It's a pain when you've just walked 20 minutes for milk and bread or similar. Far easier just to have emergency cash.

brunettemic · 05/06/2024 07:32

S0livagant · 04/06/2024 23:05

It's a pain when you've just walked 20 minutes for milk and bread or similar. Far easier just to have emergency cash.

It’s literally never happened to me so it’s not easier to have emergency cash, especially as, to my original point, it’s not an emergency.

mydogisthebest · 05/06/2024 07:50

Jc2001 · 04/06/2024 21:30

If they insist on cash they lose the sale with me.

Everything goes on the credit card.

Edited

Strange attitude to have. What if the card machines go down?

NattyTurtle · 05/06/2024 10:19

mydogisthebest · 05/06/2024 07:50

Strange attitude to have. What if the card machines go down?

Well I have never experienced a card machine going down. Yes, I know it happens but it's hardly an everyday occurance. What if you lose your cash, or have it stolen? I have in the past pulled out a note and another one has come out of my wallet at the same time, unknown to me. Surely you must have seen cash lying on the path/street sometime in your life? I know I have, on more than one occasion.

fieldsofbutterflies · 05/06/2024 10:20

What if the card machines go down?

What if you lose your cash?

S0livagant · 05/06/2024 10:45

brunettemic · 05/06/2024 07:32

It’s literally never happened to me so it’s not easier to have emergency cash, especially as, to my original point, it’s not an emergency.

It's a phrase. Just means a twenty or something in your phone case or wallet to cover the 'essentials' (of course nothing is really essential as argued on the 2020 threads 🙄). It's only not easier if you can't afford to keep that amount aside, but even then you could spend it at the end of the month then replace it.

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