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Weekend?

15 replies

Pirellichalu · 30/05/2024 22:52

This is the wording of the agreement written by the mediator, for May half term:

Our proposal is that CL spends Monday to Friday with A and the weekend according to her normal pattern.

If CL is due to be with parent B at the weekend, when would you expect CL's time with Parent B to begin?

What if I were to say 9.30 am Friday?

Thanks

OP posts:
TeaKitten · 30/05/2024 22:54

Who is CL? If it’s a kid what age are they?

PasstheMaple · 30/05/2024 22:54

I would assume it means whenever the weekend parent picks up in term time - Friday after school? Saturday morning?

Smarshian · 30/05/2024 22:55

Friday is not a weekend day. At the earliest I would say after school Friday.

Pirellichalu · 30/05/2024 22:56

@teakitten: CL is 9.

OP posts:
user1471462634 · 30/05/2024 22:57

I would say Sat morning so I guess there would have to be some negotiation if a Friday contact was expected by parent B.

Crumpetsssss · 30/05/2024 22:58

What time does parent usually collect CL on a Friday? After school?

TeaKitten · 30/05/2024 22:58

Pirellichalu · 30/05/2024 22:56

@teakitten: CL is 9.

What does CL stand for? 9.30 would be a strange time as they will be at school

FTPM1980 · 30/05/2024 22:58

What's the normal pattern?

Beezknees · 30/05/2024 22:59

I'd assume Friday after school. Not Friday morning

Beezknees · 30/05/2024 23:00

Just seen that it's for half term so school not relevant here, I'd still think Friday afternoon though.

Peaceandquietandacuppa · 30/05/2024 23:02

Friday at 3pm so it’s kind of like the actual weekend beginning?

PianPianPiano · 30/05/2024 23:02

TeaKitten · 30/05/2024 22:58

What does CL stand for? 9.30 would be a strange time as they will be at school

It says in the OP it's for half term, so no school

Topofthemountain · 30/05/2024 23:02

The weekend contact would start the same time as every weekend when there is contact. So after school Friday, / Saturday morning, whatever time.

Topofthemountain · 30/05/2024 23:03

It is obvious CL is used as the initials for the child.

FTPM1980 · 30/05/2024 23:03

They won't be at school because it the arrangement for May half term.
I am guessing they normally do EoWeekend with A snd rest of time with B
The agreement says they spend Mon-Fri of half term with A.
And sounds like first weekend with A and second weekend with B

In which case weekend starts whenever a weekend with B would normally start.

If that's not the case, I would say definitely not before 12 on Friday, but more like later in evening

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