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The reaction to National Service on here

793 replies

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 19:01

Many European countries (including Scandinavian countries) have NS. Are they ‘ridiculous’? Or are their much-coveted-by-Mumsnet-users communities better because of their sense of individual responsibility and contribution?

If 24 days (that’s how long it would be in total) of delivering prescriptions or volunteering as a hospital guide has you talking about human rights violations and Nazi Germany, then it’s very clear that you’re so pampered a bit of NS would do you good.

Everyone on here expects the world in terms of a ’village’, generous benefits, a caring society, but wants to do fuck all to contribute to it and think the notion of them having to do ANYTHING for anyone else is insane.

It’s nuts!

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Persimonne72 · 28/05/2024 20:08

wombat15 · 28/05/2024 19:53

I'm pretty sure if they were preparing citizens for war they wouldn't just be talking about training 18 year olds. Even the tories aren't that stupid.

@wombat15

Do you expect that the government will create a panic and train every citizen?

They already published information to stock up the food, a new website advising on what to do in an emergency is being launched.
I sometimes wonder if people leave on another planet, under the stone or don't read news...

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/world-news/2024/01/18/nato-warns-of-war-with-russia-putin-next-20-years-ukraine/

Nato warns of all-out war with Russia in next 20 years

Top official urges civilians as well as governments to prepare for life-changing conflict and potential conscription

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/world-news/2024/01/18/nato-warns-of-war-with-russia-putin-next-20-years-ukraine

pointythings · 28/05/2024 20:12

@wombat15 on the evidence available I would contend that the tories are that stupid.

allowstatistical · 28/05/2024 20:35

If it's brought in, ALL adults should be doing it.

Every single adult should contribute to society, have their eyes opened to working with others, different environments and helping.

There is a staggering amount of selfish, ridiculous, twatty idiots who this would benefit. Most of them are well over the age of 18.

I'd respect them more if they brought it in for everyone. This idea is just to appeal to elderly conservative voters so I have so respect for them.

harmfulsweeties · 28/05/2024 21:02

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 19:10

Why should I have had to give up weekends for “volunteering”?

Why should anyone ‘have’ to do anything?

Are you going to give up your weekends for volunteering?

I notice how a lot of people who are all for this aren't 18 and aren't being signed up to it. Interesting.

Zeberd · 28/05/2024 21:04

Just the Tories shoring up their OAP vote. National service yesterday, pensions today.

harmfulsweeties · 28/05/2024 21:06

saveforthat · 27/05/2024 19:14

Wow. How inconvenient to give up something you enjoy for a short time for the greater good.

So you do it, then.

wombat15 · 28/05/2024 21:08

Persimonne72 · 28/05/2024 20:08

@wombat15

Do you expect that the government will create a panic and train every citizen?

They already published information to stock up the food, a new website advising on what to do in an emergency is being launched.
I sometimes wonder if people leave on another planet, under the stone or don't read news...

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/world-news/2024/01/18/nato-warns-of-war-with-russia-putin-next-20-years-ukraine/

They wouldn't need to train everyone. If this wasn't just about getting votes from Reform Uk they would want to train everyone under 21 or maybe 25. They aren't including those ages as they can vote against them.

TempestTost · 28/05/2024 21:22

WoshPank · 28/05/2024 10:59

People are being deeply naive if they think only countries like Switzerland or Finland or even Israel are the only ones who need to think about having a population with an ability to step up in a military conflict. The chances of a global conflict in the next decades are really significant and many western countries are deeply unprepared

This proposal does absolutely nothing to address that, though. It would be actively detrimental to defence, because its expensive and the people with actual military expertise think its a bad idea.

No, I agree - I don't think what's being proposed seems very clear as far as it's goals really.

The OPs question though seemed not to be so much about the details of this proposal, but rather the kind of arguments she was hearing against doing it, which she felt were self-centered.

Which seems like it's clearly true based on the thread.

My response was to a question about how a scheme might work. Some of the comments here seem like the posters have no idea how they accomplish an effective national service in other places.

Persimonne72 · 28/05/2024 21:31

wombat15 · 28/05/2024 21:08

They wouldn't need to train everyone. If this wasn't just about getting votes from Reform Uk they would want to train everyone under 21 or maybe 25. They aren't including those ages as they can vote against them.

You may be right. 18 years old is suprisingly young. Most of the Military service in other countries is for 21 years old people

WoshPank · 28/05/2024 21:37

TempestTost · 28/05/2024 21:22

No, I agree - I don't think what's being proposed seems very clear as far as it's goals really.

The OPs question though seemed not to be so much about the details of this proposal, but rather the kind of arguments she was hearing against doing it, which she felt were self-centered.

Which seems like it's clearly true based on the thread.

My response was to a question about how a scheme might work. Some of the comments here seem like the posters have no idea how they accomplish an effective national service in other places.

They're less self centred than OPs support of the idea in principle, honestly.

Not only does OP fail to achieve this level of volunteering herself, unlike most of the posters she's complaining about, she also thinks she's entitled to assign other people's time and labour.

The claim that car insurance is a silly excuse was a particular classic, when it comes to inability to look beyond one's own nose.

TempestTost · 28/05/2024 21:37

Pretty much all countries that do any kind of national service do it with young people. They are at a natural break between school and work, don't yet usually have obligations to kids of their own, and are about as primed as they ever will be mentally and physically. Also - whatever they learn then will be carried through adulthood. A nation full of adults who have learned certain skills has a good bank to fall back on, more so than if people do it all higglety pigglety.

Over a generation, that means everyone who is able will have done it. You have to start somewhere. It's the same with other age related benefits and obligations introduced at a certain time, some will miss out in one way or another.

3DayStockpiler · 28/05/2024 21:57

16 year old hadn't heard of the idea. He said "delivering prescriptions? Won't you get people stealing someone's opioids?"

14 year old suggested selling the prescriptions on so that they wouldn't be working for free.

Shinyandnew1 · 28/05/2024 22:01

Pretty much all countries that do any kind of national service do it with young people. They are at a natural break between school and work, don't yet usually have obligations to kids of their own

I’d be interested to know how many of those countries who have enforced National Service schemes charge their own teens such massive amounts of money to go to university.

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 28/05/2024 22:23

I had to do it up to age 40

cannonballz · 28/05/2024 22:35

Teddleshon · 28/05/2024 14:37

@Comefromaway I don’t see that as a problem - 25 days in a year isn’t much in the scheme of things. DofE gold silver and bronze take up far far more time than that. Again the additional time spent would have been another boost to their CV’s.

My two who worked part time in care homes weren’t undertaking actual care duties as such, they were making cups of tea, playing board games, taking the residents for walks around the garden etc and generally providing company. My daughter did this every weekend and most of her holidays throughout uni.

where are you going to find all these thousands of care home residents prepared to take young people on?

Themisthefacts · 28/05/2024 23:10

cannonballz · 28/05/2024 22:35

where are you going to find all these thousands of care home residents prepared to take young people on?

This having one person who comes in every weekend seems like a good idea. Having a revolving door of hundreds of teens every weekend would upset and confuse residents. Never mind the extra staff required to supervise . Also many would be clock watching or not engaging at all with residents . You really need ppl who want to be there that have a caring nature . Not someone forced to do it .

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 28/05/2024 23:11

and get PAID good money for it too

Persimonne72 · 28/05/2024 23:15

Where does this " care home residents" idea even comes from? 🤦🏼‍♀️
The listed areas are NHS, fire service, critical infrastructures. The national service is with the thought of preparing for national emergencies and not just casual random volunteering.

TorringtonDean · 28/05/2024 23:16

It’s never going to happen. Just like Rwanda was never going to happen. It’s just a ploy to grab headlines and distract from the economy. It is surprisingly popular with a certain element and deeply unpopular with others. So creates a lot of distracting noise.

My own view is I prefer my children to retain their arms and legs and I’d rather not be arming disaffected youth. Fining parents for the actions of their adult children is an outrageous suggestion, but then we already have to fund them at uni. Adult responsibility seems to start later and later.

Themisthefacts · 28/05/2024 23:20

Persimonne72 · 28/05/2024 23:15

Where does this " care home residents" idea even comes from? 🤦🏼‍♀️
The listed areas are NHS, fire service, critical infrastructures. The national service is with the thought of preparing for national emergencies and not just casual random volunteering.

I think it’s from people mentioning that all the services you mention don’t have the infrastructure to handle 700,000 teens . So people have said get them in care homes . Get them picking up litter. Get them delivering things . When as you said the idea is that they will learn valuable life skills . But in reality that’s not possible for this amount of people and they more than likely will just become free labor .

Persimonne72 · 28/05/2024 23:21

And where the idea of arming youth and losing arms or legs comes from? 🤦🏼‍♀️
They are going to lose it as a result of volunteering at NHS or what?

Persimonne72 · 28/05/2024 23:24

Themisthefacts · 28/05/2024 23:20

I think it’s from people mentioning that all the services you mention don’t have the infrastructure to handle 700,000 teens . So people have said get them in care homes . Get them picking up litter. Get them delivering things . When as you said the idea is that they will learn valuable life skills . But in reality that’s not possible for this amount of people and they more than likely will just become free labor .

They wouldn't dare send them to the care houses neither they would make them fruit pickers. That would quickly be busted and opposed.
Let's see how Labour will prepare for the dark times coming

TorringtonDean · 28/05/2024 23:33

National Service means military service plus the other time-wasting stuff they are talking about. Remember it wasn’t very long ago that brave youngsters who were keen to serve were sent to Afghanistan and shortly afterwards in need of prosthetic limbs 🤷‍♀️.

It’s never going to happen because Rishi won’t be PM.

TorringtonDean · 28/05/2024 23:36

BTW the word volunteering means something is voluntary, not compulsory.

At this age my DD worked in a hospital shop and my DS did labouring work on a school project. So I’m not opposed to actual volunteering, the voluntary sort!

wombat15 · 29/05/2024 00:01

Persimonne72 · 28/05/2024 23:21

And where the idea of arming youth and losing arms or legs comes from? 🤦🏼‍♀️
They are going to lose it as a result of volunteering at NHS or what?

What exactly would they do as volunteers for the NHS?

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