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To think schools should get with the times re working parents.

818 replies

working8til4 · 24/05/2024 20:31

Why can't they be open 8-6 for everyone? It would help reduce gender inequality in the work place

AIBU - DON'T BE SILLY
YANBU - actually you have a point

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working8til4 · 24/05/2024 20:53

PotatoPudding · 24/05/2024 20:52

The people who work in the fancy offices and get paid loads probably don’t expect free childcare.

Ok it doesn't even have to be free then? Unless the parent earns less than a threshold amount and works full time?

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Octavia64 · 24/05/2024 20:53

State schooling is free.

Schools are having a massive amount of their money cut.

To go from 9-3:30 to 8-6 would cost a massive amount of money even assuming parents wanted it which many don't.

So:

It's unaffordable
Lots of people won't want it

Private schools offer this kind of service but the extra hours cost a lot of money!

working8til4 · 24/05/2024 20:54

Leafalotta · 24/05/2024 20:35

As a lone parent I'm struggling so much with the holidays and childcare, it's taking up so much of my headspace and causing huge stress. I don't blame the school but why does holiday club start and finish an hour earlier than breakfast and after school club? Why do no holiday clubs run after the third week of August? I've used up all my goodwill at work.

That sounds tough

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ilovesooty · 24/05/2024 20:54

happypickle · 24/05/2024 20:48

Yes - but for most people they do act as childcare. Op has a point why is the working day 9-5 but school only 9-3pm?

Because children are not employees.

Because teachers don't finish work at 3pm.

TeaKitten · 24/05/2024 20:54

working8til4 · 24/05/2024 20:52

Don't get so defensive I'm not blaming schools. I'm saying it could help if the government decided to change things. Who says it has to finish at 3?

Nobody really because you can use wrap around care.

LadyKenya · 24/05/2024 20:54

Fasterthanacarrot · 24/05/2024 20:48

Long days and wraparound can be hard for children. My ds didnt cope and I ended up quitting work as his MH was declining rapidly

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Yes, has the OP even stopped to think about the effect that such long hours could have on some children? They spend more than enough time in school, as it is, without adding more time on to it.

MultiplaLight · 24/05/2024 20:54

working8til4 · 24/05/2024 20:52

Don't get so defensive I'm not blaming schools. I'm saying it could help if the government decided to change things. Who says it has to finish at 3?

Who says schools finish at 3?

Well let me introduce you to directed time. Teachers have 1265 hours per year they can be directed to work. Usually this is 8.40-3ish every term time day plus inset, parents evenings and meetings.

If you want school to finish later, it will have to start later.

Pollipops1 · 24/05/2024 20:55

There’s a lot of misconceptions on this thread.

Wrap around care/clubs already exist in a lot of schools

They are often run by external providers not teachers.

It’s not a particular new thing

Using said clubs doesn’t mean you should have not had dc & don’t raise them.

PotatoPudding · 24/05/2024 20:55

working8til4 · 24/05/2024 20:52

Don't get so defensive I'm not blaming schools. I'm saying it could help if the government decided to change things. Who says it has to finish at 3?

Do you actually have kids?

DS is 5. School is 8.30-3.15. He’s absolutely exhausted by 3.15. It would be counter productive to give him a further three hours of lessons. He’d also never last until gone 6pm for his dinner.

mactire · 24/05/2024 20:57

New word for your child’s spelling list next week: entitled

Luddite26 · 24/05/2024 20:57

I agree OP and actually remember this being a Government aspiration about 25 years ago. Hence the wraparound care and sure starts being set up in schools.
The holiday clubs never in state schools fully catered for working parents but private schools managed to run holiday clubs in their school using external providers but using school facilities from 7.30 till 6pm. How easy is that.
All those local schools with empty buildings and playing fields all locked up for 6 weeks over the Summer what a waste.

Itsacruelsummer · 24/05/2024 20:57

LadyKenya · 24/05/2024 20:54

Yes, has the OP even stopped to think about the effect that such long hours could have on some children? They spend more than enough time in school, as it is, without adding more time on to it.

I agree and I've sadly seen this lots in my teaching career. Children really not coping with being in school for so long even if part of it is a more informal after school club.

I don't blame parents at all as it's the shit economic circumstances we have and old fashioned culture of work.

But we should change that not the length of the school day.

ihatecoffee · 24/05/2024 20:57

My kids went to private schools and they started at 0820 and finished at 1630
If they wanted to do homework and supper they'd finish at 1830

Some state school near us start at 0900 and finish at 1445!!! How is that a proper school day?
Even when I went to school (I didn't go private), I started at 0830 and finished at 1600!

Why are schools doing such short days nowadays, or is it just when I live?

DrMadelineMaxwell · 24/05/2024 20:57

5475878237NC · 24/05/2024 20:51

The private schools round here all boast about 8-6 included in the fees so it's not just you OP.

I'll bet they also then have much longer holidays, to account for the fact that they have covered their teaching hours in fewer, longer days.

Ffion56 · 24/05/2024 20:57

I’m a teacher, so I use a school based after school club for my kids. I agree that parents should have access to subsidised childcare, but I disagree that schools should be coordinating it.

It most definitely couldn’t be paid for using existing school budgets, we struggle to pay staff for the hours they do already!

yesmen · 24/05/2024 20:58

Seashor · 24/05/2024 20:36

Why can’t parents sort their shit out before they have children?

No matter how much you plan life happens and creates change.

And if none of your plans ever had to change and everything goes more or less as planned that is not you or your brilliance - it is mainly luck.

Perfect28 · 24/05/2024 20:59

@Seashor I am a teacher as is my husband. We have no family for childcare. I need childcare between 7.30-5.30. so do I need to sort my shit out? What do you suggest?

Pollipops1 · 24/05/2024 21:00

Why can’t parents sort their shit out before they have children?

So teachers, surgeons, GPs shouldn’t use wraparound care @Seashor?

MrsMurphyIWish · 24/05/2024 21:00

working8til4 · 24/05/2024 20:52

Don't get so defensive I'm not blaming schools. I'm saying it could help if the government decided to change things. Who says it has to finish at 3?

I’m not being defensive.

As teachers DH and I have meetings til 5pm (we don’t finish when the pupils do). We then chose a school that offered wraparound (we have no family). Obviously we have to pay for that - it’s childcare not education. DD is now in secondary sorts herself out and in so has reduced our childcare costs.

TBH, I would have loved 24/7 childcare as it’s difficult to find solutions for evening events but that’s a “me” problem and not common for majority of families.

NanooCov · 24/05/2024 21:00

My kids's school is open 7.30 to 18.30 but that includes wrap around care you can pay for before and after core school hours. It would be great if all schools could provide something similar but it's just not financially sustainable for a lot of them. Our kids attend a particularly large school which I think is the main reason it works and is affordable.

working8til4 · 24/05/2024 21:00

Cityandmakeup · 24/05/2024 20:47

Did you know teachers are parents too. You get with the programme. Schools are not childcare. Are you offering to pay staff 10 hour days

You get with the programme it wouldn't be one teacher doing 10 hours. You could make a whole new role doing the extended hours and give someone who wanted a part time job a job. Or use an external provider

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WaitingfortheTardis · 24/05/2024 21:01

happypickle · 24/05/2024 20:48

Yes - but for most people they do act as childcare. Op has a point why is the working day 9-5 but school only 9-3pm?

Because children can't cope with working the same hours as adults.

TomatoSandwiches · 24/05/2024 21:02

I see it as an employer problem than the schools, there needs to be more flexible working options.

working8til4 · 24/05/2024 21:02

LadyKenya · 24/05/2024 20:54

Yes, has the OP even stopped to think about the effect that such long hours could have on some children? They spend more than enough time in school, as it is, without adding more time on to it.

That's great but their mental health will suffer if they get kicked out their house as they can't afford it as a family..

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