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To think that those private school parents banging on about their fees

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Thegreatergoodgerald · 23/05/2024 11:23

Seriously have misjudged how little anyone else gives a stuff??? NHS, social care, state education, public transport, bloody potholes everywhere - that’s what matters to everyone I know.
Not whether or not VAT is added to a business.

YANBU - it’s hardly the end of the world if Clemmie or Charles end up going to a state school. We have bigger things to worry about in the U.K. right now

YABU - of course everyone cares private school parents might have to pay more

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MumattheBar · 23/05/2024 17:27

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MsFogi · 23/05/2024 17:28

@coupdetonnerre fear not I'm already paying my 45% and I may skip out of Brexit Britain if Labour increases that too much. I am simply speaking as someone who is jaded (rather than bitter) after years of hearing bollocks from smug colleagues/friends with children in private schools who keep forgetting my dcs go/went to the local comps and grammars (a couple of them went private in junior school until I, an ex-private girl myself who had a ridiculous unfounded fear of the state sector, realised that the states weren't sink holes of deprivation and lack of eduction).

Wishihadanalgorithm · 23/05/2024 17:29

Well the NASUWT is worried about taxing private schools. Concerned about small indies shutting and the pressure on state schools to pick up the pieces.

I think that tells you it’s not such a simple policy with only benefits for the country.

My DC is privately educated. They may go to the grammar school or they will stay in an indie school. We can suck up the VAT but it does mean less money going into the local economy as we won’t be eating out, shopping, socialising half as much.

That’a a natural consequence of the VAT but I’m Ok with that.

BrickShaker · 23/05/2024 17:29

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Whatonearth07957 · 23/05/2024 17:30

oldwhyno · 23/05/2024 16:09

Nobody expects you to care about wealthy people.

You might want to care about the policy because it would destabilise the whole education landscape, could easily end up costing the country more than it makes, and at the very least will only serve to make independent education even more exclusive, available only to a smaller and richer subset of society.

It's daft labour policy thrown out as "red meat" to their left wing base.

THIS! I've no skin in the game but PS parents I know are already applying to the state schools due to cost of living and uncertainty over fees with a likely labour win, they're good schools but places will be squeezed. It's not just the 6% and disparaging Clarence and Cresedella name references, it will be the education system as a whole which lets face it, apart from the few 'im alright mate' comments is creaking a bit already... All of society should certainly be interested in something which is going to impact education plus what is and isn't VAT'able... If they come for education they'll not back down on other parts of it, tax only tends to grow rather than retreat sadly.

wombat15 · 23/05/2024 17:30

coupdetonnerre · 23/05/2024 17:17

The horror and shock when you realise nurseries and universities will also have to pay VAT. But who cares right? Let's fix those smug private school parents.
You sound so bitter - where did private school parents say your kids shouldn't get the university offers they deserve?

The reality is that higher earners pay majority of tax in this country so YOU will pay more taxes when they have left and moved abroad.

Even if nurseries and universities do have to pay vat, it doesn't mean parents or students have to pay more Given nurseries and universities are state funded to some extent, if they do have to pay vat the state can just give them more money.

MrsSunshine2b · 23/05/2024 17:30

Goldenbear · 23/05/2024 17:25

We can’t afford private school on our joint income, let alone that, surely this is entirely contextual. Ultimately, we need to save for uni as that is more important in my mind and I really can’t get my head around renting a house and paying private school fees, that makes no financial sense in Britain. Besides, nurturing creativity, developing the child’s imagination, affords your child the biggest advantage when it comes to intelligence; Einstein said, “Logic will get you from A to B. Imagination will take you everywhere.”

Whether it makes financial sense is not really the point. You're prioritising owning a home and saving for Uni. Some parents prioritise private school fees, for a range of reasons, often that their child is suffering in mainstream for whatever reason. Define "can't afford". Might mean moving to a different part of the country, spending less on food, using less energy, giving up a nice car, going on fewer days out. But there are private school parents making those choices.

LaPalmaLlama · 23/05/2024 17:32

Allshallbewell2021 · 23/05/2024 17:23

I would prefer that the next government concentrated on making the wealthiest organisations and individuals pay their taxes.

Close the loopholes, make the corporations, millionaires and billionaires pay their way, stop all the tax dodging by those who can perfectly afford to pay.

But that won't happen!

I agree but the problem is that there needs to be global alignment of corporate and personal tax regimes to make this feasible and there will always be countries where the benefit of imposing very low taxes is outweighed by the value of the companies being based there. Global alignment will therefore never happen.

On this specific issue ( how to raise money for education) I think an annual low CGT on value uplift of all residential property would be fairer and raise more than VAT on school fees because it better addresses inter generational inequality.

HairyToity · 23/05/2024 17:33

I have never felt my childrens education has been devalued by the kids who've left their state primary school for private. In fact private did us a favour when the naughtiest most disruptive kid left.

I think private education is a scam anyway.

Barbadossunset · 23/05/2024 17:34

@BIossomtoes · Today 16:42
lhlh · Today 16:36

If most people's kids are thriving in the state sector, then why is the private school VAT money needed for it? You can't have it all ways.

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To even the playing field and help them thrive more

Blossomtoes according to a large number of posters on another private/state thread, state schools are better than private schools so why does the playing field need to be made more even?

Labraradabrador · 23/05/2024 17:36

JustOneDD · 23/05/2024 17:11

I do think that everyone should care about a policy like this whether it affects them or not. It’s a policy of envy not actual principles. If schools need more funding (which they clearly do!) then why not increase income tax to deal with it? That way everyone pays more, depending on their income, and we are more likely to get close to actually closing the gap between state schools and private schools because the amount raised would be substantially more. It also means that it’s not just those with enough to afford private school that need to pay but also those who have paid extortionate amounts on houses within catchment areas to send their kids to the best state schools and priced others out of the area and everyone else as well.

Exactly - everyone pays an extra 1% would actually raise enough to do something meaningful.

VAT on schools is likely to raise nothing, and might even cost more for the state.

anotherside · 23/05/2024 17:37

inquisitiveinga · 23/05/2024 17:22

I think it's more to do with parents who work INCREDIBLY hard to send their children to private school due to the shambles of state education at the moment, and how it's becoming even more challenging to do so.

Fees have gone up to widen the inequality gap even further, stretching middle England out of private education. I'm hoping to send my son to a private school on a scholarships, he's got his heart set on it and by golly he deserves a place! However, I'm unlikely to be able to afford even 10% of the fees now prices are on the rise again, and it looks even less likely to happen now that the charity status is going to be scrapped if Labour get in, meaning they will no longer offer scholarships. (Don't get me wrong here, I want to see change in this country and want Labour over anyone else... pick of a bad bunch admittedly).

Incredibly hard? And people on lower incomes don’t. Nah, given the UK’s poor social mobility, I’d wager that the majority of parents sending their kids to private school got a nice leg up from the bank of mum & dad in the form of house deposit and/or paying their university costs and/or family business/contacts etc etc. If anything I’d say private school kids’ parents probably work less hard on average than normal families on average income.

Longma · 23/05/2024 17:39

A lot of local state schools here have, on paper, feeder schools. Most children from those schools then go on to the linked junior school or secondary school.

However, the feeder status either isn't on the list of priorities for school enrolment or appears after catchment.

And a lot of secondaries have removed the sibling criteria too.

All the people I know who use private schools live in catchments of good state schools. Of those likely to be affected they plan to keep their child in the current school until either it's time to apply to the next stage, and then move to state, or to join the state school waiting list and keep on until a place becomes available.

Do people really think these children will end up in the lower attaining or 'inadequate' schools?

PrincessTeaSet · 23/05/2024 17:40

XelaM · 23/05/2024 14:14

Huh? How is it immature to care about issues that directly impact your own life?!? That's the whole point in voting to allow people to vote on issues that are important to them.

Voting for something that will have a direct negative effect on you is just stupid. 🤷‍♀️

Labour have lost my vote because the VAT on schools will directly impact me and my child's life.

Fair enough. Does the useless health service, inadequate justice system, incompetence in managing the economy leading to massive inflation, etc, not affect you?

It does seem odd to vote based on this one issue when there are so many more pressing issues

milveycrohn · 23/05/2024 17:40

@Thegreatergoodgerald
"Not whether or not VAT is added to a business."

Actually, I disagree with you because of the negative effect this may have on local schools.
Remember, all those parents pay taxes for state education, AS WELL as paying for private education.
If 20 percent added to the bills, no one knows how many parents (and their children) will opt out of the private school system, and return to the state education. THis means those places now in private education will have to be funded. For example, if every single private school closed and all those children had to be educated within the state section, then the Gov would have to find ALL the extra money.
Obviously, not all will leave, but no one knows how many.
I understand that Starmer has costed around 5 percent, but it could be more.

(Note. all my DC were educated in the state section)

PrincessTeaSet · 23/05/2024 17:41

Longma · 23/05/2024 17:39

A lot of local state schools here have, on paper, feeder schools. Most children from those schools then go on to the linked junior school or secondary school.

However, the feeder status either isn't on the list of priorities for school enrolment or appears after catchment.

And a lot of secondaries have removed the sibling criteria too.

All the people I know who use private schools live in catchments of good state schools. Of those likely to be affected they plan to keep their child in the current school until either it's time to apply to the next stage, and then move to state, or to join the state school waiting list and keep on until a place becomes available.

Do people really think these children will end up in the lower attaining or 'inadequate' schools?

No if course not, they will move heaven and earth to avoid that

catchthebeat · 23/05/2024 17:42

It's going to mean that state schools become oversubscribed and the quality of state education decreases.

twistyizzy · 23/05/2024 17:42

anotherside · 23/05/2024 17:37

Incredibly hard? And people on lower incomes don’t. Nah, given the UK’s poor social mobility, I’d wager that the majority of parents sending their kids to private school got a nice leg up from the bank of mum & dad in the form of house deposit and/or paying their university costs and/or family business/contacts etc etc. If anything I’d say private school kids’ parents probably work less hard on average than normal families on average income.

Bollocks. How to tell you have no idea what you are talking about.

You have no idea about the background of private school parents.
I am well educated through grammar school and that enabled me to go to Uni and then on to PhD. Nothing to do with my parents who have never given me a thing financially.
DH is from ex-mining town in NE and he was the first person in his family to stay on at school past 16.

But don't let that stop you inventing stereotypes and sweeping assumptions

PrincessTeaSet · 23/05/2024 17:42

milveycrohn · 23/05/2024 17:40

@Thegreatergoodgerald
"Not whether or not VAT is added to a business."

Actually, I disagree with you because of the negative effect this may have on local schools.
Remember, all those parents pay taxes for state education, AS WELL as paying for private education.
If 20 percent added to the bills, no one knows how many parents (and their children) will opt out of the private school system, and return to the state education. THis means those places now in private education will have to be funded. For example, if every single private school closed and all those children had to be educated within the state section, then the Gov would have to find ALL the extra money.
Obviously, not all will leave, but no one knows how many.
I understand that Starmer has costed around 5 percent, but it could be more.

(Note. all my DC were educated in the state section)

If 5% leave then the added income from the vat the remainder pay for their school fees will cover their state education about 17 times over.

Goldenbear · 23/05/2024 17:44

MrsSunshine2b · 23/05/2024 17:30

Whether it makes financial sense is not really the point. You're prioritising owning a home and saving for Uni. Some parents prioritise private school fees, for a range of reasons, often that their child is suffering in mainstream for whatever reason. Define "can't afford". Might mean moving to a different part of the country, spending less on food, using less energy, giving up a nice car, going on fewer days out. But there are private school parents making those choices.

In the UK at least there is no security with renting a property, home life has a much greater impact on a child’s future opportunities than any school or college so it is an illogical move to prioritise a fee paying education over owning a home. Surely, spend the money on moving areas for better state provision if your child is not doing well in state school. Money on good food is important to me as you are spending money on your child’s health.

Another76543 · 23/05/2024 17:44

anotherside · 23/05/2024 17:37

Incredibly hard? And people on lower incomes don’t. Nah, given the UK’s poor social mobility, I’d wager that the majority of parents sending their kids to private school got a nice leg up from the bank of mum & dad in the form of house deposit and/or paying their university costs and/or family business/contacts etc etc. If anything I’d say private school kids’ parents probably work less hard on average than normal families on average income.

Absolute rubbish. That’s certainly not our position, or many other families we know. We both went to state comprehensives and have paid for everything ourselves.

DustyLee123 · 23/05/2024 17:45

If you can afford private schools and private health, good for you. It makes no odds to me.

Dibblydoodahdah · 23/05/2024 17:45

I don’t expect people to care but I do expect people to be respectful and not be abusive. I have been called pathetic and stuck up on another thread because I criticised the policy. A weeks ago I was accused of having a favourite child because I have one DC in state and one in private. Oh and apparently I launched a personal attack on state school teachers…but I never mentioned state school teachers.

milveycrohn · 23/05/2024 17:46

@PrincessTeaSet
"If 5% leave then the added income from the vat the remainder pay for their school fees will cover their state education about 17 times over."
Exactly, Starmer has costed for 5 percent.
But if 20 percent leave then it makes a bigger difference.
At what point will there be a loss?

size4feet · 23/05/2024 17:46

OP I'm not seeing any private school
Parents demanding or expecting sympathy from state school parents. What have you seen to suggest this?

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