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To be really, really pleased about the explicit ban on the proactive teaching of gender identity?

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BiologicsBeforeIdeology · 16/05/2024 13:35

It's just such madness that we even got here. My family has been badly affected by activists pushing this madness on my Autistic son, who now half believes he's a girl because some nitwit came into the school and told him people who feel uncomfortable and like they don't belong are trans (not maybe gay, not maybe Autistic, not maybe just Puberty, but trans)

I won't apologise for wanting to safeguard children. This is not a Section 28 thing, it really is protecting vulnerable kids.

"Gender identity
The guidance will introduce an explicit ban on the proactive teaching of gender identity. It will say that the idea that children can change their gender by using different names, pronouns and wearing the uniform of the opposite sex is highly contested. If pressed by pupils, they should instead focus on the facts of biological sex.
Teaching children about gender identity could lead to them questioning their own gender when they may not have done otherwise, the guidance will suggest. Children can be taught the law about gender reassignment — that people can legally change their gender from the age of 18 — but children will be told that that they cannot legally be classified as members of the opposite sex."

More info on the changes https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/4a2b0d57-13c9-409a-a40b-104d7a0499b2?shareToken=ed46490f36a6c9fbb0f70d6bf03c0a99

What the new sex education guidelines mean for schools and parents

The changes will ban teaching about gender identity and set out what children should be taught at each age

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/4a2b0d57-13c9-409a-a40b-104d7a0499b2?shareToken=ed46490f36a6c9fbb0f70d6bf03c0a99

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Alwaystired94 · 16/05/2024 15:42

MarkWithaC · 16/05/2024 15:40

But these are just the guidelines/outline; surely in the actual teaching context, discussions about 'what do we mean by making people uncomfortable' will lead to talking about touching/looking at genitals etc?

but how many won't as they're scared of parents going ape? guidelines are one thing, but setting in stone minimum standards is easier so we can try and reduce kids falling through the cracks with their knowledge,

EasternStandard · 16/05/2024 15:44

Alwaystired94 · 16/05/2024 15:35

personally, i don't think it's clear enough on the year 5s. making someone uncomfortable is subjective - if its a parent or loved one abusing them, they may not know enough to feel 'uncomfortable' so i just worry about it being too late by age 13.

basically it should be - no-one touches your genitals/looks at your genitals/makes you look or touch theirs. maybe that's because I'm coning from it with my past in mind and what could have saved me and others i know

This is already in place though? The PANTs rule is from reception etc

Alwaystired94 · 16/05/2024 15:54

EasternStandard · 16/05/2024 15:44

This is already in place though? The PANTs rule is from reception etc

so this doesn't remove that? this is why it needs to be clearer on what is actually going to be covered by each age group

fiftyandfat · 16/05/2024 15:57

"We have the highest rates of rape and assault of children occurring ON SCHOOL CAMPUS we have ever seen, according to stats from 2023. That’s predominantly boys raping and sexually assaulting girls AT SCHOOL".

And this has got much, much worse since gender ideology was brought into school and all the toilets and changing rooms were made mixed sex and boys were told they could do whatever they liked, wherever they liked as long as they said they identified as girls.

ResisterRex · 16/05/2024 15:58

Purplevioletsherbert · 16/05/2024 15:38

I’ve just completed the online consultation (thanks to PP who linked it!). Only part I disagree with is not teaching about the dangers of online activity until Y3. I think there should be flexibility to teach this at KS1 if teachers have concerns about youngsters gaming etc. If little Jimmy in Year 2 comes into school talking about how he plays GTA with his teenage brother or Sally in Y1 has been watching YouTube clips from Five Nights at Freddie’s, I think the teachers need to be able to discuss this with their class.

In which case, the teacher needs to talk to the DSL and decide the course of action. Not spread the issue across the whole class.

BiologicsBeforeIdeology · 16/05/2024 16:01

86%-14% - seems a pretty solid opinion that Trans ideology should be kicked out as a fact - how the hell do we get back to fixing it?

Did anyone see Allsorts? They literally teaching every school in Sussex pretty much - terrible people
https://www.allsortsyouth.org.uk/

Allsorts Youth Project

Allsorts Youth Project provides youth, family and LGBT+ training services across Sussex. Our youth support and groups are for children & young people under 26 who are lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans or exploring their sexual orientation and/or gender ide...

https://www.allsortsyouth.org.uk/

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Alwaystired94 · 16/05/2024 16:05

fiftyandfat · 16/05/2024 15:57

"We have the highest rates of rape and assault of children occurring ON SCHOOL CAMPUS we have ever seen, according to stats from 2023. That’s predominantly boys raping and sexually assaulting girls AT SCHOOL".

And this has got much, much worse since gender ideology was brought into school and all the toilets and changing rooms were made mixed sex and boys were told they could do whatever they liked, wherever they liked as long as they said they identified as girls.

do you have any links to sources that its caused by that? correlation vs causation comes to mind here.

because i can tell you, when i was at school there were plenty of assaults and such happening and none of the abusers needed to pretend to be trans to get access to us and traumatize us. there was a movement a few years ago where schools were named and the vast majority of the stories on there were from before this time.

LilyBartsHatShop · 16/05/2024 16:18

@pointythings I think Jessica Taylor is responding to the guidance which will advise that,
"Children should not be given “explicit” lessons on sexual acts until they are in Year 9, aged 13. At this stage they can be taught about sexual consent, contraceptive options, abortion, sexually transmitted infections and how taking alcohol and drugs can lead to more risky sexual behaviour."
And will also advise that primary schools (continue to) teach about feeling safe, respecting boundaries, and what kids can do if they don't feel ok about how any adult (including family members) is relating to them.
I think Taylor is really, really wrong here.

fiftyandfat · 16/05/2024 16:20

Research that has been done shows that the rate of sexual assaults increases markedly when traditionally single sex spaces are replaced by mixed sex spaces. There are some very good resources on the FWR board on here. I will look for some links when I have some time, but two topics come to mind, one is called "Break it down for me" and I think the other one is called "This never happens", or something similar.
Safe Schools Alliance is a very useful resource specifically for information regarding Gender Ideology in schools in the UK. https://safeschoolsallianceuk.net/

Homepage - Safe Schools Alliance UK

Welcome to our homepage. This explains who we are, what we do and how we are campaigning for a better understanding of child safeguarding.

https://safeschoolsallianceuk.net

SingleSexSafeSpace · 16/05/2024 16:20

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Meadowfinch · 16/05/2024 16:24

I'm pleased. And it needed to happen because the current tranche of teenagers are bored stupid with the subject. It is relevant for so few of them, and there are so many more valuable things to put on a busy curriculum

Sex education is less clear cut. Basics like teaching little ones that pants are private need to continue, and 9yos are clearly old enough to learn about reproduction. Any rural community knows that.

But some of the stuff my 9yo ds covered, he wasn't ready to hear for another 2 or 3 years. He came home, shocked, offended, disgusted and less willing to listen when he was old enough.

Verv · 16/05/2024 16:26

Im delighted. Dangerous and insidious ideology.

MagnetCarHair · 16/05/2024 16:28

I'd love to know the thinking of that 14%. How many are so convinced that they feel like gender identity ideology is a truthful portrayal of how things are, how many don't believe that it is true but should be taught as though it is true 'for the greater good', and how many have harmed themselves or their children at the alter and feel betrayed by a return to capital T truth?

DownWithThisKindOfThing · 16/05/2024 16:30

YouJustDoYou · 16/05/2024 13:41

Utterly relieved about this. Pushing this indoctrinating crap on kids has had horrific consequences.

This. This absolute nonsense should be no where near places of education for vulnerable young minds. Fingers crossed we catch on soon in Scotland

SingleSexSafeSpace · 16/05/2024 16:31

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BiologicsBeforeIdeology · 16/05/2024 16:31

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I'd like to know as well - I don't agree but I really appreciate different points of view

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Naunet · 16/05/2024 16:33

LilyBartsHatShop · 16/05/2024 14:59

@SwordToFlamethrower I may be misunderstanding what Taylor is saying but I'm chilled to the bone by the suggestion that the way to help a nine or ten year old girl who is being sexually abused is to provide her with explicit sex ed.

Indeed, as someone who was being abused as a child, sex education didn’t help me in the slightest. She doesn’t have a clue what she’s talking about.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 16/05/2024 16:34

So pleased to see this. There's some wilful misreading of the guidelines whichbwhen read are much more nuanced than some claim. Removing the flag wavers for queer theory, sex work, kink and fetish is an important move. The lack of central guidance has allowed these groups to self identify as sex experts for children and that's why there's been so many problems with age inappropriate materials.

Sex ed should be child centred, age appropriate with safeguarding running throughout.

BiologicsBeforeIdeology · 16/05/2024 16:41

MrsOvertonsWindow · 16/05/2024 16:34

So pleased to see this. There's some wilful misreading of the guidelines whichbwhen read are much more nuanced than some claim. Removing the flag wavers for queer theory, sex work, kink and fetish is an important move. The lack of central guidance has allowed these groups to self identify as sex experts for children and that's why there's been so many problems with age inappropriate materials.

Sex ed should be child centred, age appropriate with safeguarding running throughout.

Absolutely - it is, username acknowledged - moving the Overton window BACK that is being done here and for the best

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WeMeetInFairIthilien · 16/05/2024 16:58

The thing is, much of the age limits given to the different topics actually link up with what is usually taught, and when, in English schools.

We'd normally expect sex ed around year 5-6. The average age of girls starting puberty is 11, and for girls younger than 9, it is really more appropriate to provide any support outside of a whole class setting.

Children under 9 can still be taught about conception, as it can be discussed "in a very factual, scientific way" (quote from Keegan, the Education Secretary). This is currently what usually happens in English schools.

The proposal states that teaching materials that "present contested views as fact - including the view that gender is a spectrum" should be avoid.

This review has been requested by teachers to provide more clarity on age appropriate sex education, as well as removing campaign or lobby group materials from the classroom.

Keegan also stated that "Biological sex is the basis of relationship, sex and health education - not these contested views"

Alwaystired94 · 16/05/2024 17:00

fiftyandfat · 16/05/2024 16:20

Research that has been done shows that the rate of sexual assaults increases markedly when traditionally single sex spaces are replaced by mixed sex spaces. There are some very good resources on the FWR board on here. I will look for some links when I have some time, but two topics come to mind, one is called "Break it down for me" and I think the other one is called "This never happens", or something similar.
Safe Schools Alliance is a very useful resource specifically for information regarding Gender Ideology in schools in the UK. https://safeschoolsallianceuk.net/

what i can see on their fact sheet is:

A 2017 study from the National Education Union and UK Feminista reports that ‘sexual harassment is highly prevalent in schools, and overwhelmingly involves boys targeting girls’. The study found that ‘over half (58%) of female students in mixed sex schools have experienced or witnessed sexual harassment at school’.

Data collected by Freedom of Information request by The Sunday Times showed that ‘unisex changing rooms are more dangerous for women and girls than single-sex facilities’. ‘almost 90% of reported sexual assaults, harassment and voyeurism…happen in unisex facilities’. It is clear that mixed-sex facilities do not adequately safeguard females from harm.

unisex facilities would also apply to classrooms, corridors and such as well i assume? as they don't state changing room/bathrooms

their solution reads well though
There are solutions which satisfy both the EHRC guidance and the Equality Act exemptions. A school may provide toilet/sink/changing facilities which are single-sex (separate male and female toilets/changing) and also provide a number of self-contained, floor-to-ceiling, lockable toilet and sink facilities which can be used by either sex. This solution achieves the legitimate aim of providing safe, single-sex spaces for female pupils, whilst also not discriminating against transgender pupils by insisting they use the facilities which correspond to their biological sex. Instead, they are able use the self-contained facilities which are open to any pupil of either sex — all of which should contain sanitary waste facilities

WeMeetInFairIthilien · 16/05/2024 17:00

Sex ed is rarely taught in England before year 5, and if it is, would only be the scientific names for the organs. There is no change for this, it just formalises this.

Reproduction is usually year 7 Science, and then Sex Ed year 9 PHSE. Mensural cycle, contraception and STIs are then taught again in year 10/11 science.

WeMeetInFairIthilien · 16/05/2024 17:01

The other issue, relating to GI, is that teacher training and the teaching unions are so decidedly GI, that they publicly have stated (in the press and in communication with their members) that unless the guidance around GI is statutory, they will just ignore it.

Following from the Cass report, I can see that the only way to ensure that schools must comply, is to ban it.

If the schools/unions had been willing to discuss, and plot a reasonable path, rather than demanding that GI is the one true way, I suspect this would have been different.

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