He has changed since this disagreement.

[Someoneinthegrass]

Newish man of a year has been asking me to send him a "photo". Things are sexual between us so it's not as if he has never seen "it" before. Anyway I did not send one and he has asked a few times since and one night I sent the photo but then regretted it 5 minutes later so I deleted before he had a chance to see it.

He has clearly been a bit off with me since all whilst telling me to resend it and it has now been a few weeks.

AIBU to have deleted it?

AIBU for not resending it since I had already sent it?

Or

AIBU for not sending him a photo when he first asked?

Didn't you post about this last week?

I definitely commented on a story about this exact scenario last week.

Said it before, will say it again - YANBU - id also get the ick for him pestering and i'd rethink the relationship.