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AIBU?

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To think the cinema is a day to day event

354 replies

Soboystake · 12/05/2024 01:17

Not an experience or day out

OP posts:
evybevy · 12/05/2024 01:18

It used to be for us.

SuprasternalNotch · 12/05/2024 01:19

Is this one of those deeply specious distinctions that centre on whether it’s Instagrammable?

AlbertaWildRose · 12/05/2024 01:20

With the cost of tickets, plus any food if you choose to get it, I would say that it is definitely not an everyday activity. It's incredibly expensive.

catscalledbeanz · 12/05/2024 01:20

I wish it were. I'm obviously far FAR poorer than you. But it used to be a monthly treat. Now it's unaffordable. Certainly not day to day. And I consider myself part of the lucky few who have some sort of disposable income. Which is increasingly rare.

Dery · 12/05/2024 01:20

It’s a treat for me. Can’t imagine why anyone would think otherwise.

PeloMom · 12/05/2024 01:21

The way it adds up I’d say it’s an outing; definitely not a day to day. Day to day is a movie at home with snacks.

HeddaGarbled · 12/05/2024 01:22

It’s “going out” and you wouldn’t do it every day, so I think probably YABU.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 12/05/2024 01:22

I think it’s a treat or day out. I wouldn’t use the word “experience” like it was a one off thing, or something to tick off a bucket list, like sky diving, or swimming with dolphins or something.

But it’s definitely a treat and not “day to day”.

XenoBitch · 12/05/2024 01:22

My local Vue is £4.99 a ticket. So not really an expensive treat. I can sit through a film without the need to eat popcorn or drink my way into diabetes.

Thirdsummerofourdiscontent · 12/05/2024 01:22

catscalledbeanz · 12/05/2024 01:20

I wish it were. I'm obviously far FAR poorer than you. But it used to be a monthly treat. Now it's unaffordable. Certainly not day to day. And I consider myself part of the lucky few who have some sort of disposable income. Which is increasingly rare.

This is me too

Mothership4two · 12/05/2024 01:33

Definitely not a day to day event for us, in fact, it's quite a rare event

Pepsiisbetterthancoke · 12/05/2024 01:36

It’s not an every day thing but maybe a once a week thing for me. I pay £20 a month for an unlimited card so usually go on a Sunday morning to see a run of the mill film and a Friday/Saturday night for a blockbuster

If you go twice a month you get more than your money back. Tend to only buy food/drink once a month as I take a drink with me and never bother with a snack

ScottBakula · 12/05/2024 01:36

It's far from a day to day thing for me, but I guess it depends on how it's planed , for me I'd meet up near by and have a drink 1st , be that at someone's house or a pub , then the flicks and a fast food / easy meal after BK MCds pizza hut , so not a cheap day . But if I was to just go to the cinema, no drinks or snack , still not a day to day thing but not a big thing either .

It's a bit like my friend he walks round the grounds of his local stately home , it cost him about £3 he goes a few times a week , but for families/ groups that want to see the home , gardens , parks ect it cost more and is definitely more of a whole family day out.

Mama2many73 · 12/05/2024 01:37

It used to be when i was a teenager.

Now we need to plan it because its so expensive, ticket cost alone are often £10+ each for new releases. It's not something we do regularly now, as a family it's too expensive.

Queenfierce · 12/05/2024 01:40

No it's a treat now very expensive

transformandriseup · 12/05/2024 01:42

When I was a teen/early 20's it I had a membership card for my local cinema and it cost £3 per film so went at least once a month but often once a week. Since we have had DD we barely go once a year so it's not worth the membership and tickets are now £8 each plus the food so too expensive just to watch a film which will be on Sky or Disney in a few months.

GreggsSteakBake · 12/05/2024 02:44

Treat, definitely. The last film I went to see was Barbie at my local Picturehouse. It's pricey!

nothingsforgotten · 12/05/2024 02:45

It's a treat for me, and I only go three or four times a year, although part of that is because I can find so few movies I really, really, want to see.

SilentConversation · 12/05/2024 03:05

I wouldn’t call it an experience or day out as we can afford to go often and it’s for a couple of hours.

Surely you’re aware though, that people have different budgets and for some people this would be more of a big thing. We were very poor growing up and I probably only went to think cinema a few time’s throughout my whole childhood. It felt very exciting and like an ‘experience’.

Does it matter if others see it differently to you?

decionsdecisions62 · 12/05/2024 03:43

It's not something I look on as a treat tbh. I find paying a fortune then sitting in a big room together having to listen to people eating and arguing soul destroying. I now only go to a cinema if there's a film I desperately want to see and can't avoid it.

Ladyj84 · 12/05/2024 05:05

What it now costs for our family we can go to the zoo for a while day and eat out after it

AgentJohnson · 12/05/2024 05:32

Bully for you OP but in our house we go two or three times a year and on of those times is around Christmas which has become a tradition. When I was a kid, it was very much a treat.

We don’t go regularly now because mostly there isn’t much to see and I am time poor. Streaming services and Corona also changed the film going landscape and any film that I have an interest in I usually download and watch on long flights.

How frequently you visit the cinema is such a personal thing based on many factors, cost being only one.

Kalevala · 12/05/2024 05:38

It's like a takeaway, maybe every couple of months treat

Woohow · 12/05/2024 05:53

I've been to the cinema once this century but I wouldn't call it a day out either unless it's a particularly long film! Obviously it's an experience as everything is.

ineedtostopbeingdramaticfirst · 12/05/2024 05:54

Rarely go so definitely a treat. Plus it's expensive.

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