been seeing a guy for over a month. I do really like him and he phones me a lot and keeps in touch
we both have children and busy lives. plus the extra stress of us living an hr from each other
however its been working until recently
So he has now cancelled and flaked on 3 dates with me (that he arranged)
the first time he basically said he wanted to go gym after work and realised he wouldn't be back in time
Second time was last thursday as he said he was sorry but got caught up with work and needed to go shopping for his daughters bday. But he did phone me for 2 hrs that night instead. on the phone he kept saying when can he see me? i said well thats down to you and he suggested tonight yes this night now
So weve got on fine the last few days seems really into me but as I feared he cant see me tonight this time coz he has his daughter last minute
Now this time Im really annoyed. Its him who keeps arranging and then flaking
so i phoned him and he said his kid comes first which i agree with but i wanted to know why he keeps saying he wants to see me and then flakes?
he got annoyed and said well i cant just fuck everything off like you! erm I dont fuck anything off. I plan and arrange my time
So i told him its upsetting to keep being cancelled on especially when its him initiating the date.
I was annoyed and basically sent him a msg saying i felt upset and disappointed that hes done it again then a birdie finger emoji
he text me back saying i think we should just leave it there as im being abusive!
so yeah i probably did overreact but its not without good reason
now im annoyed that i've probably messed it up by sending that msg