My mum has fallen out with me. She started shouting at me over something, I was then in a bit of a mood over it as it's something she criticises me for regularly, she kept going on about things until I snapped back and now it's all my fault, she just gives me the silent treatment. I tried explaining how I felt, it fell of deaf ears, she called me some names and nothing was resolved. I'm reluctant to apologise this time, even though she is my mum, because I do all the time and then she doesn't take any sort of accountability for her words or actions.
So it's now been 4 weeks and there's been no contact.
She facetimed my eldest child once, the call lasted a few minutes. My siblings keep telling me to just take the children round even though I don't feel comfortable just turning up at my mums door when she's clearly not speaking to me.
Aibu in thinking that my mum is the one who should be trying to reach out to see her grandchildren if she wants too.