to post this here?

[BeMyLilBaby]

I know this is the wrong section but really need some advice reassurance even if its just to tell me to get agrip and this is the busiest section IYSWIM

Have just had coil out, LMP was feb 16-21 and before this was in dec, BUT prior to dec had been every month, regular-ish (within a few days of expected) febs was quite heavy, painful and had clots so thought might have been a mc rather than straight period due to coil, no period since and am now getting self worried that its something more serious, cannot ask mum, she died whe i was ten, am scared, nt being able to have kids would destroy me. have fallen pg before tho if that has a bearing? Mc last july. PLEASE HELP ME x

Have you done a PG test?

you need to see your doctor

what sort of coild was it? If a hormoney one, your cycle could be re-adjusting, or maybe you are pregnant- have you done a test?

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yeah on saturday it was BFN, then had coil out mon which i thought might stimulate bleed, had a few spots when i wiped IYSWIM but no real AF

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sorry xposts it wasnt a hormoney one it was a t-then some numbers, am just scared not seen GP as up till now thought however wrongly that coil could cause periods to stop?x

okay, it's probably absolutely nothing to worry about, but you need to see the doctor.

As much as anything so that they can reassure you that everything is normal and you are fine.

Please make an appointment tomorrow and go and see them.

although i dont know for sure it wasnt a hormoney one x

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the copper coild doesnt cause periods to stop.you should really see your gp as the IUD shouldnt affect your cycle.it can make periods slightly heavier and more painful but doesnt affect the timing.

it was a t-safe 3680A ive just hunted out the info leaflet, am shaking.... so scared, just feel sick, although have been undersome stress recently and have been feeling queasy and tired, headachy... Could it be test was crap or i tested to early?

the hormone one is called a mirena.i have a (?)nova-T-some numbers which is a non-hormone one

What exactly is it that you are scared of?

Scared that i am heading for an ealry menopause/ will not be able to concieve or that there is something else similarly wrong

I have just read your profile and you are only 21 yes? Much to early to be worrying about menopause! It is much more likely that the coil has messed up your system for a while OR that stressing is not helping.

You have LOTS of time - try to enjoy the "trying' for a baby without stressing every month. You are still very young so time is definitely on your side!

thank you buda, thank you all, i know im being a worry wart just wanted reassurance that im jumping the gun x

You are jumping the gun!

thankyou![smile} when did this obsessive worrier take over!!! arg