So just for some context, the friend in question and myself have been friends since college, (teenagers)and we are now in our 50s. We don't see each other often as live at opposite ends of the country but have kept in touch over the years and do stay at each other's when we can. We have talked about everything under the sun and shared many things. Recently, after finally admitting to myself that I'm in an abusive marriage and need to leave, I disclosed this to my friend. I told her about the verbal abuse, gaslighting, financial control, amongst many other things. I told her that i hadn't told her over the years because she has had alot going on and that I could only really start admitting it to other's once I'd accepted it and admitted it to myself. I told her all this when she was staying at mine recently, a few months ago. So here's my issue, since she returned home she has not called once, or messaged to ask me how i am! Not one text to ask if I'm okay or whether I've LTB yet or how I'm getting on. She's sent me a very brief text to say thanks for the birthday present I sent her but that's it! I'm beginning to wonder whether this friendship is what i thought it was or was it/is it more one sided where I'm doing most of the work! What does everyone else think? I mean surely it's not too much to expect some concern and support from someone who is supposed to be a close friend?! I'm actually really upset by her behaviour! I keep telling myself that maybe she's got alot on but even then it doesn't take long to send a text message!