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to ask your thoughts on this? Fatal shooting during burglary

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itsjustataste · 03/05/2024 23:34

Happened near me very recently and our community seems very torn with lots of people slinging insults at both sides. Lots of people shouting about playing stupid games, win stupid prizes etc... whilst others calling the shooter a murderer.

I find it very sad that someone so young has ultimately lost their life and has got mixed up in this sort of thing.

BUT that being said, I don't have any ill feeling toward the farmer either and cannot say that I wouldn't do the same if faced with 3 people breaking into my home, especially if I had my children in the house.

The other 2 suspects arrested for aggravated burglary meaning a weapon was involved and there had been a break in at the same home the night previously too.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-derbyshire-68942085.amp

Marcus Smith

Whaley Bridge: Farmer held over burglary shooting death

The man is being detained on suspicion of murder following the shooting, the BBC understands.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-derbyshire-68942085.amp

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TheaBrandt · 04/05/2024 08:51

But you don’t know they are there to rob you, people have been raped and murdered in their homes. How do you establish the burglars are benign burglars and not worse?

Sceptical123 · 04/05/2024 08:51

Pudmyboy · 04/05/2024 08:29

There are people who will say 'a life is worth more than possessions' ie shooting a burglar is worse than being burgled......but my argument is, how can you guarantee that it was just going to be a burglary? If someone is breaking into your house, unless they have an eye mask on, a stripy top and a large sack marked 'swag' you have no idea what their intentions are, plus situations can escalate in the heat of the moment. I have sympathy for the farmer.

This reminds me of this case -

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/henry-vincent-inquest-death-stabbing-burglar-richard-osborn-brooks-london-a8896651.html

-His mother, Rose Lee, told the hearing: “Why couldn’t that gentleman have just stepped back like a normal person would have?” 🤷🏼‍♀️

Burglar stabbed to death by pensioner was lawfully killed, coroner rules

Osborn-Brooks pierced 37-year-old’s chest with a kitchen knife after warning his weapon was ‘bigger than yours’

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/henry-vincent-inquest-death-stabbing-burglar-richard-osborn-brooks-london-a8896651.html

Soigneur · 04/05/2024 08:52

It’s important to remember that the farmer has not been charged, and there is a good chance that the CPS will decide not to. After all they seem happy to drop cases which are completely clear cut with bags of evidence.

SaltyGod · 04/05/2024 08:52

I have lots of sympathy for the farmer.

2nd burglary in 12hrs, 3 men, middle of the night, a weapon (from ‘aggravated’) involved on their part….poor chap.

Tragic that anyone lost their life but I can understand why it could have happened.

IsadoraQuagmire · 04/05/2024 08:53

I'm delighted the burglar is dead, I couldn't care less about him or his skanky family. I'd happily shoot any crinimal myself.

user4762348796531 · 04/05/2024 08:53

Team Farmer. Without a doubt.
We live rurally, there is a baseball bat placed in a handy, but hidden spot on the upstairs landing. We’ve another under the bed…plus 3 big dogs. The police are at least 20min away, if they turn up at all.
If we had a gun, I wouldn't hesitate to defend myself and my kids.

DrJoanAllenby · 04/05/2024 08:53

Who remembers the terrible persecution that Tony Martin suffered?

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/TonyMartinn_(farmer)

He had been plagued by vermin coming on to his land to budge him and finally lost it and shot one of the scumbags.

And what about this poor chap who was terrified his wife would be hurt? www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6984581/amp/Henry-Vincent-sister-denies-violent-person-tells-inquest-no-one-deserves-die.html

Every time a scumbag is offed by a victim it is a wonderful thing as it saves us money from incarcerating the evil wrong doer.

BIossomtoes · 04/05/2024 08:54

Soigneur · 04/05/2024 08:52

It’s important to remember that the farmer has not been charged, and there is a good chance that the CPS will decide not to. After all they seem happy to drop cases which are completely clear cut with bags of evidence.

They can’t decide not to. He’s killed someone. You can’t have more evidence than a dead body.

PrincessTeaSet · 04/05/2024 08:55

Icantrememberthename · 04/05/2024 08:47

As I’m reading that it’s making me think that it’s a potentially racist and classist concept. When we talk about gangs in cities we talk about it in criminal terms and historically we didn’t focus much on the grooming aspect. But then when it started to happen to ‘nice white kids from villages’ it got a new name and a new focus. Im not sure if that’s what happened but looking back I wonder.

Whereas actually, as DanielGault has said, it’s all the same stuff. Just a different location. Kids have always been groomed and exploited into criminal gangs. It just used to be mainly kids of colour from inner city areas. Just pondering.

So if it is a possibility in this case, as per the PP who mentioned county lines, that the young people involved had been groomed they are both victims and perpetrators.

Young people groomed into these gangs get set tasks to do and often the consequences of not doing it are worse than the consequences of doing it. No way of knowing if this is relevant here though.

There is plenty of rural deprivation - no need to assume "middle class" just because rural.
Not sure about the racism aspect. White urban young people get involved in this stuff too - it just depends on the particular town or city as to whether the deprived population are white or not. Certainly in Liverpool drug dealing among teenagers is not restricted to black kids.

Turii · 04/05/2024 08:55

I don't think there is a stick of furniture or material possession that is worth a human life. Nor do I think being killed is a proportionate punishment for burglary.

the robbers clearly values other people’s possessions over their own life, there’s always a chance something could go wrong when you’re entering someone else’s property FAFO

Flickersy · 04/05/2024 08:55

BIossomtoes · 04/05/2024 08:54

They can’t decide not to. He’s killed someone. You can’t have more evidence than a dead body.

They can decide not to charge, but I suspect it is unlikely.

They are rightly holding him and questioning him while they decide if there are charges to answer.

Livelovebehappy · 04/05/2024 08:55

When you say some locals have sympathy with the burglars, why? Guess it’s the bleeding heart tribe bleating about cost of living driving people to crime, and that this poor youngster might have had a crap upbringing and mental health issues. I’m team farmer, 100%.

Kianai · 04/05/2024 08:56

Annndwhyshouldicare · 04/05/2024 08:45

I went through an incredibly traumatic burglary when I was 20. I'd only been living on my own for about 6 months. I moved back home after the burglary and didn't move out again until I was moving in with my now DH. I keep a hammer, picture hanging kit and a picture frame by the bed. I was told once that keeping a weapon for self defence was not allowed but grabbing a weapon in self defence was. No idea how true that is but that's what I do anyway. We have 3 children now and I would absolutely not hesitate to defend them and our home.

Farmer did nothing wrong.

I also have 'picture hanging' kit next to my bed at all times, also on the advice of a police friend.

When I was 15 my parents went out for the evening, I woke thinking that there was an earthquake as the window above my head was shaking. As I lay there I realised that it was a rhythmic banging.

I got up and looked down towards the back door (my bedroom window was above it) and saw a man banging one of our garden ornaments onto a chisel, trying to get through the back door.

I banged on the glass, hoping to spook him. My blood ran cold when he looked up, smiled at me and went back to slamming the door with increased urgency to get in.

I was lucky, my slightly older teenage neighbour also woke up and came charging round with his brothers and a replica samurai sword. That was enough to spook him.

But I've never forgotten his smile, and I've never been able to sleep anywhere alone since.

LadyGaGasPokerFace · 04/05/2024 08:56

@StellaGibson2022 I was thinking of that case too. An elderly gentleman whose house was broken in to by a traveller. Wasn’t he hounded afterwards by the extended family? He wasn’t charged iirc.

Yalta · 04/05/2024 08:57

I think lessons in school on consequences need to be taught.

You break into someone’s house whilst armed and intending to steal
Do you

A. Expect to be made welcome and owner hands you everything you want

or

B . Owner has bigger weapons than yours so expect to be killed or injured

Unfortunately the fact that the family are kicking off at the farmer suggests the reason why this person got killed in the first place.
They were never taught people will fight back and they could end up dead because of their actions.

KimberleyClark · 04/05/2024 08:57

MsLuxLisbon · 03/05/2024 23:37

My sympathy is with the farmer, as it was with Tony Martin. If you break into someone's house, that's on you.

He shot the burglar in the back as he was running away. That is not “reasonable force”.

Potnoodlesarentantisocial · 04/05/2024 08:57

Livelovebehappy · 04/05/2024 08:55

When you say some locals have sympathy with the burglars, why? Guess it’s the bleeding heart tribe bleating about cost of living driving people to crime, and that this poor youngster might have had a crap upbringing and mental health issues. I’m team farmer, 100%.

There are plenty of people like these burglars (with the same broken moral compass) in the community so by defending burglars' disgusting actions, those people also defend themselves.

user1471517095 · 04/05/2024 08:58

What are the chances they were after the Farmers Guns? A lot of Farmers have one. My FIL is a Farmer & burglaries are rife - Livestock, equipment & Vehicles. Nothing is Safe. Including the Farmers, serves the Burglar right.

Livelovebehappy · 04/05/2024 08:58

BIossomtoes · 04/05/2024 08:54

They can’t decide not to. He’s killed someone. You can’t have more evidence than a dead body.

I think legally, you’re allowed to defend yourself like with like, so if the burglars were carrying weapons, specifically firearms, then the farmer could escape charges.

focacciamuffin · 04/05/2024 08:58

Kids have always been groomed and exploited into criminal gangs. It just used to be mainly kids of colour from inner city areas. Just pondering.

It goes back long before that. Oliver Twist is a testament to that.

PoochiesPinkEars · 04/05/2024 08:59

@Annndwhyshouldicare @Kianai omg your stories of what you experienced. 😩

Jokl · 04/05/2024 08:59

Kianai · 04/05/2024 08:56

I also have 'picture hanging' kit next to my bed at all times, also on the advice of a police friend.

When I was 15 my parents went out for the evening, I woke thinking that there was an earthquake as the window above my head was shaking. As I lay there I realised that it was a rhythmic banging.

I got up and looked down towards the back door (my bedroom window was above it) and saw a man banging one of our garden ornaments onto a chisel, trying to get through the back door.

I banged on the glass, hoping to spook him. My blood ran cold when he looked up, smiled at me and went back to slamming the door with increased urgency to get in.

I was lucky, my slightly older teenage neighbour also woke up and came charging round with his brothers and a replica samurai sword. That was enough to spook him.

But I've never forgotten his smile, and I've never been able to sleep anywhere alone since.

That is fucking horrifying. I’m so sorry that happened to you. It doesn’t bear thinking about what might have happened had your neighbours not been there.

Nomither · 04/05/2024 09:00

Thanks for posting OP, I've felt incredibly sad for a couple of days. I know of the family, I live the Whaley end of Eccles Rd. Three days ago Rob must have been just getting on with his life in our beautiful part of the country and now his life is upside down because of 3 lazy dickheads.

The one that died was a DJ in Chapel and the pub has put all these condolences up and eulogies from family and friends on FB....I don't get it, why are they so public about grieving a criminal sket who has ruined so many people's lives?

BIossomtoes · 04/05/2024 09:00

Livelovebehappy · 04/05/2024 08:58

I think legally, you’re allowed to defend yourself like with like, so if the burglars were carrying weapons, specifically firearms, then the farmer could escape charges.

Then that should be the defence in court, not a reason not to charge.

Yalta · 04/05/2024 09:00

BIossomtoes · 04/05/2024 08:54

They can’t decide not to. He’s killed someone. You can’t have more evidence than a dead body.

But a dead body with a weapon could be considered self defence

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