50/50 relationships

[maryangel]

Aibu for being upset because I have to ask my partner to help with monthly finances? I'm sorry but I don't think those things have to be asked for along with household duties.

Obviously not. You’ve not given much information but it’s not unreasonable to split finance and life

If you live together you should split everything fairly. If you’ve been together more than a year and you can’t agree about money and domestic chores, it’s time to end the relationship.

Key rule for relationships: respect is at least as important as love, and maybe more important. Someone who doesn’t respect you doesn’t love you.