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Royal Family

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TedTheCat · 28/04/2024 22:48

I was chatting to friends earlier today who had mixed opinions on the Royals and whether they support them.

I would prefer not to have a Royal Family, but wonder what other people think.

YABU - Keep the Royal Family

YANBU - Get rid of the Royal Family

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Allergictoironing · 29/04/2024 18:33

But, regardless of who owns what, I still fail to see why a few working royals need so many huge homes

The only really huge ones are Crown Estates property, not the Royal Family's personal homes. They are maintained for the State, as befits historic houses. Buckingham Palace is very much a working environment, used for state visits etc & the King can't just decide he wants it all painted in Dulux or hang B&Q paper on the walls, the only areas they can call their own is their apartments within the building. Same with Windsor Castle, Kensington Palace etc.

Kensington Palace for example homes the Prince & Princess of Wales, their working offices, 3 other senior Royal couples, the historic court clothing collection, and has sections open to the public (including the clothing collections). It also has a number of apartments that are rented for market value or discounted to vetted people. St James's Palace is used as offices for various bodies and hosts many receptions mainly for charities. Same for Windsor Castle, loads of official functions take place there including receptions & investitures for people receiving honours.

So basically the Crown Estates properties are mainly used for Public functions, with the various Royals living in apartments tucked away from the public areas. The late Queen is said to have occupied between 6 & 9 rooms as her private apartment in Buckingham Palace, so around 1% of the 750-odd rooms there.

Livingtothefull · 29/04/2024 18:34

BIossomtoes · 29/04/2024 16:48

I’d take anything Republic.org has to say on the subject with a bucketful of salt. It’s hardly objective. The cost of changing our entire constitutional system would be massive, it’s harmless and better not tinkered with.

I do not claim Republic.org is objective, just that they set out the anti-monarchist perspective as part of a balanced view.

I don't think monarchy is harmless at all. I also think our constitutional system overall is crying out for reform, this has been the case for a long time and will continue to be the case. Even if it really does entail as much cost & difficulty as is claimed it is still necessary imo.

BIossomtoes · 29/04/2024 18:40

I don't think monarchy is harmless at all

What harm do you think it does? And to whom?

Harara · 29/04/2024 18:59

BIossomtoes · 29/04/2024 18:40

I don't think monarchy is harmless at all

What harm do you think it does? And to whom?

It harms them, for starters. See Princess Margaret, Diana, Harry’s lives in particular.

Applescruffle · 29/04/2024 19:14

Harara · 29/04/2024 18:59

It harms them, for starters. See Princess Margaret, Diana, Harry’s lives in particular.

This is a good point. And I seem to remember a mumsnet thread last year asking if you would want to be part of the RF.
The overwhelming majority said NO.

Everydayimhuffling · 29/04/2024 19:28

Get rid, keep the houses and land. It'd be great for the country. Imagine what we could do with all the rent they get paid and the money that goes to the duchies from people with no will etc. I'm willing for the country to provide a small allowance, although not for the third child of course: as per child benefit that one should not count.

CurlewKate · 29/04/2024 19:30

@BIossomtoes "
What harm do you think it does? And to whom?"

Deference to people who don't deserve it does harm to society.

BIossomtoes · 29/04/2024 19:34

CurlewKate · 29/04/2024 19:30

@BIossomtoes "
What harm do you think it does? And to whom?"

Deference to people who don't deserve it does harm to society.

What harm? More than homelessness? Child poverty? Zero hours contracts? Inability to get dental care? How about we sort those things out before we start worrying about “deference to people who don’t deserve it”, which probably includes a fair proportion of employers.

Harara · 29/04/2024 20:00

BIossomtoes · 29/04/2024 19:34

What harm? More than homelessness? Child poverty? Zero hours contracts? Inability to get dental care? How about we sort those things out before we start worrying about “deference to people who don’t deserve it”, which probably includes a fair proportion of employers.

“deference to people who don’t deserve it”, which probably includes a fair proportion of employers.

There are definitely a disproportionate number of people in powerful jobs in this country who have got there through inherited privilege, money and connections, which the royal family embodies. So if that’s something you’re worried about, getting rid of the royal family would be a good start.

I don’t understand why on earth dealing with homelessness, child poverty and the other things you list (which btw this government does not particularly seem to be doing) means that there isn’t also capacity to abolish the monarchy. People only ever make this argument when it’s something they don’t want done anyway, e.g. there was a lot of huffing and puffing in certain quarters about how ministers shouldn’t be ‘wasting time’ on something frivolous like establishing equal marriage rights for a sub-set of tax paying citizens aka gay people. You can bet a lot of those same people had no problem with massive amounts of time and human resources being devoted over multiple years to Brexit, which then left the country worse off.

dayswithaY · 29/04/2024 20:07

I wonder what would happen to them if they were abolished. People would still be really interested in them, they’d still be celebrities and followed around and photographed. Presumably, they’d live in private homes and have to fund their lifestyles somehow.

They are never going away, lots of people are obsessed by them.

wordler · 29/04/2024 20:17

dayswithaY · 29/04/2024 20:07

I wonder what would happen to them if they were abolished. People would still be really interested in them, they’d still be celebrities and followed around and photographed. Presumably, they’d live in private homes and have to fund their lifestyles somehow.

They are never going away, lots of people are obsessed by them.

The older working royals would just be like other old retired rich people - they all have their own money and either second homes in the country or could easily buy something if the Crown Estate apartments went away.

Charles has a big private income although would have to downsize a little on some staff costs I imagine.

William presumably has an investment portfolio and interest from that along with interest from the money he’s inherited from Diana and other relatives would be plenty to fund his family. They’d have to leave the Windsor house but Anmer is privately owned by the King so they could go and live there.

Edward and Sophie would have to downsize but also presumably have made some provisions for retirement age.

Anne already owns her own huge estate which makes money.

Andrew will have to beg Fergie to let him stay in that house she bought in London - made his son in law will help keep him?

If they wanted to I think Kate and William would seriously be able to cash in on their names and celebrity for a long time - in the way that Harry and Meghan have tried to do. They’d be able to accept all sorts of commercial deals etc

Charles also privately inherited a lot of assets from his mother - art, jewels, etc

He could have the mother of all car boot sales if things got tough.

Atethehalloweenchocs · 29/04/2024 20:54

ginasevern · 29/04/2024 13:48

Get rid of them. To be fair it's only a matter of time. Under 30's don't support them and they find it a distasteful anachronism so it will all die a death and not before time.

If anyone is in any doubt about the RF's excessive privilege and completely out of touch lifestyles/outlook (which is the understatement of the century) take a look at the article below:

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/royals/article-13319015/Hanoverian-Housekeeping-revealed-silver-boxes-grab.html

That was such an interesting read. And fascinating that it sounded so critical in the DM!

Not convinced by the consultant document linked upthread - I dont buy the level of financial benefit they provide to the authority claimed.

Atethehalloweenchocs · 29/04/2024 20:57

As for harms - it is not just that some people get unfair advantages in the current class system we have. It is that other people are actively excluded. So there are job opportunities, networking chances, all kinds of life changing things which no one who is not 'people like us' will get.

Needanewname42 · 29/04/2024 21:01

Both Downing St and Bute House seem to have revolving doors 🚪. Don't both unpacking the boxes!

Buckingham Palace seems to be reasonably stable, even if Charles is ill, we know who's next and who'll step in should Charles be unfit to meet other dignitaries.

wordler · 29/04/2024 21:02

Atethehalloweenchocs · 29/04/2024 20:57

As for harms - it is not just that some people get unfair advantages in the current class system we have. It is that other people are actively excluded. So there are job opportunities, networking chances, all kinds of life changing things which no one who is not 'people like us' will get.

Although I live in the USA now - a supposedly classless society on paper - it doesn't matter how much they say things like 'anyone can be President' etc. Everyone is still living with the tribal mentality of a class system. There's still 'old money' prejudices and boys club networking. It doesn't feel that much different to me from the UK in terms of the haves and the have nots.

CurlewKate · 29/04/2024 21:25

@BIossomtoes "What harm? More than homelessness? Child poverty? Zero hours contracts? Inability to get dental care? How about we sort those things out before we start worrying about “deference to people who don’t deserve it”,"

Happy to join you on a thread about anything of those things. This one is about the royal family.

Livingtothefull · 29/04/2024 21:58

wordler · 29/04/2024 21:02

Although I live in the USA now - a supposedly classless society on paper - it doesn't matter how much they say things like 'anyone can be President' etc. Everyone is still living with the tribal mentality of a class system. There's still 'old money' prejudices and boys club networking. It doesn't feel that much different to me from the UK in terms of the haves and the have nots.

There is some degree of inequality in every country - however not every country has a monarchy which expressly underpins unearned privilege, unfair advantage to the few, and entrenches it in the system.

Nobody is claiming that abolishing the monarchy will resolve social problems by itself, or that monarchy is the only social concern. But monarchy is incompatible with democratic/meritocratic values. If we are really serious about levelling the social playing field and ensuring that social issues improve instead of progressively getting worse, then sooner or later monarchy will have to go.

BIossomtoes · 29/04/2024 22:01

Atethehalloweenchocs · 29/04/2024 20:57

As for harms - it is not just that some people get unfair advantages in the current class system we have. It is that other people are actively excluded. So there are job opportunities, networking chances, all kinds of life changing things which no one who is not 'people like us' will get.

And you think that would be any different without a monarchy? It’s the same everywhere in the world.

wordler · 29/04/2024 22:45

Livingtothefull · 29/04/2024 21:58

There is some degree of inequality in every country - however not every country has a monarchy which expressly underpins unearned privilege, unfair advantage to the few, and entrenches it in the system.

Nobody is claiming that abolishing the monarchy will resolve social problems by itself, or that monarchy is the only social concern. But monarchy is incompatible with democratic/meritocratic values. If we are really serious about levelling the social playing field and ensuring that social issues improve instead of progressively getting worse, then sooner or later monarchy will have to go.

Except the countries that usually top income equality charts are the Scandinavian countries which nearly all have a monarchy.

In fact the top six countries in this chart - the only one which is a republic is Finalnd

https://www.usnews.com/news/best-countries/rankings/income-equality

wordler · 29/04/2024 22:46

And I am in no way saying a monarchy is what makes them more equal - just that it's not big influence on income equality that you are saying.

AllPrincessAnneshorses · 29/04/2024 22:48

TedTheCat · 28/04/2024 22:48

I was chatting to friends earlier today who had mixed opinions on the Royals and whether they support them.

I would prefer not to have a Royal Family, but wonder what other people think.

YABU - Keep the Royal Family

YANBU - Get rid of the Royal Family

Third option. Very slimmed down RF, most doing proper jobs, lots of current property and revenue going to the Exchequer.

wordler · 29/04/2024 22:53

AllPrincessAnneshorses · 29/04/2024 22:48

Third option. Very slimmed down RF, most doing proper jobs, lots of current property and revenue going to the Exchequer.

I would go for this - heir and spare's family only for public duties - the rest can do charity work privately if they wish on their own dime.

Increased financial transparency.

And historical assets ring-fenced and protected by an independent bipartisan body - including money made from them to make sure funds aren't misappropriated by any particular government in office.

Hartley99 · 29/04/2024 23:14

I’m a republican, but I’m not left-wing. Politically, I’m a moderate/centrist conservative.

The royals are an embarrassment. I literally cannot bear the sight of them, and quickly turn the TV over whenever they appear. They’re a bunch of ugly, thick, vulgar, ignorant, gormless, grinning gargoyles. Harry had the best education money could buy, and left school with two A-levels. He’s nothing but an ignorant little yob with a posh accent. William is just a grinning vacuum. And as for that podgy, arrogant twat Andrew, just don’t get me started. I can’t put into words the shame I feel whenever I see any of them.

The things that make me proud of this island are Shakespeare, Newton, Darwin, Jane Austen, George Orwell, Dickens, Wordsworth, Keats, Blake, etc. I take more pride in David Bowie and the Beatles than I do in the royals.

Allergictoironing · 30/04/2024 06:45

Harry had the best education money could buy, and left school with two A-levels.

And then went on to become a rather good Army officer and helicopter pilot, thus proving academic qualifications aren't everything. Royal family also produced 2 exceptional sportswomen who won international medals for Britain, having been selected purely on merit.

Not all of them are ugly in most people's eyes, that's just your bias talking. Plus that just reinforces views that looks equate to value, suggesting that their looks are a reason to condemn them in your eyes.

CurlewKate · 30/04/2024 09:35

"Royal family also produced 2 exceptional sportswomen who won international medals for Britain, having been selected purely on merit."

But they reached the position where they could be selected on merit because of huge privilege and a ton of money. Obviously everyone n that particular sport is privileged and has a ton of money, but it's important to remember that.