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MistressoftheDarkSide · 19/04/2024 09:45

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/live/2024/apr/19/rishi-sunak-sicknote-culture-welfare-reform-post-office-horizon-conservatives-labour-uk-politics-lastest-updates

So this is a big part of the next Tory strategy to get elected.

I hope the buggers don't get in

Rishi Sunak vows to end what he calls ‘sicknote culture’ – UK politics live

Prime minister to say in speech there is risk of ‘over-medicalising everyday challenges and worries of life’ while Labour calls announcement ‘cheap headline’

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/live/2024/apr/19/rishi-sunak-sicknote-culture-welfare-reform-post-office-horizon-conservatives-labour-uk-politics-lastest-updates

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pointythings · 19/04/2024 19:24

Polishedshoesalways · 19/04/2024 19:21

Shame you won’t be doing anything of the sort.

Why would I? I'm 56, a bit old.

Also working full time. But yeah, annual leave. Honestly, I'm beginning to think you're posting satire.

Babyroobs · 19/04/2024 19:25

Tryingtobewellbalanced · 19/04/2024 19:23

Yes that is correct. If your household income is over something like 22k you get nothing, thus forcing the ill person to become dependent on their partner (dont even start me off on discussing that dynamic for increasing Domestic Abuse scenario's).

ESA Contributions based is not a public purse benefit. I want to make that clear.

The belief that people are raking it in on tax payer funded benefits is absolutely misguided. I've been shafted by ill health and been shafted by our politicians. So to put it lightly Rishi Sunak can fuck off and I hope he gets severe ME/CFS and has to live with an unrecognisable life. What a twat he is.

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Have you checked entitlement to Universal credit ? Because if you are in the support group and you do not have a partner or significant savings then you would be eligible for a top up of UC ?

mathanxiety · 19/04/2024 19:25

JenniferBooth · 19/04/2024 18:59

If hes that fucking bothered he can start trying to get the NHS waiting lists down Some of which was caused by the lockdowns implemented by them.

Axe to grind much, @JenniferBooth?

Polishedshoesalways · 19/04/2024 19:28

Mental health is known to improve with purpose and having a meaningful life, getting a job is exactly what is needed if you have poor mental health!

Ofc most people would be severely depressed stuck in day in day out and feeling hopeless! Of course they are going to feel lonely - isolated and miserable. No chance of improving their lives or having any money to follow their dreams and ambitions. No purpose or sense of achievement or accomplishment.

Being unemployed is a one way ticket to dreadful mental health. I wish more people would realise that rather than compound the issue. If you are sectioned that is different but otherwise there are jobs available for most people.

XenoBitch · 19/04/2024 19:29

user1471453601 · 19/04/2024 19:22

I've spent most of today feeling so very angry about what this person is suggesting.

The shit on the crap cake is suggesting people with mental health issues sell a portion of their benefits for treatment of their condition.

It beggars belief, it really does

There is not enough MH resources to go round now, let alone suddenly "freeing" them up so people can swap benefits for them. I used to know loads of people under CMHT. Nowadays, the only people I know under them are people in active treatment. No one is just under them for monitoring now. That is all down to GPs...many of which don't have a particular interest in MH issues.

I need my benefits to pay bills and eat. On what planet is it wise to swap either of those to get therapy (and I have had my "fill" according to the NHS).

Babyroobs · 19/04/2024 19:30

XenoBitch · 19/04/2024 19:29

There is not enough MH resources to go round now, let alone suddenly "freeing" them up so people can swap benefits for them. I used to know loads of people under CMHT. Nowadays, the only people I know under them are people in active treatment. No one is just under them for monitoring now. That is all down to GPs...many of which don't have a particular interest in MH issues.

I need my benefits to pay bills and eat. On what planet is it wise to swap either of those to get therapy (and I have had my "fill" according to the NHS).

If I remember rightly though you don't get PIP anyway which is what he is proposing I think?

mathanxiety · 19/04/2024 19:30

Polishedshoesalways · 19/04/2024 18:47

Another crazy commie - I can’t be bothered to reply

I can't believe you actually used the word "commie".

Joe McCarthy has been dead and gone for decades, ya know.

IClaudine · 19/04/2024 19:31

mathanxiety · 19/04/2024 19:30

I can't believe you actually used the word "commie".

Joe McCarthy has been dead and gone for decades, ya know.

It is a weird choice of word, isn't it?

Polishedshoesalways · 19/04/2024 19:32

mathanxiety · 19/04/2024 19:30

I can't believe you actually used the word "commie".

Joe McCarthy has been dead and gone for decades, ya know.

Oh it’s alive and well alright sadly! You can see plenty of posts on here.

JenniferBooth · 19/04/2024 19:32

CormorantStrikesBack · 19/04/2024 12:03

I recently had to wait nearly 3 years for surgery to remove a tumour from the middle of my fibula which had caused my fibula to shatter. I could barely walk for about the first 18 months and have been left with permanent damage and pain which will probably worsen. Thankfully I no longer worked on the frontline nhs and instead had a desk job, I’d have been unable to do my previous role.

Maybe if the nhs was funded better and people got prompt treatment and not fobbed off. Restrictions on stuff like knee replacements now, year long wait to even have your first appt with a consultant, etc. two year wait of it’s neurology! No wonder people are signed off sick!

rishi just wants to focus the blame away from him and get us all fighting amongst ourselves. No doubt it will work. Thank god the slimy fucker won’t be in power long enough to enforce this. From his ivory fucking tower, with his heated swimming pool, he won’t be waiting two fucking years to see a dr. People need to wake up and be angry.

Someone im close to has been waiting five years for his knee replacement
a. he has been phoned several times by the NHS asking him if he still wants to remain on the waiting list
b. at his last appointment regarding this they did a complete about turn and told him his knee appointment was caused by his stroke. But the knee problem started before his stroke. He has always worked manual jobs but is now retired. Gaslighting fuckers

Tryingtobewellbalanced · 19/04/2024 19:33

Babyroobs · 19/04/2024 19:25

Have you checked entitlement to Universal credit ? Because if you are in the support group and you do not have a partner or significant savings then you would be eligible for a top up of UC ?

I have a partner and a child. I'm not entitled to any UC. I could leave him to claim UC, but I don't want to.

Believe it or not, I want to get better and work and not have to put up with this BS narrative about people signed off sick as swinging the lead. Some people do get awful diseases through no fault of their own. It can happen to anyone at any time. Unfortunately it doesn't happen enough to those judgemental people who victimise disabled people.

Babyroobs · 19/04/2024 19:34

Polishedshoesalways · 19/04/2024 19:28

Mental health is known to improve with purpose and having a meaningful life, getting a job is exactly what is needed if you have poor mental health!

Ofc most people would be severely depressed stuck in day in day out and feeling hopeless! Of course they are going to feel lonely - isolated and miserable. No chance of improving their lives or having any money to follow their dreams and ambitions. No purpose or sense of achievement or accomplishment.

Being unemployed is a one way ticket to dreadful mental health. I wish more people would realise that rather than compound the issue. If you are sectioned that is different but otherwise there are jobs available for most people.

Definitely agree with this to some extent. I work in a small team, around eight of us. Four suffer from quite severe anxiety and MH issues, but it's a really supportive environment and they manage to turn up for work day in, day out albeit with a struggle. One underwent a severe trauma over a year ago, it's unthinkable really that under the circumstances she has actually been able to return to work but because it's such a supportive environment she has rather than going onto benefits which would have been the alternative( no partner ).
Many people with MH could get back to work in a supportive environment but it's often not available. I work with a lot of these people and they have literally been off work now for so long I doubt they would be able to return to the workforce ever. Many are completely unemployable.

Polishedshoesalways · 19/04/2024 19:36

IClaudine · 19/04/2024 19:31

It is a weird choice of word, isn't it?

It’s perfectly fitting. What many are proposing on here is communism in all but name, because they can’t be bothered to make anything of their lives - and they don’t want anyone else to.

A quagmire of utter misery and lost opportunity is not my idea of utopia

pointythings · 19/04/2024 19:36

You've never worked in mental health, have you, @Polishedshoesalways ?
Yes, work is good for you. My DS loves his job. But he will never be able to work full time because his myriad health conditions, for which no cure exists at present, do not permit it. He has been very lucky to get a job that suits him, with an understanding employer who makes allowances. Such jobs are like hens' teeth

For people who are worse off than he is in terms of their MH - the UK's mental health services are so bad that they cannot get someone to a point in their recovery where they can take a job, hold a job and benefit from a job. Waiting lists are huge. Thresholds for access to services are very high.

But you know all this, you just don't care.

StMarieforme · 19/04/2024 19:36

Well I'm 61 and DD27 is disabled so if they do get in again we're stuffed.

Elephantswillnever · 19/04/2024 19:38

Loads of people take the piss. I take the piss by paying lots of additional voluntary contributions to my pension. I work for the LA so I put in £100 they put in £350 and then it’s not earnings for UC so they give me extra. So for a 55p salary sacrifice I’ll get £4.50 pension. Bonus money if you manage to get it low enough to qualify for fsm one month and can apply for uniform grant. I have about 250k in equity in my house and a small mortgage. Life isn’t really a struggle.

It is shameless but within the rules. I’m sure lots of people struggle. Lots of people don’t. Possibly the rules should be tightened.

Polishedshoesalways · 19/04/2024 19:38

pointythings · 19/04/2024 19:36

You've never worked in mental health, have you, @Polishedshoesalways ?
Yes, work is good for you. My DS loves his job. But he will never be able to work full time because his myriad health conditions, for which no cure exists at present, do not permit it. He has been very lucky to get a job that suits him, with an understanding employer who makes allowances. Such jobs are like hens' teeth

For people who are worse off than he is in terms of their MH - the UK's mental health services are so bad that they cannot get someone to a point in their recovery where they can take a job, hold a job and benefit from a job. Waiting lists are huge. Thresholds for access to services are very high.

But you know all this, you just don't care.

I work in mental health!

pointythings · 19/04/2024 19:39

Polishedshoesalways · 19/04/2024 19:38

I work in mental health!

So do I. I hope you aren't patient facing.

IClaudine · 19/04/2024 19:40

Polishedshoesalways · 19/04/2024 19:36

It’s perfectly fitting. What many are proposing on here is communism in all but name, because they can’t be bothered to make anything of their lives - and they don’t want anyone else to.

A quagmire of utter misery and lost opportunity is not my idea of utopia

How do you know what anyone posting here has made of their lives? Bizarre comment.

XenoBitch · 19/04/2024 19:41

tobeconfused · 19/04/2024 19:23

@XenoBitch there's plenty of work. You sound full of what ifs and buts, hypothetical scenarios. When they get off benefits and are forced to find work they might find a new lease of life and the rest of us can stop paying for them.

And the people who can't afford babies but keep having them to get more money.

I'm sick of it. I pay 45%!! FORTY FIVE percent tax.

My mum is on incapacity benefit and is a depressed alcoholic who barely leaves the house. I wonder if 30 years ago it wasn't an option what her life may be now. The saddest thing with her is we will never have known her potential.

Again, what employer will take on someone that has not worked for decades? Or someone who has fluctuating health issues?

Not everyone who has not worked for years is a SAHM, or a carer. They will be people who have been off for MH issues, and have now been fit for work. They wont have been off training, or picking up useful skills. They will have just been surviving. Do you know what 'forced to find work' looks like?

Sorry, but it is a worry for me. I have not worked for 14 years. Highest qualification is a very out of date GNVQ (they were last issued in 2007... so no one will know what they are!). I have MH issues. I want to work and get out of this trap... but who is going to take the risk with me? The risk for me to be plunged into more poverty is very real one on my life.

If you pay 45% tax then you are privileged to be earning that much to do so. You probably spend more on eating out than I get paid in a month.

Polishedshoesalways · 19/04/2024 19:41

I am saying this because the academic research reliably informs most of us that it is a lack of purpose, fulfilment and direction that impacts mental health.

The lack of structure, malaise and lack of meaning can be crippling.

Polishedshoesalways · 19/04/2024 19:42

pointythings · 19/04/2024 19:39

So do I. I hope you aren't patient facing.

Of course I am, and you know as well as I do that work can be protective.

Friedchickenrocks · 19/04/2024 19:44

Polishedshoesalways · 19/04/2024 19:28

Mental health is known to improve with purpose and having a meaningful life, getting a job is exactly what is needed if you have poor mental health!

Ofc most people would be severely depressed stuck in day in day out and feeling hopeless! Of course they are going to feel lonely - isolated and miserable. No chance of improving their lives or having any money to follow their dreams and ambitions. No purpose or sense of achievement or accomplishment.

Being unemployed is a one way ticket to dreadful mental health. I wish more people would realise that rather than compound the issue. If you are sectioned that is different but otherwise there are jobs available for most people.

How can someone who can't even face getting out of bed until noon and needs alcohol for their first drink hold a job down though? They'd be sacked first week. Some people with mental health problems can work and some can't. You're just generalising. Should be left up to the individual and not some faceless bureaucrats following certain rules.

tobeconfused · 19/04/2024 19:44

@XenoBitch have you tried to find work? You sound like you've written yourself off. Your MH issues might improve with a bit of work. There's plenty to be had out there. Every restaurant is looking for staff, every nursery is short staffed, plenty of jobs in hospitals in various roles.

XenoBitch · 19/04/2024 19:45

Polishedshoesalways · 19/04/2024 19:28

Mental health is known to improve with purpose and having a meaningful life, getting a job is exactly what is needed if you have poor mental health!

Ofc most people would be severely depressed stuck in day in day out and feeling hopeless! Of course they are going to feel lonely - isolated and miserable. No chance of improving their lives or having any money to follow their dreams and ambitions. No purpose or sense of achievement or accomplishment.

Being unemployed is a one way ticket to dreadful mental health. I wish more people would realise that rather than compound the issue. If you are sectioned that is different but otherwise there are jobs available for most people.

You can have purpose and meaning without paid employment. This is some trope that needs to die a death.
Otherwise, you are just saying that people what are unable to work and "contribute" are just useless.

For some people, their MH is maintained by not working, as the demands and stress can make things worse for them.