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Wife hides dishes

82 replies

beanbagluv1 · 17/04/2024 21:38

I've packed away nearly all of our plates/mugs/bowls and cutlery and left 1 thing of each for me and DH. We're only two people (and a baby) but somehow dirty dishes always pile up. AIBU?

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JustEatTheOneInTheBallPit · 18/04/2024 15:08

Having a newborn is really tough, OP. I took away the toilet seat in a fit of rage. I couldn't even tell you why it made sense now.

phoenixrosehere · 18/04/2024 15:17

HawkersEast · 18/04/2024 13:46

Pretty childish. It really doesn't take that long to wash dishes. Cant imagine being controlled by how many forks I can use 🙄

If it doesn’t take that long, one should just wash the items and/or put them in the dishwasher (if they have one) then there wouldn’t be dishes stacking up.

AmethystSparkles · 18/04/2024 15:23

I had to do that when we had a very volatile lodger who couldn’t wash up properly.

tomkat81 · 18/04/2024 16:19

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MistyMountainTop · 18/04/2024 17:00

We did this when our kitchen was being replaced and we were washing up in the bathroom!

YeahComeOnThen · 18/04/2024 17:03

You again!

you said before it was no bother to do the dishes.

younare obsessed with this. I think you need therapy

RawBloomers · 18/04/2024 17:05

If you really hate seeing a stack of dishes in the sink, then this is an effective measure to avoid that.

If the issue is really that your DH isn’t pulling his weight on the washing up front then it probably won’t be as effective, though that depends on whether he does a lot of using crockery for the odd snack where he will now need to wash something up to use it instead of just grabbing a clean one.

It sounds a bit extreme, though and like you probably ought to be looking at other solutions.

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