Partner stayed in hotel last night instead of coming to me

[Picnickcake]

My partner and I have been together for 2 years and live around an hour away from each other.

Last night he went into town drinking and instead of coming back to mine, which is a 45 minute vs his home which is more 1.5 hours taxi ride away, he chose to spend twice the amount of money and stay in a hotel in town instead. He is going to head home from there this morning.

He rang me on his way to the hotel to tell me he wanted to reassure me that he’s not up to anything he shouldn’t be.

I feel furious at this. He’s rather spend money that he doesn’t really have on a hotel than come to me?! AIBU?

Ew. He's not her possession. If a man ever called me that "his women", I'd be out the door. Lady boner gone ewww.

It’s not home?? He doesn’t live with her!

I'd look at it the other way.

If you're pissed you just want to go to sleep, so why would you pay for a taxi for a 45 minute drive when you can stay in a hotel where you are for not much more money?

Agree. And it's also not even his home. He probably just wanted to sleep as soon as possible, understandably. How he spends money is nothing to do with anyone else either.