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1 hour 10 minutes total daily walk to school

327 replies

Itsneversimpleisit · 09/04/2024 09:58

Is it a lot?

Twenty minutes there in the morning, twenty minutes home.
Twenty minutes there in the afternoon, twenty minutes walk back

With a 5 year old

Is it a lot or average?

OP posts:
LiterallyOnFire · 10/04/2024 22:32

It's fine. Our primary school walk was slightly longer than that. Not convenient, perhaps, if you forget something, but good exercise for everyone and a chance to chat. I miss the school walks.

LiterallyOnFire · 10/04/2024 22:33

mynameiscalypso · 09/04/2024 10:06

Is it 20mins at adult pace or child pace? My 5 year old is a bit of a dawdler so a 20 min walk might well take them longer. Also, make sure they go for a wee before they leave school in the afternoon.

A child who walks regularly doesn't tend to dawdle. It's transport as well as being healthy. So they learn to just walk.

CornedBeef451 · 10/04/2024 22:33

When DS was in reception we had the same walk each day. I quite enjoyed it, apart from in the rain when we would use the car.

I automatically got over an hour of walking a day which I have really struggled to replace since DS got big enough to walk by himself.

We didn't start it until he was in year 3 though so no advice for a 5 year old.

mynameiscalypso · 10/04/2024 22:36

@LiterallyOnFire Please can you tell my son that! We don't have a car so walk most places and he still dawdles!

bookmarket · 10/04/2024 22:43

That's what I did with my DD at that age. It was at least 8000 steps and so it felt good from that point of view.

Mimsymumsymoo · 10/04/2024 22:45

I dont think thats too bad. I have a 2 hour school walk, with 3 in tow. Eldest being 6. 30 mins to drop kiddo off, 30 mins home, and vise versa on the school pickup

RainIsCosy · 10/04/2024 22:45

20 minutes each walk for your child is fine. It's no doubt a good time to spend time with them and chat a bit.

As for your question about whether you'll loose weight, that depends on other factors, but all walking is good for you and adds up.

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 10/04/2024 22:46

A bit much for a 5 year old. I'd let them eat lunch at school.

User284725 · 10/04/2024 22:55

It's fine, mine did that (x4) age 3 every day because they had to tag along for their older sibling.

Then we moved further away and now it's a 35 minute walk. But I don't walk it home now, I get the bus on to work and DH picks up. I wouldn't want to do it X4.

20 minutes is fine tho. It's less than a mile. I'd say anything up to a mile is average, although most people drive if it's over 3 minutes 🙄.

SkyBloo · 10/04/2024 22:57

My youngest would have struggled with a twenty plus minute walk home in the first teem of reception. She was tired. But would have managed better with a scooter. Have you got a back up plan for a day she comes out shattered with a massive junk model to carry and its pouring rain etc?

SkyBloo · 10/04/2024 22:59

A child who walks regularly doesn't tend to dawdle. It's transport as well as being healthy. So they learn to just walk.

Not always true. We walk loads and spend 90% of it trying to get DD not to dawdle. Shes not unhappy, isn't grumbling about the walk, she just isn't getting there fast...

mollyfolk · 10/04/2024 23:04

We do a very similar walk. It’s not always me, it’s a combination of our minder, DH and myself. It’s very doable - my youngest needs a snack at the school gates and everyone will need excellent waterproofs if you don’t have a car option.

jgjgjgjgjg · 10/04/2024 23:50

Sounds fine in theory. In reality walking for nearly 1 1/2 hours every single day come rain or shine will be tiresome very quickly. And will make working pretty much impossible.

Emsbutterfly · 10/04/2024 23:56

Seems ok my walk is 10 mins there 10 mins back but my kids would be able to do 20 - they use their scooters and makes things way easier and faster

nothingsforgotten · 11/04/2024 01:12

It sounds fine, and good on you. Parents at the two primary schools near me start parking outside up to an hour before school ends, presumably so they can park as close as possible so they, and their children, don't have to walk more than a few steps to the car!

Deathbyfluffy · 11/04/2024 01:23

Itsneversimpleisit · 09/04/2024 10:10

Will I lose weight 🙏

You’ll probably pile on weight if you stop it - over an hour per day walking is a significant calorie burn!

Natsku · 11/04/2024 05:44

OnlyTheBravest · 10/04/2024 15:00

20 min walk is fine for a child.
Just make sure you have an alternative if they are not feeling well/appalling weather. e.g. Walk to school was fine, it then snowed and was an issue getting home.
I used to check the weather report and would risk assess if it was worth attending depending on the severity of the weather. I think DC only missed a couple of days in entirety.

What kind of weather is bad enough to skip school? A tornado?? Grin

God, me and DD were walking to our schools in -30 in January, everything froze but I wouldn't let her use that as an excuse to miss school, or myself (I did say if it got to -40 she could stay home, but that was never going to happen)

PeloMom · 11/04/2024 06:10

That’s not too much for an adult. The more you walk the better (unless you have conditions preventing you to)

VerbenaGirl · 11/04/2024 06:55

Sounds pretty normal. 4 x 15 was mine and that was our closest primary.

CurlewKate · 11/04/2024 06:58

@Natsku presumably you live in a country which is set up for conditions like that. In the UK we have extreme weather so rarely that most people don't have appropriate clothing, and schools do not have facilities for children to get warm and dry.

Natsku · 11/04/2024 07:04

There's nothing you can set up for -30 to be fair, you just be cold until you get inside.
But in the UK the weather issue is mostly rain, in which case decent coats, umbrella perhaps, appropriate footwear. You don't need somewhere to get warm and dry inside apart from the normal warmth of inside so long as they have somewhere to hang up coats. If they don't then that is an issue

Cattyisbatty · 11/04/2024 07:08

Our school run was 20-25 mins and we walked from age 4 onwards - if it was wet I’d drive and usually picked up in the car as well, but occasionally walked if a lovely day. (Snacks non negotiable!). Kids were knackered at the end of the day and it was a tad hilly.

presto32 · 11/04/2024 07:20

We do that for school and I actually really enjoy it as it gives me a chance to chat to DS in the morning about all sorts. We really enjoy that 1-1 time

BlueMoonOnce · 11/04/2024 07:29

I lost weight when I did this in the past. I used to walk my child to school, then either carry on with the dog for his walk, or had to walk very briskly back home to pick up the car to drive to work.

Catza · 11/04/2024 08:00

My kid walks 45 min to school. Anything under an hour, I tend to walk unless I have little time to get somewhere and back (I.e. doing a shop run during lunch break). Definitely not a UK thing as I grew up in continental Europe and everyone walks/cycles everywhere. 1h 20m a day is not enough walking for an adult, in my opinion.

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