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AIBU/WWYD - Nursery Choice

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ImNotHeartlessHonest · 03/04/2024 15:50

We have two good nurseries shortlisted near to us. Not much in it price or quality wise, we'd be happy with either. Arguing the toss with DH, won't say who has which job etc.

Both WFH mostly, both compressing hours to do 4 days, so only 3 days in nursery. Home is in Birmingham, some grandparent cover for emergencies, but lives an hour away and doesn't do early starts.

Parent 1 - WFH but occasionally in London by car and train, some overnights. Will do pick ups.
Parent 2 - WFH but occasionally in city centre. Will do drop offs.

Nursery A - 20m walk. 10m to bus for parent 2. Option to book extra days ad hoc.
Nursery B - 10m walk. 5m to bus for parent 2. No extra days option.

Driving can take as long as walking due to traffic.

One parent swayed by emergency bookings option so we can both look like eager beavers at work/help with travel, other parent more keen on a close pick up as the compressed hours make the days a bit of a slog as it is and could usually rely on grandparents to cover sickness.

WWYD?

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ImNotHeartlessHonest · 03/04/2024 19:26

GreatGateauxsby · 03/04/2024 18:36

The "better" than is so subject and will likely look totally different in 6m / 12m

2 of our 3 of our friends who went for the laa dee dah nuesery which i really liked but it was a 20min drive and im lazy that the foorballers and ex popstars sent there kids to remove their kids as they werent happy. 1 almost immediately the other after 6m there were a couple of incidents i think.

Basically its hordes for courses...

The posh one has things like a free coffee bar for parents... Frankly I'm not fussed about hanging around for coffee!

The range around here is pretty good though, and both of our preferred options are more diverse than the posh one.

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memememe · 03/04/2024 19:55

I would go with the one closest to home as your little one is likely to want to fall asleep on the journey home and therefore mucking up bedtime. Get home as quick as you can and keep them awake!!

toomuchfaff · 03/04/2024 23:09

I'd be swayed by the one you'd get benefit from the most, Which would be Nursery B as you'll have the quicker walk every day vs the every now and then benefit of ad hoc days.

cherish123 · 04/04/2024 00:48

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