This Op.
spring festivals happen all over the world, for very good reasons.
the Christian’s were no fools in co-opting it - if they’d tried to convert the natives and tried to strip away existing festivals completely, Christianity would still be a small off shoot of Judaism.
I had a full high church upbringing (df was “working” in cathedrals, 3 services on Easter Sunday😱), and still consider myself as having a faith - though don’t “do” church now . But even I know that Easter has always been an extremely hard festival for aetheists, agnostics, and uninformed to get their heads around. The whole thing of Good Friday, and cruxification and then resurrection is heavy going. Even as child in that high church, the whole religious bit was certainly NOT a “celebration” in way churches treat Easter Sunday now- as far as I can tell that has come about since rise of evangelical churches and practices became more mainstream. Easter Sunday was a rather somber and serious affair. Yes, it was “good news” that Christ was risen, but the task of saving our souls was not a happy clappy “celebration” .. I only remember getting a single chocolate egg, eaten only after service and the lamb roast. Though I preferred the hot cross buns and simnel cake anyway😉
so, I get where you coming form with all the “HAPPY Easter” - that just seems a weird thing for people to say and strikes me as pretty poorly informed greeting. Though what someone would say instead is a bit of a blank for me. I certainly never recall anyone saying “happy Easter” before 1990s! Don’t remember Easter cards either - no one in CoE cathedral lay sent them!
But, It is a happy festival if we look at it as a spring celebration - particularly after such a wet, miserable Grey winter. We all need festivals to break up year, mark passages of time, establish family rituals and draw us closer to family and friends. In that sense , yes I’m all for a bit of feasting, meeting, and jolly times.
so, embrace both- as seperate events that fall at same time. It is NOT one or the other. The two were merged over a 1000 year ago, continue to recognise that , and that in some families a different emphasis is placed on each bit.