To go nuclear over this- bin and mug crimes

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My DH is normally lovely but he has done not one but two crimes and I need some perspective.

1. He hasn't been emptying the kitchen bin, just pushing stuff further down. I tried to empty the bin just now as it stinks and the bag has burst sending the contents flying.

It's a mess and so much stuff is still lodged in there.

1. The builder has been here and H gave him my mug for his brew. My mug that has 'Mum' written on it that I got as a gift.

I don't know why he has done that.

Are these things that would bother you?

The bin would piss me off, and I'd be getting him to clean up.

Mug wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

They are not things I'd go nuclear over no. However, the bin thing is just laziness. The mug thing I don't see the issue.

I'd make him clean up the bin mess.

The mug wouldn't bother me in the slightest

get the builder to quote you for a new patio

Someone touches my favourite mugs (I have 2 one for tea and one for coffee) and it's no holds barred

My xh would have done the mug thing to antagonise me. The bin thing is nasty.

Bin yes, mug no.

Nuclear would be something of an over reaction.

Bin would rage me (but to be fair dh is the bin police in this house and he’d never do that)
the mug thing- would probably secretly enrage me.

However, I raise you- doing the dishwasher and if things have ‘residue’ (dried on porridge/ soup being the worst culprits) just putting them back in, cycle after cycle, until the residue is repeatedly baked onto the bowl and is stronger than the bowl itself. 😡

I'm guilty of the bin crime. At times I am too lazy to take it out, especially if its raining so I push it down until it will no longer be pushed down and I'm forced to wrestle the bag out of the bin.

But then I'm worse than your husband because I would still be very irritated it split on me even though it's my own fault!

Yes I would be unhappy with both crimes. I have my favourite mugs (and glasses) and no one is allowed to use them except me

Your bin should not smell. Food scraps should go in your food waste.

Was there a reason why you couldn't empty the bin yourself before it got too full?

The bin is annoying, the mug is a mug. Who cares what it says on it

I would buy thicker bin bags that never cause splitting.

And I would wash the mug.

And then I would feel happy.

You’re an adult, get a grip.

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If the mug is special to you, you need to put it away somewhere next time there is strangers in the house that dh may make a cup of tea for.

Binbag is so annoying but I’m a perpetrator of this crime too so…

Mug - couldn’t care less. Unless it’s been hand painted by the dc, it’s probably a generic mug that’s been mass printed and bought in a ‘that’ll do’ way - I don’t drink tea or coffee but I have a couple of glasses I would always choose over some others for water. We have tradespeople in frequently doing stuff here and if I reach my favourite glasses first for their drinks or dhs most used mugs for tea - that’s what they get.

I sometimes worry that these type of threads are started by my DH.

Oh Yes,
The Mug, UGH!!!!!!!
I would have to ditch it sorry.
Now The Bin.
LARGE bins are. NO NO!!!
LARGE bins always get left, become over smelly.
Get a smaller Bin which is emptied every day. For smelly stuff. ...,Wrappings stuff in another container. ......Another bin for RECYCLE.

Both are worthy of at least a hefty fine.

My dh has had to learn very specific rules about mugs... I have a small tea one, big tea, nespresso coffee, caffetiere, hot chocolate and herbal tea. He has one mug and then designated guest cups.

God, these husband threads are never ending.
Just speak to the man, and stop boring us with your tedious domestic squabbles.

Is there a reason why A Man cant lay on his back for twenty four hours while his Wife and Two female nurses yell at him while he pushes A MELON out if his org@n.

You’d have to get rid of a mug simply because a stranger has dared to use it? How on earth do you cope in cafes and restaurants?

The MN batshittery gets worse by the day

The bin explosion is annoying. He should clean it up.

That might be due to human biology and anatomy darling