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To think that Poor Things is actually a seriously fucked up film?

749 replies

AngeloMysterioso · 13/03/2024 21:29

Spoilers obvs

Basic plot summary- pregnant woman trapped in an abusive marriage attempts suicide by jumping from a bridge. Frankenstein-type scientist retrieves her body, transplants the unborn baby’s brain into her head and brings her back to life. This child-woman is then basically abducted by a dodgy bloke who teaches her all about the joys of fucking, she very naively gives all their money away and because they are now broke and she enjoys sex so very much, she becomes a prostitute, whilst still having the mental age of a young child.

There’s no denying Emma Stone is brilliant in the role, but AIBU to think that it is otherwise one completely messed up Freudian nightmare of a movie?!

OP posts:
ManchesterBeatrice · 15/03/2024 19:07

Watching a second time tonight, so fabulous 😊😳

Mirabai · 15/03/2024 19:10

This...why would anyone want to write it!?

Because he got off on it obviously. Writers explore their interests and fantasies in their work.

The book is a male fantasy about unfettered female sexuality/prostitution/exploitation with cod female empowerment and philosophy thrown in to make it palatable.

Mirabai · 15/03/2024 19:16

middleofthenightmediumsizedtoblerone · 15/03/2024 17:50

I going to watch it this weekend.

We've just been talking about it in the pub. The opinion of sone Mumsnetters is not what I'm seeing elsewhere.

Cursory look online would show these opinions are not confined to MN.

Doyoumind · 15/03/2024 19:44

OoooohSpookyGhost · 15/03/2024 13:59

What’s hypocritical is that they’re ‘exposing’ this by exposing her to the misogynistic, explorative and manipulative behaviour of the male directors, audience, and society at large. You can’t remove the film from the context of the situation the west is in - which is that the worth of women lies in their sexual availability for men. I do not believe that adding to the myriad of media already pandering to this hits the correct note. But I also think that the directors absolutely know this and don’t care.

It won four Oscars. Two went solely to women, and two to teams including women. That's part of the context, in addition to the wider context you discuss.

There's only one director, but multiple producers, of which Emma Stone is one.

I don't think there needed to be as much sex in the film as there was. I'll give you that. I've said I don't think the film is feminist, but there's a hell of a lot of other films out there that are way more exploitative and where women aren't building successful careers. Why get so wound up about this one?

OoooohSpookyGhost · 15/03/2024 19:46

Doyoumind · 15/03/2024 19:44

It won four Oscars. Two went solely to women, and two to teams including women. That's part of the context, in addition to the wider context you discuss.

There's only one director, but multiple producers, of which Emma Stone is one.

I don't think there needed to be as much sex in the film as there was. I'll give you that. I've said I don't think the film is feminist, but there's a hell of a lot of other films out there that are way more exploitative and where women aren't building successful careers. Why get so wound up about this one?

I’m not in the least bit wound up - I’m critiquing it. I critique a lot of things. I also praise a lot of things.

mandlerparr · 15/03/2024 19:47

I have not seen it, but from the plot I would guess it is a satire of all the "born sexy yesterday" tropes in movies.

Screamingabdabz · 15/03/2024 19:47

OoooohSpookyGhost · 15/03/2024 14:31

It has sex in it.

It’s a good movie to analyse to understand how sex/nudity isn’t the problem, but rather how it is presented can be. It has a female director and it tries extremely hard to shoot the movie from a non-exploitative, non-male gaze perspective. It therefore gives the female character, and the female audience, agency they aren’t usually afforded.

Interestingly (to me, anyway) I loved this movie when I saw it at a fairly young age in a way that jarred against other movies with sex/nudity and so I sought out why that might be. There’s a plethora of very well written academic papers on it, and I would also highly recommend ‘Ways of Seeing’ as a very small but valuable book on looking at the world through different perspectives.

Edited

I loved ‘The Piano’ too and I hadn’t thought about it in those terms but she rejects patriarchy and feels desire on her own terms. A brilliant, brilliant film with amazing performances, cinematography and score.

Soubriquet · 15/03/2024 19:49

I remember when I first heard of it and I was horrified. I thought it was like legal paedophilia but I bit the bullet and watched it yesterday.

It was…interesting. I won’t watch it again as I didn’t really enjoy it but I’m glad I watched it at least once. I did like the ending though

OoooohSpookyGhost · 15/03/2024 19:49

Screamingabdabz · 15/03/2024 19:47

I loved ‘The Piano’ too and I hadn’t thought about it in those terms but she rejects patriarchy and feels desire on her own terms. A brilliant, brilliant film with amazing performances, cinematography and score.

I’m not talking about the characters, I’m talking about the cinematography.

ETA: apols, reading too quickly! Yes you’re right, and especially about the score - one of the best soundtracks ever!

Goldenbear · 15/03/2024 19:50

Doyoumind · 15/03/2024 19:44

It won four Oscars. Two went solely to women, and two to teams including women. That's part of the context, in addition to the wider context you discuss.

There's only one director, but multiple producers, of which Emma Stone is one.

I don't think there needed to be as much sex in the film as there was. I'll give you that. I've said I don't think the film is feminist, but there's a hell of a lot of other films out there that are way more exploitative and where women aren't building successful careers. Why get so wound up about this one?

It really does appear the opposite - being upset, anger with some posters that someone doesn't like a film that they do. It's a film discussion - nothing more, nothing less, chill out.

Jowak1 · 15/03/2024 19:51

I had to turn it off I'd had enough not for me.

OoooohSpookyGhost · 15/03/2024 19:53

Goldenbear · 15/03/2024 19:50

It really does appear the opposite - being upset, anger with some posters that someone doesn't like a film that they do. It's a film discussion - nothing more, nothing less, chill out.

I think I’d better stop reading/replying when I’m multi-tasking! 😂

Goldenbear · 15/03/2024 19:55

OoooohSpookyGhost · 15/03/2024 19:53

I think I’d better stop reading/replying when I’m multi-tasking! 😂

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I agree with you, I'm being told I'm stupid for not liking it too,

I think anger has been shown from some who are insistent we are wrong.

grannieali · 15/03/2024 19:56

Confused by reviews, I obtained a copy of the book "Poor Things" . Most of it hangs on the "Gothic" idea of scientific reanimation - see "Frankenstein", though a separate statement by Bella/Victoria at the end, denies this". A lot of enjoyable ranting is aimed at Victorian values ( the author was born in 1911) and the false expectations of women by cruel and inadequate men. Set mostly in Glasgow in the 1880's. I did discover that the film maker has probably ruined the book, by removing the Scottish social settings and comments entirely. I have decided not to bother going to see the film. I strongly recommend reading the book. Purchase as a used paperback copy online. It is not really suitable for making into a film. Bella becomes a respected, ardently socialist, female doctor, living into the twentieth century

OoooohSpookyGhost · 15/03/2024 19:56

Goldenbear · 15/03/2024 19:55

I agree with you, I'm being told I'm stupid for not liking it too,

I think anger has been shown from some who are insistent we are wrong.

Haha. Sorry, edited as you were posting I think! I sent you a DM. Totally agree!

Goldenbear · 15/03/2024 19:57

OoooohSpookyGhost · 15/03/2024 19:53

I think I’d better stop reading/replying when I’m multi-tasking! 😂

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😁

Ramalangadingdong · 15/03/2024 20:02

i wonder how the film would come across if the Bella character was male and the Mark Ruffalo character female. Someone should do this as a remake.

Pigeonqueen · 15/03/2024 20:12

Going to watch it this weekend with dh and already feeling a bit uneasy having read some of the comments etc but trying to have an open mind.

Probably should just stick to Wonka…!

Mirabai · 15/03/2024 20:26

Ramalangadingdong · 15/03/2024 20:02

i wonder how the film would come across if the Bella character was male and the Mark Ruffalo character female. Someone should do this as a remake.

Or if the writer had been female. Where they have taken a child-woman unfettered by social conditioning? Into masturbation, brothels and exploitation? Hell no.

HRTQueen · 15/03/2024 20:28

grannieali · 15/03/2024 19:56

Confused by reviews, I obtained a copy of the book "Poor Things" . Most of it hangs on the "Gothic" idea of scientific reanimation - see "Frankenstein", though a separate statement by Bella/Victoria at the end, denies this". A lot of enjoyable ranting is aimed at Victorian values ( the author was born in 1911) and the false expectations of women by cruel and inadequate men. Set mostly in Glasgow in the 1880's. I did discover that the film maker has probably ruined the book, by removing the Scottish social settings and comments entirely. I have decided not to bother going to see the film. I strongly recommend reading the book. Purchase as a used paperback copy online. It is not really suitable for making into a film. Bella becomes a respected, ardently socialist, female doctor, living into the twentieth century

Well I guess seeing a child like woman be fucked by various men then a little bit of girl on girl action is far more entertaining than seeing a woman being respected for having strong political ideas and becoming a doctor though the film eluded to some sort of growth it didn’t you shall be glad to hear waste too much time on this part of the story

Mirabai · 15/03/2024 20:31

Bella becomes a respected, ardently socialist, female doctor, living into the twentieth century

Ah yes the happy hooker male fantasy that brothels and male exploitation don’t break women and give them syphilis, but pave the way to respectable careers..

HRTQueen · 15/03/2024 20:32

Oh yes I forgot the masturbating I was thinking to hard at what actually happened in the last five minutes of the film

Mirabai · 15/03/2024 20:39

HRTQueen · 15/03/2024 20:28

Well I guess seeing a child like woman be fucked by various men then a little bit of girl on girl action is far more entertaining than seeing a woman being respected for having strong political ideas and becoming a doctor though the film eluded to some sort of growth it didn’t you shall be glad to hear waste too much time on this part of the story

Of course not. You wouldn’t want a middle-aged man’s fantasy about nymphomania deflated by socialism or medical terms.

HRTQueen · 15/03/2024 20:41

Or the chance to win an Oscar for really pushing yourself past your usual limitations in the name of art

Mirabai · 15/03/2024 20:44

My favourite critique from the Guardian:

Bidisha Mamata, broadcaster and presenter

Bloated wank fantasy or simple-hearted bildungsroman? Poor Things is both. The plot is this: Frankenstein creates a manic pixie baby dream girl who’s also a socialist PhD hooker who’s also a thoroughly modern Millie and striking fashion plate who makes no emotional demands and is also a really intelligent nymphomaniac without a jealous bone in her body. With her fresh mind, literal interpretation of events and gorgeous looks, she’s just so bewitchingly bold and artlessly instinctual and unspoilt that she drives men mad with lust and love and longing. But those men just want to control her.

Bella’s “adventures” are 98% penetrative heterosexual sex and 2% conversation. I was particularly grateful for her foray into brothel life, because men who write stories can’t imagine any job for women except prostitution, and then they turn themselves inside out spaffing off about how it’s all just so philosophically interesting, and add insult to injury by putting these masturbatory, self-justifying thoughts into the mouths of fictional women. But what would I know? Just like Bella at the start of the film, I’m just a braindead fuckwit, and I don’t have Bella’s unique combination of intense carnality and virginal beauty to make up for it.

Not that it doesn’t look great, like Willy Wonka directing a Campari ad. Know what we also see a lot of? Stone’s nipples, pubic hair, supine body and unaware, sleeping face. Lanthimos has depressing form in this regard – remember the long, leering, breasty shot of a teenage girl swimming backstroke in The Lobster, and the full-body underwear shot of a teenage girl displaying herself to the boy she wants to impress in The Killing of a Sacred Deer. His camera just eats up all that nubile female flesh.

Poor Things also had a screenplay by McNamara, photography by Robbie Ryan, is based on the novel by Gray, and is executive produced by Daniel Battsek and Ollie Madden. So let me say to all these guys: thank you for explaining.