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To ask you, if you’re one week away from payday…

107 replies

Munnymunnymunny · 09/03/2024 18:32

How much disposable income do you usually have left? Purely nosey and nobody has to answer. I have about £300 left in my current account. All bills have gone out and I have savings and shouldn’t need fuel until after I am paid, so it will just be top up food shop, a few train tickets and anything else I need to get. I haven’t saved anything this month 😬

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NotFastButFurious · 09/03/2024 23:10

SpringSprungALeak · 09/03/2024 22:36

@WavyLines11

well said!!

@NotFastButFurious

what an arrogant pov. Pride in your achievements is one thing, maybe consider others weren't in the position to be offered or take up those opportunities.

you're one accident/health condition to no longer be in your situation. Think on that before telling people they're not as wonderful as you.

the opportunities are there, you just have to take them!
see also savings accounts and insurance policies re. Accidents and illnesses.

Janedoe82 · 09/03/2024 23:11

About 4K but not so long ago would have been much much less. Circumstances change.

maddiemookins16mum · 09/03/2024 23:17

I usually have about £150.00 left a week before payday, all bills are out before the 5th of the month, including money that goes in to the ‘food shopping‘ account.

Newbalancebeam · 09/03/2024 23:18

@HungryBeagle - same here. All savings and bills sorted on payday, so also work to a zero budget by next payday. Funds allocated for everything - cars/next year’s insurance/kids’ activities/kids’ savings/holidays/mortgage overpayments etc. Approx £1000 for a month for food and sundries, £250/week spend. Did a big shop today which will last until next weekend and around £200/week for the last two weeks of the month. Would have been slightly more but bought DC coats today. I find transferring savings as soon as we get paid makes sure the money doesn’t just get frittered away.

lifeisawillow3 · 09/03/2024 23:21

I get paid in 2 weeks and I have £160 but that's from some left last month. After everything I have between 280-310 spare all together usually

SpringSprungALeak · 09/03/2024 23:29

NotFastButFurious · 09/03/2024 23:10

the opportunities are there, you just have to take them!
see also savings accounts and insurance policies re. Accidents and illnesses.

@NotFastButFurious

Jow long do you think your savings would last if you could never work again.

How much would your insurance pay out if your child developed a life limiting illness?

if you became disabled?

HollyKnight · 09/03/2024 23:34

Anything between £1 and £1000. Usually closer to the latter unless there has been an emergency. I'm another one who sorts it out at the start of the month. Wages going into the main account. A transfer is made into the savings account on payday. A transfer is made into a "spending account" (a Tesco one for the Clubcard points). Bills/DDs come out a few days after payday. What's left stays in the main account, just in case it's needed. If it isn't needed by the end of the month, a bit is transferred to be used for treats and the rest goes into the savings account.

We don't ever use the main account for spending because it's too easy to fritter it away. Having a limited amount in the "spending account" means we have to be more mindful with spending.

IloveAslan · 09/03/2024 23:34

FoFanta · 09/03/2024 18:35

I work in a public service organisation in Ireland and we get paid fortnightly. After years of being paid monthly, I cannot tell you how much better it is.

Monthly payments are not the norm here, I would hate to be paid monthly. Fortnightly is much better.

Differentstarts · 09/03/2024 23:35

I'm usually in my overdraft by this point

fallosp · 09/03/2024 23:35

I have about £4k in there. I get other income on top of salary and various payments coming out at different times (sometimes once a term so a big chunk at once). I don't keep track of it all so I just keep enough balance so that I'll be able to cover any bill that might come up (including occasional big credit card bills which get paid in full).

JaceLancs · 09/03/2024 23:38

A week before payday - I have about £1500 left because I put most things that I can in my credit card - direct debit for that goes out around payday depending on where it falls so some months will be ok others need to top up out if savings

Jellycatspyjamas · 09/03/2024 23:41

All savings and bills sorted on payday, so also work to a zero budget by next payday. Funds allocated for everything - cars/next year’s insurance/kids’ activities/kids’ savings/holidays/mortgage overpayments etc.

I do zero based budgeting too - everything accounted for when it comes in so I know exactly what I have to spend, have planned all the annual expenses and savings. Makes it much easier to keep on top of spending, and saving.

BobbyBiscuits · 09/03/2024 23:47

None. I used to be broke 3 days after payday when I was paid fortnightly. Now I am ok for the first 3 weeks but last one I always need to get DH to pay for everything. Lol. He's on about 200 a month more than me.

Bearpawk · 10/03/2024 00:01

Anything between £200-£600 depending on what I've been doing that month

penjil · 10/03/2024 00:59

NotFastButFurious · 09/03/2024 21:10

Oh yeah cos 4 a levels, a degree from a red brick uni, a masters in a specialist subject, buying property on a single income and being one of the most senior technical female personale in the country in your male dominated industry comes handed to you on a plate and without sacrifices!! 🚮

There are thousands that can't afford university, however able they may be.
Many single people struggle to pay for a house by themselves.
The fact you're the only woman is your field is just circumstance.

Garlicking · 10/03/2024 01:51

NotFastButFurious · 09/03/2024 23:10

the opportunities are there, you just have to take them!
see also savings accounts and insurance policies re. Accidents and illnesses.

Who the heck do you think does the essential, but low-paid, jobs we all rely on? They aren't lazy wasters, that's for sure. And they are not well off.

Sometimes, somebody's hubris is so exaggerated that I wish bad things would happen to them, so they can see. However, there is no karma and the things happened to me, despite being acutely aware of inequalities. The insurances find a reason to stop paying out. The savings disappear like water down a large plughole.

More to the point, NFBF, you're in a privileged position whether or not you recognise the back-breaking labour put in by your delivery people, retail and serving staff, sanitation workers and the rest. There's no need to be supercilious, it isn't necessary to your good fortune.

Meadowfinch · 10/03/2024 01:55

Last month, £185 but that's unusual.

Normally £500 ish, maybe a bit more.

AlmostAJillSandwich · 10/03/2024 02:00

I had about £25 left last month.

youdialwetile · 10/03/2024 02:02

We don't get paid monthly now, but I remember what that was like...awful.

DH and I are paid fortnightly on opposite schedules so we have pay coming in every week. The amount varies a bit depending on our side jobs.

It's brilliant...especially the months when the days work out and there are 3 paychecks for one of us. We both have two months out of the year fall that way.

So we never really have that "end-of-the-month" dread that I used to fear. It did take some getting used to but I'd not go back. USA based.

Starseeking · 10/03/2024 02:10

Scattercushiony · 09/03/2024 19:20

You'd get over 5% interest in some places if that was in a savings account.. £900 over a year! Why have it in your current account doing nothing?

long story. It won’t be there forever

If you need somewhere to "hold" it that offers easy access, I'd put it in premium bonds as you'd be able to get to the money in a day or two, yet would be in with a chance of a big win.

theprettywreckless · 10/03/2024 03:12

I have about £4 left and no food shopping bought for the week yet.

difficultspaghetti · 10/03/2024 03:13

I got paid 2 days ago and have £20 left. 🫥

BusterGonad · 10/03/2024 03:56

NotFastButFurious · 09/03/2024 21:10

Oh yeah cos 4 a levels, a degree from a red brick uni, a masters in a specialist subject, buying property on a single income and being one of the most senior technical female personale in the country in your male dominated industry comes handed to you on a plate and without sacrifices!! 🚮

It'll be interesting to know where your parents come into all of this. I highly suspect high achievers, good income etc.

GlitterBall91 · 10/03/2024 05:54

I’m on stat mat pay and absolutely nothing- I’m going into my savings every month just to pay bills. Going back to work soon but then will have childcare costs so things will be better but not by much

TidyDancer · 10/03/2024 06:46

I'm in a slightly better position now than I have been in the past. I would say I have anything between £400-£1000 disposable available to me a week before payday most months.

It goes into savings though. I used to live month to month but I had a change of job last year (left the old one because I was subjected to the most awful treatment and eventually bullied out by senior staff) and I'm much happier where I am now but I also get huge anxiety over not having enough savings to cover six months of expenses in case anything happened so that's my bare minimum of savings I want to have at all times. I therefore don't really see my disposable income as free to spend, it's my safety net.