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AIBU to be shocked by the Irish referendum?

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Yetmorebeanstocount · 09/03/2024 16:17

I'm not from the Irish Republic. I just read what the ballot was about. I am shocked at what their constitution contained:

Article 41.2.1° “In particular, the State recognises that by her life within the home, woman gives to the State a support without which the common good cannot be achieved.”
Article 41.2.2° “The State shall, therefore, endeavour to ensure that mothers shall not be obliged by economic necessity to engage in labour to the neglect of their duties in the home.”

I'm even more shocked that early results suggest the Irish have voted to KEEP this dire crap in their constitution.

Am I missing something?

OP posts:
ThirtyThrillionThreeTrees · 09/03/2024 21:19

It was been just confirming that the "Care" referendum was defeated with a 73.9% NO vote, the highest ever NO vote in any referendum in the State.

The "family" referendum was the 3rd highest defeat ever.

DanielGault · 09/03/2024 21:21

ThirtyThrillionThreeTrees · 09/03/2024 21:19

It was been just confirming that the "Care" referendum was defeated with a 73.9% NO vote, the highest ever NO vote in any referendum in the State.

The "family" referendum was the 3rd highest defeat ever.

Edited

Shocking numbers altogether.

alittleprivacy · 09/03/2024 21:22

Sashamalia · 09/03/2024 21:19

You're the one who told an Irish person to read about the famine.

That made loads of sense!

How old are you because when I was a student, neither the primary nor the secondary school curriculum detailed the level of removal of food from Ireland during the famine and more highlighted the potato blight as the reason so many died? It was a pretty small part of the secondary curriculum too, as the senior cycle history course started from 1877.

Sashamalia · 09/03/2024 21:28

alittleprivacy · 09/03/2024 21:22

How old are you because when I was a student, neither the primary nor the secondary school curriculum detailed the level of removal of food from Ireland during the famine and more highlighted the potato blight as the reason so many died? It was a pretty small part of the secondary curriculum too, as the senior cycle history course started from 1877.

I'm late thirties. I don't think that part was written in the actual history book curriculum at the time. It just focused on blight.

But my teacher in primary school talked to us a lot about how food was transported out.

So i remember knowing that from a young age.

BurnerName1 · 09/03/2024 21:46

I watched the news there and many women have woken up to how women have been denigrated by Self Id. RTE likes shutting down women generally but even they couldn't ignore the scale of this defeat. The Countess was there too. Well done Ireland.

Alalalalalongalalalalalonglonglilong · 09/03/2024 21:53

@Sashamalia @DanielGault please give it a rest. Your points have been made.

DanielGault · 09/03/2024 21:55

Alalalalalongalalalalalonglonglilong · 09/03/2024 21:53

@Sashamalia @DanielGault please give it a rest. Your points have been made.

Well I had, but thank you for your service.

Doteycat · 09/03/2024 21:57

DanielGault · 09/03/2024 21:21

Shocking numbers altogether.

How do you mean?

DanielGault · 09/03/2024 21:59

Doteycat · 09/03/2024 21:57

How do you mean?

Low turnout wise. They did creep up a bit but they were reporting terrible turnout earlier.

newnamethanks · 09/03/2024 22:00

Sounds quite liberating to me. Mothers should receive state support to stay at home with small children, if they so choose, instead of the State baby- farming them off to someone else, often women whose own children are, in turn, being looked after by other mothers. Nuts.

DanielGault · 09/03/2024 22:03

newnamethanks · 09/03/2024 22:00

Sounds quite liberating to me. Mothers should receive state support to stay at home with small children, if they so choose, instead of the State baby- farming them off to someone else, often women whose own children are, in turn, being looked after by other mothers. Nuts.

It's not quite that simple though, they don't throw money in anyone's direction to stay at home. It remains a very difficult decision as to affording staying at home or not.

DanielGault · 09/03/2024 22:07

DanielGault · 09/03/2024 22:03

It's not quite that simple though, they don't throw money in anyone's direction to stay at home. It remains a very difficult decision as to affording staying at home or not.

In saying that, it's a good few years since I've had to deal with childcare, so open to correction.

newnamethanks · 09/03/2024 22:29

No, they don't. But they should. However a whole branch of the economy would collapse if they did put that in place now. Gotta go for 'growth' apparently, no matter how illusory it is.

Doteycat · 09/03/2024 22:36

DanielGault · 09/03/2024 21:59

Low turnout wise. They did creep up a bit but they were reporting terrible turnout earlier.

Ah ok i get you now.

Lolaandbehold · 09/03/2024 23:09

Sashamalia · 09/03/2024 20:13

I disagree that we are all well versed in referendums , particularly this one.

Most people that i know in ireland told me that they were going to vote no, because they hadn't a clue what the referendum was about.

But this is a good thing. They didn’t know what the referendum was about so they voted to keep the status quo than vote for something different, the implications of which were unclear to them.

That’s exactly how to vote in a referendum, if you don’t understand the implication of voting for change. Either that or educating oneself in order to understand the implications. (And I don’t mean taking the word of a politician who commissions the side of a bus to get their message across, for example).

Devonshiregal · 09/03/2024 23:22

OchonAgusOchonOh · 09/03/2024 19:41

It's merely a statement of fact. Do you deny the British did not know what brexit would look like when they voted for it?

And as pp's have said, if you're so concerned at countries being insulted, where is your outrage at the post stating Ireland is stuck in the 18th century?

Firstly, you know you were being facetious not just “stating a fact”.

Secondly, no one can ever know what will actually happen once any law is passed. Theory and practice are two different things.

thirdly, I didn’t see the post you are referencing. From what you say it is also rude and unnecessary, just like yours.

Mayorq · 09/03/2024 23:32

"All of the UK people who colonised ireland in the past, are all long dead!"

Soldier F and the legacy act says different

DublinFemale · 09/03/2024 23:42

@Devonshiregal

You won't see the post because many of us reported it several times before it was finally deleted.

It was the first post after the op.

Vignetta · 09/03/2024 23:56

On Twitter earlier during the rugby someone supporting England referred to the Irish team as 'potato pickers' and that attitude is why we all get so annoyed with 'just asking' threads like this one. Unfathomable ignorance plus smug superiority is a desperate combination.

DanielGault · 10/03/2024 00:00

Vignetta · 09/03/2024 23:56

On Twitter earlier during the rugby someone supporting England referred to the Irish team as 'potato pickers' and that attitude is why we all get so annoyed with 'just asking' threads like this one. Unfathomable ignorance plus smug superiority is a desperate combination.

Woah! Really? I don't do twitter. That's spectacularly ignorant.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 10/03/2024 00:06

Devonshiregal · 09/03/2024 23:22

Firstly, you know you were being facetious not just “stating a fact”.

Secondly, no one can ever know what will actually happen once any law is passed. Theory and practice are two different things.

thirdly, I didn’t see the post you are referencing. From what you say it is also rude and unnecessary, just like yours.

Firstly, I wasn't being the least bit facetious. I was deadly serious.

Secondly, I did not state that anyone could predict exactly what would happen. I clearly stated that Irish people do not vote for constitutional changes than are not clear. That clarity means knowing how our laws will be changed/impacted by the change.

Thirdly, while you may not have seen the second post, the op was sufficiently goady to warrant an element of snark in the responses.

DublinFemale · 10/03/2024 00:10

Vignetta · 09/03/2024 23:56

On Twitter earlier during the rugby someone supporting England referred to the Irish team as 'potato pickers' and that attitude is why we all get so annoyed with 'just asking' threads like this one. Unfathomable ignorance plus smug superiority is a desperate combination.

I'd like to say unusual but truth it simply isn't including British government including a Prime Minister.

Pretti Patel = block food to Ireland
Liz Truss = turnip picker

Having a paddy = I have only ever heard that been used by Britsh including on Channel 4 on Goggle box

AIBU to be shocked by the Irish referendum?
Quorny · 10/03/2024 00:20

After reading this thread: could we outsource voting in our referenda to the Irish, please?

OchonAgusOchonOh · 10/03/2024 00:33

Quorny · 10/03/2024 00:20

After reading this thread: could we outsource voting in our referenda to the Irish, please?

In fairness, we have a lot of practice 😁

The first referendum I voted in was the 8th proposed amendment to the constitution. Today's were the 39th and 40th and I've voted in all the intervening ones. So that's 33 referendums I've voted in at the age of 58.

DanielGault · 10/03/2024 00:37

OchonAgusOchonOh · 10/03/2024 00:33

In fairness, we have a lot of practice 😁

The first referendum I voted in was the 8th proposed amendment to the constitution. Today's were the 39th and 40th and I've voted in all the intervening ones. So that's 33 referendums I've voted in at the age of 58.

That's seriously impressive doffs cap

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