On holiday with DH at the moment and we have been having some issues last few months but working through them. Most of holiday has been good but there's been a few comments last night for example and I am feeling fed up of being told what to do.
I have planned the entire holiday and got us around so got my phone out at the end of dinner when waiting pay to see where we could go for a drink. He snapped at me to put my phone away and saying I'm so rude bringing my phone out in the middle of the meal. I put it face down on the table and he told me to put it away. Earlier I'd been sitting with my elbow on the table and he told me to sit up straight and get my elbows off the table. The waiter topped our wine up through the meal and I'd apparently had more by the end so he said you can pour that last glass for me as you have already had more.
Maybe I just have bad etiquette and I'm open to that being the case but I being unreasonable to think this is a bit controlling? I feel like a child not an equal partner. Sorry if this sounds petty but recently small things like this are constantly happening and I don't know if I'm the one who's wrong here.