Met up with a man 3 daytime dates and one evening date.
The last time I saw him was two weeks ago nearly as I only get every other weekend free for evening dates and one day during the week. Anyway I'm due to see him tomorrow night... something seems off..I'm normally very right when it comes to my instincts and reading situations, however this man is confusing me a little.
His messaging has completely changed.He hasnt ignored me, just really blunt with replies. I also havent heard from him in 3 days now. He hasnt ignored the last msg just blunt answers really. This was Monday morning. I refuse to play games and I refuse to chase or double msg so I'm leaving it now. Out next date is planned for tomorrow evening, something feels wierd and off, my gut feeling is hes changed his mind about me, I havent gone with my gut feelings in the past and then given people the benefit of the doubt ( as I am Normally a really chilled out person) and I've been the one to get hurt.
Now for context, I do not expect someone to msg me all day every day... that's weird, I'm Independent, not at all needy, have a life outside of dating however you feel when something is off right? Anyway I'm thinking of just not going tomorrow night as I feel the minimal contact & effort is a complete turn off if I'm honest & its s child free evening, I could spend with a female friend... who I know wont mess me around or fuck me over! 😂
AIBU to cancel this date tomorrow night?