Partner makes me feel ugly

[WhyWhyY]

I am coming to terms with leaving, but sometimes I second guess myself.

AIBU, one of my children is going through a teenage phase and sometimes her emotions get the better of her. She was being spiteful one day and said
”you’re ugly even dad thinks so” and when I recounted this to my partner he just laughed. Nothing more.

A week later I came home with a new haircut and child said I looked weird (I know I know but hormones are coming in and I try to let it go) but again, he didn’t say anything he just laughed and went back to his computer.

we haven’t had sexual relations in years and he’s not very loving to me at all in any other way but I’m so full of self doubt.

is this normal? Am I being sensitive?

he’s very loving towards our kids, tells them they are beautiful etc so it’s not as if he’s just that way sigh

Not normal OP, I’m slightly shrek like, DH would never say anything negative about my appearance and DD would be brought up short of she ever did either.

I think perhaps move by yourself initially at least, give yourself some breathing space to just be.

Hiya, guys new here!! My new partner of 9 months makes me so ugly!!! Only ever called beautiful after asking.. talks and likes girls he once fancied.. he can't even look at me when I get undressed... nothing feels real I asked him the once for a little more comments abput my body ect . he told me he can't do that for me I feel so depressed and so insecure 😔 I got out and see a fit girls he's all eyes always... but never wonder in my direction unless he feel threatened by another man... I look after this man financially he lives with his mom at the age of 33 untill me in massive debt and I've been made to feel a little attention is to much.. he's quick to get aroused over girls on the telly and socials but me in full sexy gear he has hard time getting it up I get upset feeling like its me ....Im quick to be blames its my fault he can't get hard because I get up set so I started holding the up set back and no change he follows half naked girls on social can't even comment on mine posts but quick to get upset set when some one else comments I feel so depressed and unwanted by him... always blames for seeking attention but all I cry of for is his... so lost can any help ?

I know this is an old thread but any updates @WhyWhyY- hope you’re doing okay!

Your dd will use your relationship with your dp as the blueprint for her relationships and she will think this is normal. Leave and she her that there is a different way. That you shouldn’t be disrespectful to your partner (or anyone for that matter), and that she shouldn’t accept either treating someone like this or being treated like this. She’s already started to mirror her father’s behaviour.