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To be irritated by this £100k a year whiner

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Viviennemary · 22/02/2024 23:52

On Question Time tonight they were talking about subsidised childcare and the new benefits for younger children. Then a woman came on with a boo hoo sad face and said she wouldn't be getting it. So I think Fiona Bruce said because your income is £100k a year plus Then she said that it wasnt fair as there was only one wage. And their household only had one earner.

Well tough. Folk on just over £12k a year are paying tax and this cheeky woman thinks her child care should be subsidised. It made me mad.

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BestBadger · 24/02/2024 18:04

newmummycwharf1 · 24/02/2024 15:43

Cant shift to wealth if the high earners/wealthy are chased away, can you?

Why would high earners go if you shifted the burden away from individual taxation?

xile · 24/02/2024 18:04

Muchan · 24/02/2024 17:47

Children become tax paying adults.
These adults pay towards our state pensions.

It's a necessity to create children to fund our pension, not a choice.

It's unsustainable to expect immigrants to contribute in taxes to fund state pensions.
The 8 million + immigrants that have come to the UK will eventually become old and the young will need to support them.

This was true for migrants from the Huguenots, Jewish refugees before and after WW2, Poles and Ukrainians after WW2, Asians expelled from Africa, Vietnamese and an array of others. Freedom of movement created temporary arrivals pursuing their own economic interests and whose children might be born and educated at State expense without any expectation of becoming future UK taxpayers.
Those committed to building their lives in the UK are usually an asset to the nation, irrespective of their race, colour or creed, those making their money here with a view moving it and themselves elsewhere less so - even if their antecedents have been here for many generations. The current system seems to support the latter at the expense of the former.

Havinganamechange · 24/02/2024 18:29

Totally disagree with you OP, the system isn’t fair. A couple who both earn just under £100k can get free childcare and tax free childcare but a household on a single income just over the threshold can’t? How is that right? It should be based on total household income and not on individual income. And I’m sorry but if you are earning £12k a year, you are not paying any tax as that comes within the personal allowance amount.

anon666 · 24/02/2024 18:31

I think childcare should be subsidised at any income. The way we means test everything is so stingy and discouraging for higher earners.

It's not a crime to get a good job and earn money.

Also it's all about your outgoings. You could be on £100k and by no means rich.

ineverknowwhatusernametouse · 24/02/2024 18:31

Viviennemary · 23/02/2024 07:47

I agree. In any case the one earner/two earner household argument doesn't wash with me. Two earners going to work are two people. And where is the other parent? Why aren't they contributing. Quite prepared to help single parents on low wages. But on £100k a year - at least three times the average wage just why.

And just mention benefits for pensioners on here. The amount of income to qualify for pension credit is absolutely miniscule. So subsidies for folk on £100k is ludicrous. I don't want lower taxes. But I don't want childcare subsidies for rich folk either.

You weren’t interested in listening to the perspective from the other side. You waited until you had someone agree with you. So your post was pointless. You are being very unreasonable. Why should people that better themselves and work hard to get to a good living wage, subsidise for people for various reasons on a lower income. And I’ve never been on a job that pays higher than £16k a year btw. And even though I could claim, I don’t. Too many people expecting free handouts. When did everyone stop taking responsibility for their own situation! I’m 34 and had my first child a year ago. I wanted that to happen long before, but guess what, I waited until I could afford it and not have to rely on others.

mandlerparr · 24/02/2024 18:44

Agree with everyone saying that pay doesn't reflect what you have left over at the end of the month after expenses, even living frugally.
but sorry, most people earning under 20k a year it is not because of their moral failing or laziness or any other personal failings most of the time. It is because of low pay. These jobs need to be done, the business need them to be done and many of us use the services of people earning low pay on a daily basis. You are not subsidizing low earners with your taxes. You are subsidizing the employers. They are the ones benefitting the most.

BestBadger · 24/02/2024 18:47

EasternStandard · 24/02/2024 15:46

France tried a wealth tax it didn’t work. They lost revenue

We're not France and I wasn't suggesting we should. Although now I think about it, I remember McDonnell proposed a one off tax on the wealthiest 10% in the UK of 20%. It would have raised 4 trillion.

It might seem brutal, leaving them with just 16 trillion (they own 43% of all the wealth in the UK) but unlike austerity, it wouldn't kill thousands.

Wingham · 24/02/2024 18:48

BIossomtoes · 24/02/2024 13:35

Completely agree. But a one off profit isn’t really income, is it? He’s not going to sell a field every year.

So I googled a random year and picked up this from Starmers 20/21 tax year.
Another property bought, this time for his sister.

To be irritated by this £100k a year whiner
EasternStandard · 24/02/2024 18:50

BestBadger · 24/02/2024 18:47

We're not France and I wasn't suggesting we should. Although now I think about it, I remember McDonnell proposed a one off tax on the wealthiest 10% in the UK of 20%. It would have raised 4 trillion.

It might seem brutal, leaving them with just 16 trillion (they own 43% of all the wealth in the UK) but unlike austerity, it wouldn't kill thousands.

If France won’t hang around for it I don’t think we’d get a better result

What is your suggestion?

cremebrulait · 24/02/2024 18:54

As others have said there’s inequities. Where in some countries benefits are based in household income here it often means a solo earner is taxed way more than a dual income household making them better off.

Xenia · 24/02/2024 19:00

I do remember when Chancellor Lawson brought upper rate income tax./NI down to 40% and capital gains tax to 40% i.e. same rate (CGT after allowing for inflation which is only fair) and that tax simplicity was very good. It also meant there was no incentive to make income into capital to save tax. Since then things aer worse, upper rate taxes are much higher and CGT more complex - 28% not allowing for inflation (no indexation these days which is a bad change) and only 10% for £1m of sale of a business (had been £10m and before that had been zero) so it's been up and down and quite a mess.

It is just very complex an very unfair. My advice to women h as always been yes there are these awful cliff edges as you come off benefits, as you lose child benefits, as you lose the single person allowance etc but if you are a higher earner just keep going because ultimately the cliff edge disappears and you are well over it all with your 15 free hours for childcare, no single person allowance and upper tax NI rate of 47% (plus 9% for student loan if you have one). If you have chances of promotion take them even if you end up for a year or two worse off with higher pay.

Wingham · 24/02/2024 19:01

Saltandpeppero · 24/02/2024 17:13

My math isn’t great but I think with all these figures surely it depends on what you claim and how many are in your household?

It can’t be 41K for everyone eg, a 2 parent household with 2 state educated children with a salary of 35K coming in and receiving child benefit (and possibly other benefits) must be very different from a single person with no dependents earning 35K.

Edited

That’s looking at things slightly differently.
The single person with no children may not have kids but will rely on those kids when they are adults and the single person is no longer working. Just as the single persons payments will now pay into childrens education, the nhs etc

How much that single person pays into the system is not just to look after them but the whole population. The figure of 41k is averaged out amongst the whole working age population.

LookingforMaryPoppins · 24/02/2024 19:06

Viviennemary · 22/02/2024 23:52

On Question Time tonight they were talking about subsidised childcare and the new benefits for younger children. Then a woman came on with a boo hoo sad face and said she wouldn't be getting it. So I think Fiona Bruce said because your income is £100k a year plus Then she said that it wasnt fair as there was only one wage. And their household only had one earner.

Well tough. Folk on just over £12k a year are paying tax and this cheeky woman thinks her child care should be subsidised. It made me mad.

It's a fantastic salary but there is a ridiculous situation where you are far better off earning £99,999.00 pa than £100k +! Between £100k and £125k you pay the equivalent of @ 60/70% tax on every £1 earned plus lose the childcare concession - take home is subsequently significantly less than someone earning less. Ridiculed and entirely unfair scenario also damaging for the tax purse as people simply ensure they work less hours / pay more into their pension to avoid this tax trap.

peacockshrimp · 24/02/2024 19:09

as others have said it’s very unfairly based on individual income instead of household - you could have two 99k earners eligible but a single income household is not. regardless of higher income level, childcare in the UK is expensive and very hard on many people.

Separate to this, it puts women at a disadvantage as it is often men who are higher earners in household, but women in control and in need of childcare to push forward at work.

Pushing for more accessible, quality childcare is a need, many european countries are miles ahead. focus on that instead of complaining that people earn more.

Minymile · 24/02/2024 19:12

Catniss123 · 24/02/2024 18:00

As a family with 1 high earner as I’m part time, i think it’s unfair. As others have said it should be done on family Income. I know a couple who are both on 80k so they take £160k combined and gets all the childcare benefits. We on the other hand earn £120k combined and don’t get the free 30hrs or the tax benefits. We earn 40k less than them ! Doesn’t make any sense !

The problem is that many women have been lost to the workplace or do not work full time. I say women because it does tend to be women that lose out after children are born unfortunately.

If the Govn want to get women back and working full time, which they do, they only offer the full 30hours that do that.

ThinkingForward · 24/02/2024 19:12

mandlerparr · 24/02/2024 18:44

Agree with everyone saying that pay doesn't reflect what you have left over at the end of the month after expenses, even living frugally.
but sorry, most people earning under 20k a year it is not because of their moral failing or laziness or any other personal failings most of the time. It is because of low pay. These jobs need to be done, the business need them to be done and many of us use the services of people earning low pay on a daily basis. You are not subsidizing low earners with your taxes. You are subsidizing the employers. They are the ones benefitting the most.

There is another angle to this that without access to low paid workers then the economy would automate alot of these jobs. You are seeing some of this. For example checkouts, there is alot of griping and moaning about this by some groups.

The same could be said of housing benefits. Some of these benefits might be part of the root of the problem rather than the solution to it.

With reduced access to low paid workers then pay would in many cases go up especially in cities like London. These government induced market distortions have also driven up house prices and rents.

Setting a universal national framework for housing funding would lead to many lower paid people and jobs departing the south and big cities and relocating and revitalising the midlands and the north. I doubt that a political party of any hue would advocate for a let's say £400pcm base + £100/person.

Palacelife · 24/02/2024 19:24

£100k for one family in London or the south east isn’t that much to live on. It’s all relative. I bet they have to budget and slow at end of month.
I think we have a problem with wages in this country full stop, they’re not enough for people to meet their housing needs and live on.

2andadog · 24/02/2024 19:26

TooOldForThisNonsense · 23/02/2024 11:17

So?

don’t have 2 kids then if you can’t afford to pay for them? Or wait til one is older if you can?

The state paying for childcare for people on huge salaries is ridiculous.

So by your logic, the only people who should be having kids are those who are being subsidised by the state… ?!

Perky1 · 24/02/2024 19:27

@leafybrew Then private schools may have to stop giving bursaries to less fortunate children.

Lifethroughlenses · 24/02/2024 19:41

I get why you have little patience but there are a couple of bonkers issues with earning over £100k. One is the childcare thing where you penalise a single parent. The other is the loss of the personal allowance over £100k. I run my own business and with the tax of 40% plus loss of personal allowance which adds another effective 20% tax and then national insurance, I’m getting close to having 70% of my income deducted. The result of that is I pile it all into my pension so I get it back which means less tax to help those earning smaller amounts and less spending in the economy. Economically therefore it only benefits me which is bonkers. Problem is that it looks bad politically to change it.

DodoTired · 24/02/2024 19:42

This woman is actually paying so much in taxes that she is subsidising the childcare for those who cant be bothered to make more than £12K a year. So you should be more respectful towards people who pay your way. The money doesn’t fall from magic “government money tree” - it comes from taxes, and majority of people in the UK take out of the system MORE than they put it, with the exception of these high earners. People making just over 100K are taxed to the nines, there is effectively 60% tax rate on 100-125K amount(!) and on top of that childcare isn’t subsidised. However with COL and costs of childcare and property prices £100K doesn’t go very far.

the government should have made it universal. Otherwise it will encourage the high earners (again, the ones who contribute more than they take out) to go part time or to move elsewhere, and they will lose the revenues.

and if you are jealous of someone making 100K, why don’t you retrain and start earning that?

Enigma52 · 24/02/2024 19:47

YouJustDoYou · 23/02/2024 07:29

Some people in this country have no idea how lucky they are to live somewhere with such free handouts. It's unfortunately created several generations of people who feel they are entitled. Try coming from a country where that financial safety net doesn't exist, this place is an absolute gem compared to that.

Agree %100! This country is generous when it comes to benefits and subsidies. Many countries have zero to fall back on.

Anonymousmummmy · 24/02/2024 19:49

I’m not sure I agree. If she were to quit her job and go onto benefits and get her housing and everything else paid for by the government, that would be way more expensive on the tax payer than subsidising some of her childcare costs. Being a single mother and working full time is incredibly tough if you have no help. I am not on £100k (I wish!), I’m on £50k roughly per year as a single mum to a toddler and I work full time. I am going more and more into debt each month because of the cost of childcare (about £1k every month), and I live in a very reasonable area in the UK and work from home 4 days a week so don’t have to pay much on commuting costs. If I lived in London and my salary was £100k, I bet I’d be in a similar situation as housing, childcare, and everything else is WAY more expensive in Ldn. So I don’t think it’s so black and white.

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masterblaster · 24/02/2024 20:07

It’s a stupid way of collecting the tax, that means you effectively earn negative money between 100 k and 104 k, so people desperately try not to go into that area.

I am in the bracket. I don’t object to paying sensible, well thought-out taxes that are a proportion of your income. This is to appease idiots who complain about “elites”.

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