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To be irritated by this £100k a year whiner

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Viviennemary · 22/02/2024 23:52

On Question Time tonight they were talking about subsidised childcare and the new benefits for younger children. Then a woman came on with a boo hoo sad face and said she wouldn't be getting it. So I think Fiona Bruce said because your income is £100k a year plus Then she said that it wasnt fair as there was only one wage. And their household only had one earner.

Well tough. Folk on just over £12k a year are paying tax and this cheeky woman thinks her child care should be subsidised. It made me mad.

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EasternStandard · 24/02/2024 13:47

When people look at personal tax returns what are they arguing for?

What tax rates do they want

BouncingJAS · 24/02/2024 13:47

Startingagainandagain · 24/02/2024 11:53

@Dibblydoodahdah

''But over your lifetime you will not cover the costs of your NHS healthcare and state pension unless you earn more in the future so you will be a net beneficiary. You are correct, the ignorance on this thread is breathtaking and it starts with people not understanding the difference between a net beneficiary and a net contributor.''

Again, more nonsense.

Someone on 100k could be run over by a car tomorrow and be disabled for the rest of their life and not 'cover their costs' as you put it or decide to become a stay at home parent.

I could be run over by a bus tomorrow and never need any support in old age...

Absolutely daft to suggest that you can define a 'net contributor' throughout their life simply based on their current salary.

Plus a nurse on 25k will contribute more to our society that any accountants or lawyer on 100k as far as I am concerned.

Life is not that black and white. You are no more important than someone who works behind a supermarket till.

I would have fought that Covid had shown us that the last thing we need when things get tough is another banker or edge fund manager...society would not function without the contribution of the 'little people' you seem to imply are just a burden to everyone on high salaries.

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If you do not understand what a net taxpayer is, then stop commenting.

Getting a bit tired of people on here being unable to separate the emotional over the factual.

Show us the numbers. There has been too much pie in the sky thinking in the UK lately, and thats another thing that needs to be curtailed.

BIossomtoes · 24/02/2024 13:49

There has been too much pie in the sky thinking in the UK lately, and thats another thing that needs to be curtailed.

That’s bit too Orwellian for my taste.

EasternStandard · 24/02/2024 13:58

BouncingJAS · 24/02/2024 13:47

If you do not understand what a net taxpayer is, then stop commenting.

Getting a bit tired of people on here being unable to separate the emotional over the factual.

Show us the numbers. There has been too much pie in the sky thinking in the UK lately, and thats another thing that needs to be curtailed.

Getting a bit tired of people on here being unable to separate the emotional over the factual.

Show us the numbers

yep

Heartbreaktuna · 24/02/2024 14:15

Startingagainandagain · 24/02/2024 11:20

''@Neurodiversitydoctor

Not comparatively they don't. They are also net beneficiaries. This is in no way denigrating the jobs done by people on less than £41K, but it is just a fact. If you earn less than this you do not cover your own costs.''

Daft.

I am single and I earn £30K and I do not get any benefits. I pay for: council tax, mortgage, prescriptions, public transport and of course income tax...

Nobody pays my 'costs'.

The ignorance on this thread is breathtaking.

And here we see the dunning kruger effect in full force.

User8646382 · 24/02/2024 14:31

orangesareorangey · 23/02/2024 13:57

You’re boring me now and reading clearly isn’t your strong suit - my bill will be reducing by £260 at the most.

I don’t begrudge paying anything to those lovely ladies at all, no. My issue with your stupid bloody post was that you were making a false sweeping statement about UC recipients as if we’re all the same. You clearly don’t understand how UC works, that’s all you had to say.

Not to single you out as the most ungrateful commenter on this thread or anything, but it occurs to me that your child will be receipt of 30 hour funding from September. At that point, your £260 will double to £520, and you will still be in receipt of UC, albeit perhaps £10 or £20 less per month. Let’s say your UC is reduced to £500 per month. Your nursery fees from September will be £1040 - £520 = £520. Your contribution will be a massive £20 per month towards the care those lovely ‘ladies’ are providing for the most precious thing in your life.

And I bet you begrudge every last penny.

orangesareorangey · 24/02/2024 14:38

User8646382 · 24/02/2024 14:31

Not to single you out as the most ungrateful commenter on this thread or anything, but it occurs to me that your child will be receipt of 30 hour funding from September. At that point, your £260 will double to £520, and you will still be in receipt of UC, albeit perhaps £10 or £20 less per month. Let’s say your UC is reduced to £500 per month. Your nursery fees from September will be £1040 - £520 = £520. Your contribution will be a massive £20 per month towards the care those lovely ‘ladies’ are providing for the most precious thing in your life.

And I bet you begrudge every last penny.

What are you even on about? My original comment on this thread was in response to a woman boo-hooing about how hard done to she and her partner were because they have to live on a lowly £150k in London and, shock, have to pay living costs.

I then remarked that you were wrong to suggest that everyone on UC pays just £100pm towards there childcare as this is demonstrably wrong by my own lived experience as I pay £510pm (with UC picking up the remaining £530). I have not bemoaned how much I pay on here at all or ever on MN and yet you’re like a mongrel
with a bone that won’t let go of a point that I never even made. I don’t think you’re the full ticket.

Also, you’re completely wrong. Again! My child will be entitled to 15 hours in September, 30 from September ‘25. I very much expect that by that point I won’t be entitled to UC at all as my childcare bill will be so low (about £500pm) and so at that time I’ll switch to tax free childcare vouchers.

Seriously get a life and a bloody brain.

Startingagainandagain · 24/02/2024 14:39

@BouncingJAS ''If you do not understand what a net taxpayer is, then stop commenting.''

The definition of "net contributors" refers to people living in households paying more in direct and indirect taxes than they receive in cash benefits, benefits-in-kind and government services.

It does not use a crystal ball to look into the future to forecast whether the person will be a burden on the state and need more money that it contributed in tax while working. It looks at the contribution that is made now.

This describes me as someone who does not depend on any help from the state.

But keep digging...

whistleblower99 · 24/02/2024 14:40

Heartbreaktuna · 24/02/2024 14:15

And here we see the dunning kruger effect in full force.

This.

User8646382 · 24/02/2024 14:55

orangesareorangey · 24/02/2024 14:38

What are you even on about? My original comment on this thread was in response to a woman boo-hooing about how hard done to she and her partner were because they have to live on a lowly £150k in London and, shock, have to pay living costs.

I then remarked that you were wrong to suggest that everyone on UC pays just £100pm towards there childcare as this is demonstrably wrong by my own lived experience as I pay £510pm (with UC picking up the remaining £530). I have not bemoaned how much I pay on here at all or ever on MN and yet you’re like a mongrel
with a bone that won’t let go of a point that I never even made. I don’t think you’re the full ticket.

Also, you’re completely wrong. Again! My child will be entitled to 15 hours in September, 30 from September ‘25. I very much expect that by that point I won’t be entitled to UC at all as my childcare bill will be so low (about £500pm) and so at that time I’ll switch to tax free childcare vouchers.

Seriously get a life and a bloody brain.

No, your point was that I don’t understand how UC works, and I most certainly do.

The point of the thread is that the woman on £100k (I’m pretty sure it wasn’t £150k) pays in the region of 2 grand a month for her nursery fees and receives no help. People on UC, on the other hand, pay £20 - £500 a month. When I pointed this out, you said I was stupid. You keep saying this, but in your comment below, you have basically agreed that your childcare bill will be basically nothing when you are in receipt of 30 hour funding. Which was my point to start with.

Really, it’s not a good look to call people stupid. Not when you are so clearly driven by envy and greed. It makes you look small.

I can only imagine how long it takes you to pay your nursery bill each month.

orangesareorangey · 24/02/2024 15:11

User8646382 · 24/02/2024 14:55

No, your point was that I don’t understand how UC works, and I most certainly do.

The point of the thread is that the woman on £100k (I’m pretty sure it wasn’t £150k) pays in the region of 2 grand a month for her nursery fees and receives no help. People on UC, on the other hand, pay £20 - £500 a month. When I pointed this out, you said I was stupid. You keep saying this, but in your comment below, you have basically agreed that your childcare bill will be basically nothing when you are in receipt of 30 hour funding. Which was my point to start with.

Really, it’s not a good look to call people stupid. Not when you are so clearly driven by envy and greed. It makes you look small.

I can only imagine how long it takes you to pay your nursery bill each month.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Stay healthy, hun ✌️

Trolleysaregoodforemployment · 24/02/2024 15:27

Neurodiversitydoctor · 24/02/2024 09:27

Not comparatively they don't. They are also net beneficiaries. This is in no way denigrating the jobs done by people on less than £41K, but it is just a fact. If you earn less than this you do not cover your own costs.

Do you have a source for this? I have been trying to find an accurate source for how much the working population would need pay in tax for the government to be able to cover its costs. I know it has not been particularly good at that in the last few decades.

BouncingJAS · 24/02/2024 15:36

Trolleysaregoodforemployment · 24/02/2024 15:27

Do you have a source for this? I have been trying to find an accurate source for how much the working population would need pay in tax for the government to be able to cover its costs. I know it has not been particularly good at that in the last few decades.

Am not sure where the £41k per taxpayer came from, but for households it is roughly £55k/year.

ONS looks at the effects of taxes and benefits

https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/personalandhouseholdfinances/incomeandwealth/bulletins/theeffectsoftaxesandbenefitsonhouseholdincome/latest

Effects of taxes and benefits on UK household income - Office for National Statistics

The redistribution effects of individuals and households of direct and indirect taxation and benefits received in cash or kind, analysed by household type.

https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/personalandhouseholdfinances/incomeandwealth/bulletins/theeffectsoftaxesandbenefitsonhouseholdincome/latest

newmummycwharf1 · 24/02/2024 15:43

BestBadger · 24/02/2024 11:22

You could compensate by shifting tax from individuals to corporate and consumption taxes and shifting from earnings to wealth. We have higher than the OECD's average of individual tax but lower than the OECD average for corporation tax. We also have a lower social security tax than average.

But it's all a moot point when government revenue isn't being spent in our best interests and we continue to vote to make ourselves poorer.

If you want a successful economy, the single biggest investment that guarantees a return is education. Something like £3 back for every £1 invested.

We don't have evidence based politics, we have ideologically driven politics, which currently sees publicly raised funds and assets being handed over to private companies.

Cant shift to wealth if the high earners/wealthy are chased away, can you?

EasternStandard · 24/02/2024 15:46

newmummycwharf1 · 24/02/2024 15:43

Cant shift to wealth if the high earners/wealthy are chased away, can you?

France tried a wealth tax it didn’t work. They lost revenue

User8646382 · 24/02/2024 16:17

Universal ‘free’ childcare for all would not work in this country. People were outraged when the ratios for 2 year olds were increased to 5:1; there’s no way they would accept the 12:1 ratios (or thereabouts) that would be necessary to make it affordable. Childcare would cost the government about five times more than education - it would be ridiculous.

Trolleysaregoodforemployment · 24/02/2024 16:32

BouncingJAS · 24/02/2024 15:36

Am not sure where the £41k per taxpayer came from, but for households it is roughly £55k/year.

ONS looks at the effects of taxes and benefits

https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/personalandhouseholdfinances/incomeandwealth/bulletins/theeffectsoftaxesandbenefitsonhouseholdincome/latest

Thank you. That's really useful. I was curious to see how much each member of the available working population would have to pay in tax for there not to be a deficit.

Trolleysaregoodforemployment · 24/02/2024 16:46

EasternStandard · 24/02/2024 15:46

France tried a wealth tax it didn’t work. They lost revenue

How do we define wealth anyway? It seems to me that often when people talk about wealth they don't want to be fair they want to punish.

Saltandpeppero · 24/02/2024 17:13

Trolleysaregoodforemployment · 24/02/2024 15:27

Do you have a source for this? I have been trying to find an accurate source for how much the working population would need pay in tax for the government to be able to cover its costs. I know it has not been particularly good at that in the last few decades.

My math isn’t great but I think with all these figures surely it depends on what you claim and how many are in your household?

It can’t be 41K for everyone eg, a 2 parent household with 2 state educated children with a salary of 35K coming in and receiving child benefit (and possibly other benefits) must be very different from a single person with no dependents earning 35K.

Neurodiversitydoctor · 24/02/2024 17:21

Well obviously it's an average (mentioned earlier on the thread), yes it's much higher than you would think isn't it ?

AllTheChaos · 24/02/2024 17:23

BewitchedorBewildered · 24/02/2024 12:43

Slightly off topic but I don't agree with this at all. I have also worked in this type of role for a long time and I have medics in my family. No comparison whatsoever. They hold people's lives in their hands on a daily basis. There is no higher stress level than that and no deadline can even come close.

When I said nurses I should have included all medical staff, as like I said I don’t know how they do it. I cannot even begin to fathom it.

Muchan · 24/02/2024 17:47

Children become tax paying adults.
These adults pay towards our state pensions.

It's a necessity to create children to fund our pension, not a choice.

It's unsustainable to expect immigrants to contribute in taxes to fund state pensions.
The 8 million + immigrants that have come to the UK will eventually become old and the young will need to support them.

Workingmumoftwintoddlers · 24/02/2024 17:49

I am fortunate to be a high earner, so I'm not moaning and I recognise everyone's in different positions. And I solo parent twin toddlers. I appreciate everyone has different earnings, but paying for two 2yo children for childcare on one salary, plus house, bills etc... I'm in debt each month and heavily reliant on credit card. If I earned less right now I'd be in a better financial position; as I'd be eligible for lots of childcare benefits. That said, I recognise that once we're past nursery age (a while yet) and they start school, my salary should go back to being a benefit - so like I said, not moaning but for a twin mum, a solo parent, and earning over the threshold, finances are not a joy!

Marieb19 · 24/02/2024 17:54

I can understand your lack of sympathy but she will be paying a huge amount of tax and we need to keep women in the workplace. I am not in favour of people getting the allowance if they don't work (single) or both work for a couple.

Catniss123 · 24/02/2024 18:00

As a family with 1 high earner as I’m part time, i think it’s unfair. As others have said it should be done on family Income. I know a couple who are both on 80k so they take £160k combined and gets all the childcare benefits. We on the other hand earn £120k combined and don’t get the free 30hrs or the tax benefits. We earn 40k less than them ! Doesn’t make any sense !

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