It’s such a sad state of affairs when we’ve gotten to a point as a society where we can’t appreciate everyone’s value regardless of their earnings/profession.
We seem to bash those earning 100k plus for wanting a (small!) share of the pie that, let’s be honest, they are the main contributors to and we bash those on low income (often doing vitally important roles!) for needing that available support.
Children are economically crucial to the sustained success of any society, who do you think will be paying future taxes and contributing to enormous pensions etc.
IMO the system is flawed and early education should be funded for all children. Why does it start at 3/4!? What do the government think happens those first 3 years? Parents, typically Women, either quit their jobs or take a lesser role. Alternatively, you continue working and you find it really hard to the point it just becomes unsustainable. This is where we as a family are now. I have no problems paying our taxes whatsoever, but unless we can make use of the child support we are contributing very heavily to, we cannot sustain our jobs.
OH earns just over £100k (but no way to get this down below via pension contributions etc and in any case, it doesn’t feel nice to have to “fiddle” a way around this). I earn well but nothing near that. Our careers are London centric and not remote. For reference, our rent is £2500 pcm and nursery fees for our 1 and 2.5 yr old 5 days in nursery is £3600.
We can’t make it work anymore and are looking at what to do next, most likely, move abroad for the short term
or at the very least I will need to leave my job.
i also think the “don’t have kids if you can’t afford them” shouldn’t be said to anyone. High earners could afford their own kids if they weren’t contributing so heavily to support the kids of others, and lower earners need that support in order to have their own kids.