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To show you how much I love my new bag??

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chatenoire · 17/02/2024 12:35

I also fell in love with my other Gucci bag at the same airport...

To show you how much I love my new bag??
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Cornettoninja · 17/02/2024 18:06

MumblesParty · 17/02/2024 18:00

OP may love it, but I doubt she’d have bought it if it was identical but not Gucci…..

This has always been my sense too, it’s not really about how it looks at all but the feeling of exclusivity. Which makes no sense to me because you end up looking a way you don’t actually like.

Charlieradioalphapapa · 17/02/2024 18:10

In a world that’s currently got far too much despair, suffering and destruction in it, grab all the happiness you can. Enjoy your bag and your trip OP

tutttutt · 17/02/2024 18:14

redboots765 · 17/02/2024 17:15

@InterIgnis

It means old money though doesn't it. Old money rarely spend on flashy things. My neighbour is stately home rich. (actual Manor House) I get invited to dinner parties, everyone looks like they are wearing clothes from two dacades ago 😂 You might see an old Mullberry bag, but you can guarantee it's 30 years old, and from a time when handbags were not such status symbols.
You will be served incredibly expensive wine, and the guests cars will be a mix of AM and straw filled VW.

Oh here we go. I can assure you plenty of 'old money' love a good bit of bling. You are talking about old money who are asset rich but cash poor. Plenty of asset rich cash rich money are extremely happy to spend money on labels. The former simply don't have the means to buy stuff

PutThatDownNowPlease · 17/02/2024 18:14

I really like it! Enjoy your holiday x

ScareBrow · 17/02/2024 18:16

Woodyandbuzz1 · 17/02/2024 17:35

It's your opinion that it's 'tacky'. A lot of people would find what you like tacky.

Again some people will love those colours, others won't, and that's ok.

Op has stated that she bought it because she loves it, not for status.

You're stating your opinions as facts, which they are not.

Tacky is of course subjective. I find these logos tacky. But I have a bright pink plastic pineapple on a shelf and some other tat which I know are tacky. If someone told me that they hated my plastic pineapple and said it was tacky, I would agree! I would still love it though.

WinterLobelia · 17/02/2024 18:17

I like the bag. And I like oysters and champagne very much.

Out of my price range but why not if it brings you joy!

stormonasummerseve · 17/02/2024 18:17

I've never been a fan of Gucci (bags) but I like that for a spring summer bag to wear with a cute flippy summer dress somewhere in the bright sunshine.

Enjoy your hols OP. Hope the oysters don't come back to haunt you!

tutttutt · 17/02/2024 18:17

Ithinkitstimeforbed · 17/02/2024 17:26

@redboots765 I always see this about “old money” in old cars and moth eaten clothes. Is this truly people’s experience? I grew up in Chelsea, really wealthy area, people living in flats worth £2million and houses worth triple. Loads of Hermes, Chanel, goyard around. I wouldn’t say it was full of “new money” My friend’s school bag was Chanel, her dad is an earl and she’s definitely “old money” I do wonder where this stereotype has actually come from? Even the horsey crowd had designer stuff! So whenever I see this about really rich people not buying designer it makes me wonder.

Absolutely. I'm not sure who this old money is that MNers like to bang on about but I know an awful lot of the titled types and they have wardrobes that make me go weak at the knees. And personal relationships with Chanel, Oscar DLR, Dior, Bottega, Loro Piana etc. no tweed held together with safety pins or beaten up old Volvos

WinterLobelia · 17/02/2024 18:18

Charlieradioalphapapa · 17/02/2024 18:10

In a world that’s currently got far too much despair, suffering and destruction in it, grab all the happiness you can. Enjoy your bag and your trip OP

God yes and this.

Life is really properly quite shit right now. Take happiness where you can by the bloody throat, I say.

tutttutt · 17/02/2024 18:19

redboots765 · 17/02/2024 17:36

@Ithinkitstimeforbed Yes it's very true. They do have very expensive things but you won't really notice them if you see what I mean. Everyone shoots/ sails (not me) Dinner parties are private chef catered with staff.

It's not people with 6m pound houses, it's people who have to allow commoners access to the grounds, to fund the 1m roof repairs. 😂 It's a really interesting world.

Your experience of the landed gentry is very different from mine. Funny isn't it. Yours are all worn tweed, mine is Dior.

PegasusReturns · 17/02/2024 18:21

The ‘rich people don’t…’ always makes me laugh, as if rich people don’t do, or buy, whatever the fuck they want.

quite - it’s such a weird myth, combined with the idea that somehow the old money set with their “beaten up Volvo and granny’s cashmere” who inherited their wealth are better than the the sales manager or builder who have actually worked for their money. Such bullshit.

OP it’s a great bag - enjoy it

Runnerinthenight · 17/02/2024 18:23

bunnibee · Today 17:18

Runnerinthenight
Andthereyougo I don't know if you were being funny, but that statement made me smile :)

Alexa ís the name of a bag.

I know. I will have one some day I can justify it!

tutttutt · 17/02/2024 18:23

@InterIgnis Also, class doesn’t denote wealth. A lot of the sneering against ‘the flashy’ is often a case of sour grapes because ‘new money’ has popped up with more money than them, and thus needs to be put in their place.

Absolutely. But bizarrely lower middle class people who can't afford any of it love to trott out the narrative created by old money about new money.

It's flipping weird when it's spat out by 'no money' people 😂 trying to act all superior while scrabbling about carrying their Asda bag

redboots765 · 17/02/2024 18:23

@Ithinkitstimeforbed
😁 If it's not the roof, it's the rising damp, the woodworm, the windows. That's just parcel of owning a mansion house.

Also they don't really heat the houses, yes it's back tie, but Jesus have your thermals under and a wool wrap or you will get hypothermia. Large houses, even back in the time of servants and cheap coal were never warm, it's background heat.
It might not make sense to you, as I said it's a different world. Yes you maintain the boat and still go shooting and hire a shooting lodge or giant house. Yes you ski every year etc because that's what is done.

A different world. Lovely and interesting to have a taste of it though.

VoleChomper · 17/02/2024 18:25

InterIgnis · 17/02/2024 17:56

That seems to be the popular conception of what ‘old money’ is like, even if it doesn’t reflect the reality. Old money spends on what it likes, same as new money. People are people ultimately, you’ll find the understated and the ‘flashy’ across all social classes. Understated old money may not buy a Gucci bag, but that doesn’t mean they’re shying away from spending thousands on Loro Piana.

Also, class doesn’t denote wealth. A lot of the sneering against ‘the flashy’ is often a case of sour grapes because ‘new money’ has popped up with more money than them, and thus needs to be put in their place.

Thisssss!

The fawning on MN over so-called 'old money' drives me potty. As though inherited wealth is somehow more morally superior than earned wealth. When in reality the origins of family money is often so murky. And all that tosh about the poshos only wearing ancient cashmere and ancient Barbours and smiling benignly at everyone at the summer fete. Whilst the new money family were head to toe in Versace and taking turns to spit on the little old lady at the tea stall.

Give me strength.

CarterBeatsTheDevil · 17/02/2024 18:26

I'm sorry, I don't like this kind of post. I don't begrudge OP the bag, but posts like this just make people who would love a similar bag (or another Gucci bag, or the oversized Alexa that the OP is apparently already carrying), and who just don't have that sort of money, really miserable.

There's excited, happy sharing, which is lovely, and there's gloating, which isn't.

Westfacing · 17/02/2024 18:28

Lovely bag but not keen on the colour - although it does match Liverpool's away kit.

Well done you Reds!

PegasusReturns · 17/02/2024 18:28

Absolutely. But bizarrely lower middle class people who can't afford any of it love to trott out the narrative created by old money about new money

Agree, the narrative might have been created a century ago by old money but it is almost entirely perpetuated by the lower middle classes now. It’s absolutely routed in jealousy and so weird.

nonmerci99 · 17/02/2024 18:31

All money, no class 💁🏼‍♀️

InterIgnis · 17/02/2024 18:32

tutttutt · 17/02/2024 18:23

@InterIgnis Also, class doesn’t denote wealth. A lot of the sneering against ‘the flashy’ is often a case of sour grapes because ‘new money’ has popped up with more money than them, and thus needs to be put in their place.

Absolutely. But bizarrely lower middle class people who can't afford any of it love to trott out the narrative created by old money about new money.

It's flipping weird when it's spat out by 'no money' people 😂 trying to act all superior while scrabbling about carrying their Asda bag

Yup, I don’t think I’ve ever seen a so called expert ever actually be old or new money tbh.

I’m admittedly the dreaded new money (and imported too! Even worse!) but in my not insubstantial experience of old money, I’ve never known someone not buy a Gucci or LV they liked because it was Gucci or LV.

Ithinkitstimeforbed · 17/02/2024 18:33

redboots765 · 17/02/2024 18:23

@Ithinkitstimeforbed
😁 If it's not the roof, it's the rising damp, the woodworm, the windows. That's just parcel of owning a mansion house.

Also they don't really heat the houses, yes it's back tie, but Jesus have your thermals under and a wool wrap or you will get hypothermia. Large houses, even back in the time of servants and cheap coal were never warm, it's background heat.
It might not make sense to you, as I said it's a different world. Yes you maintain the boat and still go shooting and hire a shooting lodge or giant house. Yes you ski every year etc because that's what is done.

A different world. Lovely and interesting to have a taste of it though.

Yes but this is what I mean- it’s not a different world to me, it’s the people who I grew up with.I don’t know these falling apart and cold houses. This is what I think @tutttutt said what you’re describing sounds like they’re asset rich and cash poor, so the owning the boat with staff etc. doesn’t really make sense to me, it’s just such a disconnect to my own experience, that’s all.

InterIgnis · 17/02/2024 18:34

PegasusReturns · 17/02/2024 18:28

Absolutely. But bizarrely lower middle class people who can't afford any of it love to trott out the narrative created by old money about new money

Agree, the narrative might have been created a century ago by old money but it is almost entirely perpetuated by the lower middle classes now. It’s absolutely routed in jealousy and so weird.

Yup! It’s funniest when it comes from someone that on one hand claims to be against the class system, yet will very quickly turn around and use it in an attempt to pull rank on the upstarts.

Ramalangadingdong · 17/02/2024 18:35

I don’t like it.

PegasusReturns · 17/02/2024 18:35

Also they don't really heat the houses, yes it's back tie, but Jesus have your thermals under and a wool wrap or you will get hypothermia. Large houses, even back in the time of servants and cheap coal were never warm, it's background heat

more weird stereotypes Hmm

Chocolatepeanutbuttercupsandicecream · 17/02/2024 18:41

It’s a lovely bag OP! Just because it’s out of my budget doesn’t mean I begrudge you enjoying it 👜 (Although YABU not to put this thread in style and beauty where it belongs!)