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Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like

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Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 14:22

After all these interior design threads this is what I'm imagining everyone on mumsnets homes look like. Just curious if I'm way off because iv never been in a home like this. Maybe if the person is in their 80s. Do people really have bookshelves?

Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like
Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like
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Renamed · 12/02/2024 14:48

House doesn’t look like that, much more of a shambles - but does have floor to ceiling bookshelves- couldn’t be comfortable without them

KateTheShrew · 12/02/2024 14:48

Those pics do look a bit like my house. I do like a lot of colour, but for me it's block colours against white/neutral walls, no splashy patterned rugs.

Books, though.. yes, I have hundreds. And lots of bookshelves to put them on. The first thing we did when we moved into our current house was to get a joiner to build bookshelves into the alcoves on either side of the fireplace in the front room. Pretty much all of my friends and family have loads of books/bookshelves too. My job involves lots of books and my sister works in children’s publishing so she's always giving books to my kids. I guess we're just 'bookish' people.

I don't hang onto every book I've read and regularly donate some and buy second hand, but there's no way I could donate all of them. My house would feel bare and unwelcoming (to me, I don't necessarily think all houses without books are unwelcoming). My books aren't a hoard, they're a collection 😉

Edited to correct typos.

KreedKafer · 12/02/2024 14:48

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 14:29

I'm just really struggling to envisage what kinds of homes people have as nobody seems to like anything except bookshelves, plants and lots of colour

Most of that decor thread is just middle-class sneering. I wouldn't pay any attention to it!

AffIt · 12/02/2024 14:49

My office is lined with bookshelves - one day, I'll have a proper library (a room devoted to reading - amazing!).

I also have bookcases in the hall, living room, bedroom and kitchen...

I love audiobooks and can just about tolerate a Kindle for travelling purposes, but nothing will ever replace 'real' books for me.

IAmNotAVet · 12/02/2024 14:49

I find houses without books unnerving.

Ooh close, but no cigar!

Growlybear83 · 12/02/2024 14:49

I thought everyone had bookshelves of some kind?

CanadianJohn · 12/02/2024 14:49

ArchetypalBusyMum · 12/02/2024 14:35

I mostly want to know what hinges were used for the large door loaded with books!! The load on that door frame/hinges must be huge. 😁

The door-shelf looks as though it has 4 hinges. It is possible to get a spring-loaded wheel to support the handle-side of a heavy door... often drive-way gates and garage doors have a support wheel to prevent sagging.

DelurkingAJ · 12/02/2024 14:50

I had a Kindle. It was DH’s cunning plan to stop me bringing more books into the house. It failed. I don’t like e-readers very much at all. In my 40s. I reread books and if I don’t then the DC or DH May or do read them. Most of my childhood books are now being read by DSs. I was asked how many books we had once…the estimate was 1000s. Bookcases everywhere and DH’s next plan is built in ones (he’s essentially given up on culling them now that DSs are reading anything they can lay their hands on).

MorrisZapp · 12/02/2024 14:50

My mum's house looks like that! I love it. Mine has two bookcases but not wall to wall like those. I like lots of stuff to look at 😊

IfOn · 12/02/2024 14:50

KreedKafer · 12/02/2024 14:48

Most of that decor thread is just middle-class sneering. I wouldn't pay any attention to it!

Agree!

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 14:50

Perfect28 · 12/02/2024 14:48

Hey OP do you have kids? As pp mentioned, kids growing up in houses with books in do markedly 'better' than those without.

I do, they have books in their rooms we read stories before bed every night. I just don't like them in other parts of the house displayed it just looks cluttered to me

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vocalfryspeppermintcream · 12/02/2024 14:51

idontlikealdi · 12/02/2024 14:26

Yes we have bookshelves.

Do you not read?

I read all the time but have no bookshelves at all - it's really not difficult to imagine if you broaden your mind a bit.

Aarla · 12/02/2024 14:51

Those bookshelves look very similar to those we had built in when renovating our house. Not the furnishings so much.

MeMyBooksAndMyCats · 12/02/2024 14:51

I have a bookshelf with 100s of books & a kindle but my atheistic is more council state mum. 😂

Twoshoesnewshoes · 12/02/2024 14:51

We have lots of books and my house does not look like that!

BeaRF75 · 12/02/2024 14:52

My house isn't quite as nice as the pics, but of course I have have bookshelves! In the living room, spare room, office and attic. And that's on top of having over 1,000 books on Kindle. I can't live without books, and never throw them out. A house without books looks sterile and unloved to me.

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 14:52

Growlybear83 · 12/02/2024 14:49

I thought everyone had bookshelves of some kind?

No

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Octavia64 · 12/02/2024 14:52

No, not everyone has bookshelves or even books.

It's one of the reasons for bookstart, and why Dolly Parton set up a charity to give a book to every child.

Kids don't read if it isn't normal for their household and there aren't any books. There are plenty of households like that, although most houses with kids do have some kids books as the message has been getting out there that books are important.

It's also why most schools have a library - for the kids who have literally no books at home.

SiobhanSharpe · 12/02/2024 14:52

I reckon I have hundreds of cookbooks alone.
And I know many recipes are available online but also many are not.
I have complete collections of Elizabeth David and Jane Grigson's works, which are delightful to read, especially Jane who was both classically educated and a lively writer. I return to her books often and not just for the actual recipes.
So yes, we have bookcases.

Twoshoesnewshoes · 12/02/2024 14:52

It looks very similar to this…

Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like
GLC789 · 12/02/2024 14:52

See my "bookshelf" just beyond the bed. No books 😂. But I have books!! And a kindle! I just like to keep everything away from dust!

Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like
SnapdragonToadflax · 12/02/2024 14:52

This is so clearly a goady thread, it's barely worth replying to.

But just in case... yes, my house looks a bit like that, and yes of course I have bookshelves. I find it deeply weird when people don't. I have copies of my old favourites, to be re-read whenever I fancy them... that might not be for 10 years, but I like to know they're there. Plus I get books from the library, so I need somewhere to put them.

And the thought of children without books is unbearably sad.

Y6yhnsr5 · 12/02/2024 14:53

Growlybear83 · 12/02/2024 14:49

I thought everyone had bookshelves of some kind?

Seriously? Like, you thought everyone on planet earth had book shelves in their houses?

murasaki · 12/02/2024 14:53

I also think books add pops of colour in rooms with white walls that we can't paint as we rent. They fit the William Morris criteria as they are both useful and decorative.

Movinghouseatlast · 12/02/2024 14:53

Yes, I have bookshelves. I culled a lot of my books when I moved house but still have 2 large bookshelves full.

I'm not in my 80's. I don't understand why you are so disparaging about other people's choices though. If you are ' not much of a reader' as you say then you wouldn't have books to put on the shelves, so you have your answer.

I suspect a bit of inverse snobbery going on here.