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Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like

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Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 14:22

After all these interior design threads this is what I'm imagining everyone on mumsnets homes look like. Just curious if I'm way off because iv never been in a home like this. Maybe if the person is in their 80s. Do people really have bookshelves?

Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like
Is this what 99% of mumsnetters homes look like
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WaitingfortheTardis · 12/02/2024 14:54

Mine doesn't look like that. I love books and reading but have only a few bookshelves, most of the books I read I give away or have borrowed and give back. We have a lot of books for dd though, which are in her room.

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 14:54

Twoshoesnewshoes · 12/02/2024 14:52

It looks very similar to this…

I really like that

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SusanSHelit · 12/02/2024 14:54

My house is a similar style to those pictured though not nearly as big. I have multiple bookcases, all full of books. A cosy squishy couch, soft curtains over harsh blinds. Lots of wood and according to ds a jungles worth of plants.

I wouldn't have it any other way. A house isn't a home without books and animals (preferably cats)

JaneJeffer · 12/02/2024 14:55

I have bookshelves, book piles, book boxes, book bags

Perfect28 · 12/02/2024 14:55

Fair enough we all have different tastes. My books are my decor I love them. Different strokes...

SnapdragonToadflax · 12/02/2024 14:55

Also, I like clutter. Clutter is great, you can see all your stuff (which presumably you like), and you remember you own it. And it looks like humans live in your house.

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 14:55

GLC789 · 12/02/2024 14:52

See my "bookshelf" just beyond the bed. No books 😂. But I have books!! And a kindle! I just like to keep everything away from dust!

Love that can I ask where you got that grey vanity unit from iv been looking for something similar

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Ponderingwindow · 12/02/2024 14:56

We had a library in our last house. We packed it up when we moved and didn’t set one up in our current home. We have all the books in storage, but since we use our kindles, we decided to save the space and only have some out as needed.

BillionaireTea · 12/02/2024 14:57

I don't have the floor to ceiling books in the living room any more. This is due to getting rid of them through Kindle; just having less time to read than when I was in my 20s; rotting my brain through using my phone all the time; and, embarrassingly, because I don't think it's as cool looking as before, shelves with one or two ornaments and plants are in now.

But we still have 7 or 8 bookcases about the house, I just don't display them. Which I suppose equates to about 900 books.

I take a bag of books to charity about once a month.

My living room is plainer than those. More free floating shelves with inbuilt lighting, a deep rich colour on the walls, and far less traditional shapes for furniture and lampshades. Shutters not big swishy curtains.

OP what do you mean you can't think of what people are into? If you don't like books or plants, you might have in your living room...
Speakers and audio equipment and the music format of your choice (cd, vinyl etc)
Art on the walls
Things for pets
Musical instruments
Crafting or modelling stuff under way
Board games
Children's toys
Exercise equipment
A vast gaming chair with inbuilt haptic controls
a telescope to look at the neighbours
etcetera

SiobhanSharpe · 12/02/2024 14:57

I have a kindle and use it but it's not the same as reading an actual, physical book. And you can't loan your kindle book copy to friends... and it's not really yours, either.
There have been cases of Amazon taking back Kindle copies, (erasing them from your device) for various reason, which is appalling.

LoreleiG · 12/02/2024 14:57

I haven’t got rid of many books, hence book shelves. It’s not a status symbol, I am just a bit nostalgic about things (a hoarder)

I can understand not wanting book clutter. If I look too closely at my shelves I often want to chuck the whole lot out.

gwenneh · 12/02/2024 14:57

murasaki · 12/02/2024 14:47

How amazing to have such a family history of cookbooks!

I love it and I'm still discovering new things in them; every so often I'll look something up and find some hand-written note or recipe that I hadn't known existed before.

OhItsOnlyCynthia · 12/02/2024 14:57

Do people really have bookshelves?

Of course they do, you must know that people hold on to books for lots of reasons.

Our bookshelves aren't in rooms that people would see, but like most people we've gathered a lot of books over the years. Our house doesn't look like that though, we don't have a lot of things out on display.

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 14:58

SnapdragonToadflax · 12/02/2024 14:52

This is so clearly a goady thread, it's barely worth replying to.

But just in case... yes, my house looks a bit like that, and yes of course I have bookshelves. I find it deeply weird when people don't. I have copies of my old favourites, to be re-read whenever I fancy them... that might not be for 10 years, but I like to know they're there. Plus I get books from the library, so I need somewhere to put them.

And the thought of children without books is unbearably sad.

It's not at all I'm sure we can all have an adult discussion and agree to disagree on what styles we like. I was just surprised by the other threads as I don't know anyone in real life who has homes like being described

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Moier · 12/02/2024 14:58

I used to have bookshelves with hundreds of books.. but not for years.. l used the library.. then my kindle and de cluttered.. that does look like my sisters house with the bookshelves.. but her decor is Boho hippy including furniture.
Mine is a mixture of IKEA and Barker and Stonehouse.

CleverLemonCat · 12/02/2024 15:00

I have a bookcase in my bedroom, one on the landing and 3 squeezed against the wall in the box room! Couldn't imagine a life not surrounded by books, am having to get rid of some I will never read again (the majority I do) as have no room to fit anymore. None of my friends have bookcases, find it hilarious that I do! And no, my house is nothing like the ones in your pictures.

Oh, and have a few on the sofa as well!

Sophist · 12/02/2024 15:00

My house is quite like the second picture and most people I know are fairly similar. Why would having books in your house mean you are 80?

cancandt123 · 12/02/2024 15:01

I'm always reading. Constantly have many books on the go. I don't have bookshelves!

Newnamesameoldlurker · 12/02/2024 15:02

Teddleshon · 12/02/2024 14:24

The idea of having a house without bookshelves is quite simply horrific to me!!

Same!!

mondaytosunday · 12/02/2024 15:02

Not now with kindles. My husband had bookshelves in his office, my parents had some amazing art books, but I have very few. No space for them for one thing.

awitchoftroubleinelectricblue · 12/02/2024 15:03

We've got shelves with a few books on but they're full of everything else as well. We have clutter everywhere. We have tiny rooms and it looks messy everywhere.

Damaged27 · 12/02/2024 15:03

Sophist · 12/02/2024 15:00

My house is quite like the second picture and most people I know are fairly similar. Why would having books in your house mean you are 80?

It's not just the books that makes it look like the home of an 80 year old its the clutter the mismatched furniture

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Tetsuo · 12/02/2024 15:04

I do find the desperate rush to demonstrate how many books you are hoarding to be a little cringeworthy.

Physical books are not morally superior to their digital siblings for the most part.

Having 1000s of shitty paper-backs languishing on Billy bookcases does not an intellectual make.

WhereIsMyLight · 12/02/2024 15:04

We have bookshelves but my house doesn’t look like that. We have a bookshelf in the spare room, on that is a handful of books, for me they are books from childhood and for DH they are his favourites that he will re-read again and again. I will donate books or use the library, DH likes to collect them for evermore so one book shelf seems manageable. We do use kindle though so that helps keep it manageable.

We have another bookshelf in the study but that doesn’t actually have books on it, but collections of other things. Then we have some cube storage, and some of those sections have books in them but again they also store other things, so the cube storage in the living room has DC’s books, my craft books, toys, pens/sellotape/envelopes and other random shit that doesn’t have a home.

DC also has a toniebox and their tonies are on display on a shelving unit, I don’t know if that counts?

fromBodentoBandM · 12/02/2024 15:04

BitingtheSkirting · 12/02/2024 14:31

I've just noticed the 'door shelf' in the righthand picture and now I want one.

Bet it's hard to make the door close without dislodging a few, though.

II hadn't noticed either
We literally have books in every single room.

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