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noblegiraffe · 14/02/2024 13:07

So there's a non-Jewish poster trying to overrule Jews on what should be considered antisemitic?

bombastix · 14/02/2024 13:14

@Grandmasswag - I get that. But equally, the actions of the UK, its allies, long term foreign policy would all make that not a surprise to me.

Gaza really bothers me because it's the first time in my life I have seen something in the UK that is very similar to other divided societies in the world, where there are protests along religious lines, and that overwhelms national identity. It's going nowhere good if you say to people, yes, your religious identity is greater than your national identity, your obligation to neighbours and the wider community. People should think very carefully about where this will go in the end if they want a multiculturalism that has depended on non political discussion. It is absolutely foolish to imagine you can start asserting your religious identity can mean a greater leverage over a debate than anyone else. We are one society. Moral disgust at the conflict in Israel can be addressed in many ways. Politically you can address it and support peace. But putting religious identity as the why is a disaster for everyone.

jasflowers · 14/02/2024 13:16

Dogfisher · 14/02/2024 09:16

If that person was so unhappy, why didn’t they report it at the time instead of taking it to the most right wing paper in existence?

How did you know that they didn't report it though? Big assumption to make.

PLUS - Labour have only themselves to blame for this, they selected this anti-semite presumably well aware of his views. Of course the press are going to go for maximum impact - they want to sell papers and get clicks! Had the Labour Party not supported this man there would be nothing to see here.

You re clearly loving this embarrassment for Labour, thats very clear.

As you seem to quite like speculating that Labour knew all about this months ago and that they knew about Ali's anti-Semitic views.

Yet cannot produce any evidence for your two allegations whatsoever.

HelloWorldItsNiceToMeetYou · 14/02/2024 13:18

MandatoryLizLemonParty · 14/02/2024 13:01

Who on earth is blaming Jews worldwide for Israel's actions?

There was a post earlier in the thread that did exactly that.

It's interesting that you popped up shortly after the poster talking about Jews controlling the media disappeared.

Right. So that one poster on 20 odd pages of posts is in the wrong. Agreed. You referred to it as though it was Ali who had inferred that.

Wow, there must be another poster with similar views to mine. Is that really unthinkable? Search the usernames you'll see we're not the same person.

This level of paranoia is not healthy. Nobody is out to get you. There is no agenda. Just people who don't agree with you.

stomachamelon · 14/02/2024 13:18

@jasflowers serious question. Do you think no one in the room mentioned it until the mail got hold of it?

Dogfisher · 14/02/2024 13:21

You re clearly loving this embarrassment for Labour, thats very clear.
As you seem to quite like speculating that Labour knew all about this months ago and that they knew about Ali's anti-Semitic views.
Yet cannot produce any evidence for your two allegations whatsoever.

Seriously? 😂

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MandatoryLizLemonParty · 14/02/2024 13:33

HelloWorldItsNiceToMeetYou · 14/02/2024 13:18

Right. So that one poster on 20 odd pages of posts is in the wrong. Agreed. You referred to it as though it was Ali who had inferred that.

Wow, there must be another poster with similar views to mine. Is that really unthinkable? Search the usernames you'll see we're not the same person.

This level of paranoia is not healthy. Nobody is out to get you. There is no agenda. Just people who don't agree with you.

Right. So that one poster on 20 odd pages of posts is in the wrong. Agreed. You referred to it as though it was Ali who had inferred that.

Er... no I didn't. You asked who is blaming Jew [ish people] worldwide for Israel's actions and I told you who. I didn't even mention Ali.

Wow, there must be another poster with similar views to mine. Is that really unthinkable? Search the usernames you'll see we're not the same person.

Just an observation. And people can have multiple usernames and even multiple accounts. Not accusing you of anything, just saying.

Are you saying you have similar views to the poster who said that 'Jews control the media'.

Someonescatmum · 14/02/2024 13:36

Dogfisher · 14/02/2024 12:41

I also note that you have dodged a question which gets to the heart of where your opinions emanate from...

I am genuinely not sure what you mean by this? Can you please explain?

In answer to your question no, I do not think that what the Israeli govt is doing now is justified.

Why don't you agree with what Israel is doing?

HelloWorldItsNiceToMeetYou · 14/02/2024 13:38

MandatoryLizLemonParty · 14/02/2024 13:33

Right. So that one poster on 20 odd pages of posts is in the wrong. Agreed. You referred to it as though it was Ali who had inferred that.

Er... no I didn't. You asked who is blaming Jew [ish people] worldwide for Israel's actions and I told you who. I didn't even mention Ali.

Wow, there must be another poster with similar views to mine. Is that really unthinkable? Search the usernames you'll see we're not the same person.

Just an observation. And people can have multiple usernames and even multiple accounts. Not accusing you of anything, just saying.

Are you saying you have similar views to the poster who said that 'Jews control the media'.

Oh for goodness sake are you being deliberately obtuse?
No, I am saying that I am not the user you previously referred to. Which I think you are fully aware of.

HelloWorldItsNiceToMeetYou · 14/02/2024 13:41

Someonescatmum · 14/02/2024 13:36

Why don't you agree with what Israel is doing?

Do I agree with their genocide against the Palestinians
No I bloody don't. I think it's evil.

Dogfisher · 14/02/2024 13:47

In answer to someonescatmum

I think that the ground invasion of Rafah is a step too far. Where do the Palestinians go? I fully supported Israel in going after Hamas and trying to get back their hostages but the death and destruction is too much. It is not getting Israel anywhere and is losing them worldwide support.

As ever when men fight, women and children lose their lives and this happened to the Jewish people on Oct 7 and to the Palestinians ever since Israel started their campaign.

Hamas should stop firing their rockets at Israel and hand over the hostages so that a ceasefire can be brokered but I do not think that they will do this. So it will be left to Israel to negotiate a peace of sorts but I do not know how viable this is now.

Its a huge fucking mess and my heart breaks for all of the Jews and Palestinians who have been harmed and killed.

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MandatoryLizLemonParty · 14/02/2024 13:54

HelloWorldItsNiceToMeetYou · 14/02/2024 13:38

Oh for goodness sake are you being deliberately obtuse?
No, I am saying that I am not the user you previously referred to. Which I think you are fully aware of.

I didn't say you were the same.

You were the one who referred to the Anti-Semetic poster as "another poster with similar views to mine".

Someonescatmum · 14/02/2024 13:56

Dogfisher · 14/02/2024 13:47

In answer to someonescatmum

I think that the ground invasion of Rafah is a step too far. Where do the Palestinians go? I fully supported Israel in going after Hamas and trying to get back their hostages but the death and destruction is too much. It is not getting Israel anywhere and is losing them worldwide support.

As ever when men fight, women and children lose their lives and this happened to the Jewish people on Oct 7 and to the Palestinians ever since Israel started their campaign.

Hamas should stop firing their rockets at Israel and hand over the hostages so that a ceasefire can be brokered but I do not think that they will do this. So it will be left to Israel to negotiate a peace of sorts but I do not know how viable this is now.

Its a huge fucking mess and my heart breaks for all of the Jews and Palestinians who have been harmed and killed.

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Would you go as far as to call it genocide?

HelloWorldItsNiceToMeetYou · 14/02/2024 14:00

I think that is so important. Although I don't agree that they were solely after Hamas earlier on, the ground invasion is a new level of awful. I get that the actions of Hamas are abysmal but that doesn't justify harming a single innocent in my view. And there were atrocities on both sides before the incident last autumn.

I believe that some of the actions of the UK government that allegedly represent me are evil. Does that make me and my young children a legitimate target of violence by those the UK government has wronged? I feel that this is the view aimed at Palestinians.

Most of all I am disgusted with the UK government (and obviously other governments but they don't represent me) that their priority has not been to work towards a ceasefire and peaceful resolution whatever the views of opposing sides are. If there had been unified pressure from across the world to pursue a peaceful solution and put diplomatic and commercial pressure on Israel to do so many lives could have been saved and such trauma could have been stopped.

I feel that human life is of greater importance than any aspect of the conflict.

I think that is where a lot of my frustration comes from, I think there are a lot of people who just don't want to see innocents being torn to pieces, who are being told that they are antisemitic for feeling that way.

HelloWorldItsNiceToMeetYou · 14/02/2024 14:02

MandatoryLizLemonParty · 14/02/2024 13:54

I didn't say you were the same.

You were the one who referred to the Anti-Semetic poster as "another poster with similar views to mine".

Well that's the exact opposite of what I have been posting, which makes it very odd that you think we are the same person?

Dogfisher · 14/02/2024 14:03

Would you go as far as to call it genocide?

I don't think that's Israel's intention.

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stomachamelon · 14/02/2024 14:03

apple.news/AZh5YRLfFQsiEIzeZ_6eUOQ

Guardian opinion piece.

dapsnotplimsolls · 14/02/2024 14:07

Guardian?

MandatoryLizLemonParty · 14/02/2024 14:13

HelloWorldItsNiceToMeetYou · 14/02/2024 14:02

Well that's the exact opposite of what I have been posting, which makes it very odd that you think we are the same person?

What's the exact opposite?

I never said you're the same person. You just said that you have similar views. 😕

Someonescatmum · 14/02/2024 14:50

Dogfisher · 14/02/2024 14:03

Would you go as far as to call it genocide?

I don't think that's Israel's intention.

But is it though?

I think it is. I'm not sure if that's an antisemitic thing to say?

stomachamelon · 14/02/2024 15:00

@Clavinova sorry was in the i.
Apologies

deragod · 14/02/2024 16:26

I've stop counting after the third person.
So many threads, apparently half of mumsnet been to Auschwitz and yet still blissfuly ignorant.

How many times it must be said before you will try to learn something about the issue of antisemitism.

Judaism = religion, Jew = ETHNICITY.
Atheism is a mainstream position in Israel.
Judaism contrary to Islam and Christianity is not seeking converts being an ETHNO religion. In very reductive terms there are three branches of Judaism. One won't let you convert if you are not Jewish. Other two will after years of work on proving you got what it is all about and there still must be some connection to ETHNICITY - it can be a marriage but there are still complicated rules.

So, let me tell you that. Jews are victims of ethnic cleansing right now.
Murdered because ETHNICITY. Culture destroyed - ever wonder why there is only a 'wailing wall'? ever wonder what been there before Al - Aksa? There is a patter.

I love comparison to NI. A country where there is till almost 100 walls in the capital city. But you call a BORDER wall between Israel and Palestine prison.
Whatever you think about IRA, Dublin based terrorists did not fire rockets at NI every day randomly at every opportunity. something Hamas does constantly.

Also, Israel's history is more akin to history of Central and Eastern Europe but it is another subject not well known among 'Western' public.
Poland was off the map for 123 years mutilated by three Empires. I would advise not to tell Poles that they do not have a right to own country as a result of being victimised for too long - it won't go well. Own national state is a luxury for the 'Westerners'?

dapsnotplimsolls · 14/02/2024 16:38

'Jews are victims of ethnic cleansing right now' - are you sure?

Dogfisher · 14/02/2024 16:39

I think it is. I'm not sure if that's an antisemitic thing to say?

Someonescatmum I am not sure if you are being sarcastic here but I shall assume not.

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