yes i am.

[cheesesarnie]

do you feel funny/uneased when talking to exes about relationships?i know i have no right what so ever to feel anything.we were together years ago only for a year.i just find it odd.im married with children,hes not but i find him talking about dates etc bit funny.i know ib very u!

Feeling uneasy is normal I reckon. Being unreasonable and being normal are not mutually exclusive. I still feel weird sometimes too. Most of my exes were at my wedding.... Odd.

really!?good that you think its normal.

It's not unreasonable to feel whatever you are feeling. But it would be unreasonable to make this in some way the other person's problem - ie, you have no need to let him know about your feelings. He has every right to date who he likes and have hot pirate sex with an entire women's netball team if he wants to.

Second what MZ says. Especially about the hot pirate sex.

!no id never dream of telling him-its none of my buisness.id just rather he would keep it to himself.

Sounds like you're being completely normal then

good good.

CS: Ok, if he is going into detail with you (rather than just mentioning it when appropriate ie you say, what did you do last Friday and he says I went for dinner with my girlfriend) then he is the one behaving a bit inappropriately. You don't need to know that she likes to go on top or shouts 'Dig for Victory' at the moment of orgasm or any such stuff, but most people mention in conversation at some point whether or not they are dating, because points in conversation occur where it would be a bit of an issue to conceal the fact that you are dating/shagging/living with someone.

thanks.very good advice.

What's hot pirate sex?

dont ask.nowt to do with me though.

Now I really want to know more about hot pirate sex - Madamez?