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Weighting for the backlash

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quisensoucie · 09/02/2024 08:01

Weighing aeroplane passengers is not a new phenomenon, so the 'fat-shaming' trope is rather misplaced
'In the early days of air travel, Airlines frequently weighed passengers and even crew to properly balance the smaller, less sophisticated aircraft, according to the Smithsonian.

Passenger weight can have an impact on another aspect of flying: seat size.'
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=www.smithsonianmag.com/air-space-magazine/then-amp-now-a-weighty-matter-46320857/&ved=2ahUKEwi8--2O452EAxU2a0EAHa-9B8sQFnoECCsQAQ&usg=AOvVaw36nIvu41LW3mTW1jC32O9v

https://www.independent.co.uk/travel/news-and-advice/airlines-weigh-passengers-check-in-baggage-cargo-balance-a8860071.html

This is a safety issue, not about making larger people pay more. But again, the science and physics are dismissed because 'feelings'

https://www.google.com/url?opi=89978449&rct=j&sa=t&source=web&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.smithsonianmag.com%2Fair-space-magazine%2Fthen-amp-now-a-weighty-matter-46320857%2F&usg=AOvVaw36nIvu41LW3mTW1jC32O9v&ved=2ahUKEwi8--2O452EAxU2a0EAHa-9B8sQFnoECCsQAQ

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Wasbedeudetetdas · 09/02/2024 09:42

@Newusernameforthiss

Someone impinging on your space... That's the reality of contemporary air travel... It sucks but there it is! Much prefer the train for this reason.

Someone being so large that they are spilling into my seat should not be the 'reality of contemporary air travel' though. If you don't fit in one seat you should be paying for another seat. Alas trains don't go all the places that planes do, however I prefer to take boats than planes (live on an island) as you can get up and move around more.

5128gap · 09/02/2024 09:43

There is often very little 'dignity' or accommodation of people's sensitivities in a process that can require you to let a stranger rummage through your personal belongings, do a pat search of your body, xray you, require you to explain your medical needs to a lay person, including those relating to continence/ostomy, move your body around so your wheelchair can be checked etc. If we chose to fly, its generally with the acceptance that security and safety procedures mean we are not afforded the usual levels of privacy and dignity. I don't know how much a person's weight really matters, but if it does, then in light of that, stepping on a scale doesn't seem that big a deal.

Newusernameforthiss · 09/02/2024 09:49

quisensoucie · 09/02/2024 09:42

@Newusernameforthiss Please do not accuse me of hating fat people. You know nothing of my life
And are Finnair and the other airlines giving the wrong ratioale to weigh people

OK OK I'm sorry I said you hate fat people. You're right, I don't know anything about you.

But I do know that weighing passengers would just slow the whole airport experience down for everyone, and is another stick used to beat larger people - who are just trying to live in society and go on a plane, the same as everyone else - for a problem which isn't really a problem because commercial planes are big and safe enough to fly with whole rugby teams/larger people/vast mountains of luggage on them.

Its Not "because feelings" it's because it really isn't an issue. So just trying having a bit more empathy 🤗

Newusernameforthiss · 09/02/2024 09:51

Wasbedeudetetdas · 09/02/2024 09:42

@Newusernameforthiss

Someone impinging on your space... That's the reality of contemporary air travel... It sucks but there it is! Much prefer the train for this reason.

Someone being so large that they are spilling into my seat should not be the 'reality of contemporary air travel' though. If you don't fit in one seat you should be paying for another seat. Alas trains don't go all the places that planes do, however I prefer to take boats than planes (live on an island) as you can get up and move around more.

I also love a boat!! So civilised. Planes aren't really that nice any more and seats have got smaller and smaller over recent decades. You need to take that up with airlines, not passengers 🤷‍♀️

Ponoka7 · 09/02/2024 10:02

@FixTheBone it isn't a human right, but companies providing services do have to abide by equality acts, charters etc.

If airlines were concerned with safety then all families would be automatically sat together. One of the reasons why no-one died in the Tokyo plane fire was because there didn't need to be hesitation because families are sat together. Bags have a weight limit because they have to be lifted by baggage handlers, people don't.

Wasbedeudetetdas · 09/02/2024 10:03

Newusernameforthiss · 09/02/2024 09:51

I also love a boat!! So civilised. Planes aren't really that nice any more and seats have got smaller and smaller over recent decades. You need to take that up with airlines, not passengers 🤷‍♀️

Passengers of above average size also have a responsibility.
Boats are fine when it's not too rough (or too smooth) - it's been a bit crazy here recently with weather related cancellations!

WinterLobelia · 09/02/2024 10:07

As a person with a 45 year history of eating disorders I am oddly not bothered by this. (As long as only the flight staff see my weight and not DH - or my mother who has fat shamed me also for 45 years... )

therealcookiemonster · 09/02/2024 10:10

what a non issue. the real problem is overly cheap flight tickets encouraging us all to jet off to various destinations and increasing our carbon footprints.

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MrsSkylerWhite · 09/02/2024 10:13

You’ll be weighed with your carry on luggage and it will be seen by 1 person and not recorded anywhere. Can’t see the problem.

Pandadunks · 09/02/2024 10:17

‘Oh, give over. Not goady, raising a point.
But clearly hit a button with you’

what IS that point though? Planes are safe without weighing passengers, and airlines don’t usually implement any passenger weighing system because it’s expensive and unnecessary.

I would say the only people really interested in changing the whole system are probably the ones who stand to make money out of selling airlines all the equipment needed to make weighing people feasible.

And it we’re talking ‘comfort’ of passengers when bigger people sit beside them - well, that’s not going to change with a weighing policy is it?

I’m actually quite small and the most uncomfortable flights I’ve had have been sitting beside really tall men, regardless of their weight because they take up so much leg room, or sitting beside someone who needs to go to the loo constantly.

EffortlesslyInelegant · 09/02/2024 10:18

PictureALadybird · 09/02/2024 08:02

YANBU. People are too sensitive about their weight.

Everyone can see you! If this bothers you, put some effort into losing the weight.

Oh dear. Someone left the gate open at the dick farm this morning 🙄

FrangipaniBlue · 09/02/2024 10:20

Do they not just use the leftover fuel for the next flight? 😂

Nope. There are restrictions on how much fuel they are allowed to have on board when landing (for safety, fire/explosion risk) so if they are carrying over that they have to fuel dump.

Pandadunks · 09/02/2024 10:20

‘what a non issue. the real problem is overly cheap flight tickets encouraging us all to jet off to various destinations and increasing our carbon footprints.’

yup - this.

Pandadunks · 09/02/2024 10:20

EffortlesslyInelegant · 09/02/2024 10:18

Oh dear. Someone left the gate open at the dick farm this morning 🙄

😂😂😂😂😂😂

FrangipaniBlue · 09/02/2024 10:21

AIstolemylunch · 09/02/2024 08:33

this seems perfectly fine and rational to me. people want greener travel and the airlines are trying to do their bit. Knowing the total weight of everybody and everything on the plane will aĺow them to be more precise about fuel allocation an use less as currently they guesstimate and add more than is necessary.

Asking people to step onto some sort of pressure pad at check in isn't humiliating them. They're not going to broadcast the weight.

Pretty much this!

CranfordScones · 09/02/2024 10:23

It's not just about airline profits, though that's a factor.

It's not uncommon for passengers to be bumped off flights because the aircraft can't meet it's take-off weight. It's common in hot weather (because the air's thinner which reduces lift) and at smaller airports and on longer flights (because they have to carry more fuel).

In many cases they wouldn't have to bump people if they weighed them accurately, rather than making assumptions which err on the cautious side.

But the principles of engineering have to end where some people's feelings begin.

Think about that next time you're bumped off a flight.

MartinsSpareCalculator · 09/02/2024 10:24

If you're travelling on light aircraft you'll probably still be weighed.

It isn't really relevant when you're flying on a jumbo jet, where the weight of the passengers is distributed is fairly immaterial.

TinselTitts · 09/02/2024 10:25

EdinGirl · 09/02/2024 08:04

There are many, many reasons that people are overweight.

Including trauma, hormonal imbalance, genetics, disabilities, finances, pregnancies... The list goes on.

Humiliating people is not the answer.

We have been flying around just fine without this, it doesn't need to come back.

It is a dangerous path to go down with ozempic making the rounds and people going back to the "heroin chic" of a few decades ago.

It is a dangerous path to go down with ozempic making the rounds and people going back to the "heroin chic" of a few decades ago.

63% of British adults are not going back to the 'heroin chic' route, according to obesity statistics.

MartinsSpareCalculator · 09/02/2024 10:27

Wasbedeudetetdas · 09/02/2024 08:10

I like the idea of everyone having an allowance, which includes weight of person + baggage, and anything over and above = charge.

I also think that if you don't fit comfortably in one seat without impinging on anyone else's space then you need to pay for an extra seat - it might not be your fault you that take up extra space but neither is it the fault of the person who is allocated the seat next to you. Ideally these extra seats would be at a supplement rate as opposed to whole seat rate, however that might increase the overall seat price for everyone so that the airline is still making the same money per seat!

And this would be fine and well if all aircraft had armrests that could be fully raised between seats, and all airlines adopted the policy of not overbooking and thus giving away second seats to other passengers.

I read a blog by an oversized traveller who has pointed out many issues, of which those are just 2.

FrangipaniBlue · 09/02/2024 10:31

DRS1970 · 09/02/2024 09:32

I wouldn't mind paying more for being large if they reciprocally allocated me more space to accommodate my larger size.

Extra legroom seats are also wider, so you are free to book those and pay are you not?

NotQuiteNorma · 09/02/2024 10:32

There are many, many reasons that people are overweight.

Including trauma, hormonal imbalance, genetics, disabilities, finances, pregnancies... The list goes on.

The reasons are irrelevant to the context. Do we need in flight counselling as well?

LoveBluey · 09/02/2024 10:32

I think they do take passenger distribution in to account on the smaller planes. I flew from Southampton to Scotland and was sat next to a stranger. I asked if I could move to an unoccupied pair of seats and the stewardess said she'd have to check with the captain because the seating plan is looked at before take off to ensure everything is balanced.

They didn't know individual passengers weights but they certainly took it in to account.

I did eat salad for a while after that comment!!!

Cestfoutu · 09/02/2024 10:46

When in holiday in Costa Rica, we took a number of flights in small planes and every time had to get on the scales with our luggage. A couple on one flight were cross because a previous flight they were on was too heavy and as they were last to check in they had to remove half the contents of their suitcases which would travel on a later plane to (hopefully) catch up with them. I suppose if you scale it all up, there is no reason why the same shouldn't happen in a larger plane?

MartinsSpareCalculator · 09/02/2024 10:48

The weight thing also penalises taller people, who in the majority of cases will weigh more than somebody shorter. So my mum is 147cm and weighs about 45kg. My dad is 193cm and weighs around 95kg, so double what my mum weighs. They're both healthy weights.

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