In my parents' school days, those who didn't pass 11+ ended up being factory fodder. They left school at 15. Kids with learning difficulties and from troubled backgrounds fared even worse. A whole generation of possibilities from within the working class wiped out. They didn't have the medical knowledge we have now. They didn't even know that smoking cigarettes caused cancer.
Dh (10 years older than me) is an intelligent man. He came from a good family. He couldn't focus at school, found it boring, left without qualifications to join the RAF.
When I was at school, there was a really clever boy. He often ran out of class crying. He spent long periods out of school, just couldn't cope with the demands of the school day. All the kids looked at this weirdo kid, shrugged and got on with their education. Looking back he had chronic anxiety. Today, he's stacking shelves in Tesco.
Generations have been failed due to lack of awareness. Neurodivergence has always been there, and in large numbers, we just didn't know about it.
And in the last couple of years, our understanding has improved even further. It's not that girls don't have adhd or asd in the numbers seen in boys, it's simply that their presentation of symptoms is different. Their difficulties were missed. Girls, and their needs, as in other parts of life, have been massively overlooked.
With all this recent knowledge, I am sickened by the councillors' ignorance and they have no place overseeing the services we rely on. Dh returned to education years later, armed with greater knowledge that he's not stupid after all, he just learns differently to the methods used four decades ago. But that clever boy who had so much to offer the world aged 10 is still stacking shelves in Tesco.