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Should I have got any money

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Forgotmylogindetails · 04/02/2024 18:54

Ex husband moved in with me and my children.
I rented. He Contributed I think 30 a week for food.(15 years ago)

2 years later he then buys a house with a deposit half from my family half from his. £10k each All done as surprise ?!! Surprise I’m not on the mortgage but apparently there was deed of trust between my family and him.

Had a child with him before we moved.

Lived there for 3 years and contributed 100% of my wages.(Paid directly to his account was part time so maybe 600 odd but still 100%)

I left him due to various reasons (no violence or cheating ) and rented and he said he would pay the deposit back when he sold. He stayed a further 9 years.

paid no maintenance. I had to ask for half of what our daughter needed. No regular contribution. At all.

he sells house and makes £180k profit.

wont give deposit back. Nothing.

AIBU for thinking I should have had something for our daughter at least ?

OP posts:
Jk8 · 04/02/2024 21:01

Just to add - definitely file for divorce & apply for 50% of everything including the pension theres no love or loyaltys here

TheFormidableMrsC · 04/02/2024 21:18

Jesus! You need to apply to the court for a financial settlement! DO NOT divorce this man until you have done that. Don't wait another second. He will piss it all up the wall
and you are the entitled to at least 50%. Change solicitors and get on with this sharpish.

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