Please be kind, I’m not mentally well (getting support) and I tend to over stress over other things people find normal. I don’t want to talk to anyone in RL as to them it would appear a non-issue:
I’ve hired a cleaner and she hasn’t been yet. She’s been recommended by some school mums. My anxiety is I will (or DH will) have to pick her up from the station every time and drop her back off I feel this will really impact our weekends as we can’t really do much (I know I should have thought about this before but I didn’t know till I phoned her to arrange an initial appointment). Secondly as I work all week it looks like she will have to come weekends which is going to really impact the family time we have together plus really make it awkward for everyone whilst she’s here. Husband works away during the week so it’s only really Saturdays we have together as a family (the day she will come), Sundays husband usually goes to him mums and takes the kids and I’m home alone but I can’t have her here then as I will have no car.
im feeling so stressed.